As the saying goes, "I don't know who is close and who is far away; people are not poor, and they don't know who is thick and who is light." ”
Thousands of worlds, all things, changeable, and the human heart is even more elusive. Whether your feelings for me are true or false also need time to test in order to be able to see clearly and truly.
People, do not experience, do not grow, the heart, do not hurt is not strong; it is precisely with injury that they know to be prepared, and it is precisely because they are deceived that they learn to be cautious. The more you have experienced, the more you understand, and the better your mentality will be.
Life is hurried, but hundreds of years, growing up in experience, experiencing in growth, through a long and wise thing, meeting one person understands one person.
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In life, do you have the same experience as me: when you are beautiful, there are always a lot of people around you; when you are in a bad situation, those so-called "friends" not only avoid you, but even bully you.
Maybe this is the so-called world of cold!
Life is to have it and lose it at the same time. But some people also say that those friends who have made friends are not because they do not contact each other and lose their feelings, but time has changed many people and many things in the past.
In fact, I always feel that time is not wrong, it just helps you see a lot, whether you accept it or resist it, time never lies, it restores the truth.
Just like someone said: When you are hungry, some people will give you half of the steamed buns, which is friendship; some people will give you steamed buns to eat first, this is love; some people will give you all the steamed buns, this is affection; some people will hide the steamed buns, and tell you that he is also hungry, this is society.
As the saying goes: a long life, the true feelings are precious; the Piaoping passers-by, really rare.
We are in this hurried and realistic world, and there are many people who share your blessings and very few people who share your difficulties. The number of people who are weak and widowed is innumerable, and there are very few people who are dependent on each other.
In this world, there are too many things that can only be known as cold and warm if they have experienced them; too many people, only when they are sad, can they know whether they are true or false.
Although time does not lie, it tells the truth, but time is human, it can make you understand who is right and who is wrong.
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Mencius once said: "The acquaintance of man is in the knowledge of each other, the knowledge of man is in the knowledge of the heart." ”
The interaction between me and you, whether it is friendship or love, is to consider the exchange of hearts for hearts and warmth with affection. The so-called cast to the peach, in return to Qiong Yao. It is said that feelings are a balance, and if you are good to others, others will also regard you as a confidant; if you are hypocritical, others will also silently stay away.
In life, we will always meet all kinds of people, some people in the first contact, sweet talk, seemingly sincere, but after a long time together, only to find that it is just clever words, hypocrisy. Some people are not good at words, their eyes are clumsy, but when the time turns, they still accompany you forward, know what you need, give you what you want, even if they are not around, the heart has never been far away.
When I was young, I heard my parents say that it was a blessing to suffer losses.
Yes, when a person has survived all the suffering, he understands that it is not that you are good to others, others will be naturally good to you; when you wipe the tears from your face with dirty hands, you will understand that it is not that you are true to others, and others can be honest with each other.
You always have to go through something to know what kind of people are reliable and what kind of people need to stay away from.
Because there is a distance between people, there is a difference. People who are good to you are never calculating, as long as you need, they will appear next to you, and those who are hypocritical, when helping you, have to weigh the pros and cons, and even find various reasons to alienate you.
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Haruki Murakami said: "When the storm passes, you don't remember how you spent it, and you're not even sure if the storm is really over. But you are no longer the one who walked into the storm, and that's what the storm is all about. ”
A person can only grow better if he has truly experienced setbacks. Even if it is a bump, try it; even if it is suffering, it is better than a blank.
We often mention that "a person is mature", that is, to see through but not to see through, to see through and not to debunk; although the cloud on the face is light and the wind is light, the heart is actually full of emotions.
Just as the so-called loss is more, the blessing will naturally not be less, the injury will be more, and the distance from growth will be one step closer. Because the hardest place of the tree is the place of scarring, people are the same, through the wind and rain, in order to be stronger, there are floats and sinks, can be more calm.
If you like it, add a point of attention and praise, the real success of being a person is not to see who you know, but to see who else is willing to know you when you are down.
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