Text/Flying Fish
01
Sanmao said: "True happiness, not ecstasy, nor pain, in my subjective sense, it is a long stream of thin water, no waves, in the multitude of sentient beings, to be an ordinary person, to enjoy the joy of life for a moment, then even if we do not die, we are still in heaven." ”
Shaohua is easy to pass away, white hair and beard, into the age of fifty, only to understand life.
Fifty know the destiny of heaven, life has been up and down for many years, into the age of fifty, only to have a mature understanding of life, a recognition of life.
What is life? Good and bad are all life, ups and downs are life, sadness and joy are life, and life and death are life.
At the age of fifty, I began to understand, the gains and losses of life, the failure of human life, and family life, whether it is family affection, friendship, or love, I read it.
02
At the age of fifty, the child is older, and it is time for him to let go.
Many times, there are some quarrels with children, in fact, they feel that the children are older and no longer obedient, but if you think about it, who didn't come this way?
Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, we can't manage so much, don't say so much, the support is supported, don't be reluctant to let go, let go appropriately, in order to achieve children's lives, but also let themselves be relieved.
In fact, people don't have to be too nervous about their children's lives, when they become adults, they naturally have to bear some things, and naturally they have to experience some things, and only by letting them adapt to the cultivation of life can they really mature.
And we worry a little less, when life should be relaxed, relax, do not have to manage everything, manage more, after that, there is a contradiction, so properly maintaining distance is also a kind of wisdom in life.
03
Someone asked, after paying off the debt, what do you want to do?
I want to go out and have a look.
After the age of fifty, I want to go out to see the outside world, to see the great rivers and mountains of the motherland, and to be able to go out and walk around in my lifetime, which is also no regret.
Most of my life is trying to make money and pay off debts, in fact, it is not really my own life, so after the age of fifty, I want to live for myself.
Just like Su Min's eldest sister, she saved money to buy good equipment, took a driver's license, bought a scooter, went out to play, drove wherever she wanted, released herself, and finally liberated herself.
When people learn to live for themselves, even if life is not very rich, they are the happiest.
What is happiness in life? It is the smile that comes from the heart, and the happiness that you feel is happiness.
04
After the age of fifty, I gradually understood life, in fact, the ordinary is everyone's final destination.
When I was young, no one was willing to be ordinary, for life, for the ideal, trying their best, regardless of themselves, but after a year of age, I found that in fact, even if we tried our best, we were still living an ordinary life, still busy with three meals a day.
We must know how to be willing to be ordinary, accept the ordinary, live with all our hearts, honor and disgrace together, no matter what we experience, it is actually a scenery on the road of life.
Even after a thousand sails, we must maintain a positive attitude towards life.
As it is said in the "Clear Words of the World": "A person is born with troubles, and knows that he has no choice." And peace and security is the first key to standing. ”
As long as you have no distractions and live calmly, then even ordinary people can live happily.
05
At the age of twenty, maybe we can be unscrupulous, when we are thirty, but we have a family, we begin to become real adults, and at the age of forty, we are old and young, and we become the pillars of the family.
It is hard to survive to the age of fifty, life can be gently relieved, we have to learn to start our own life, looking for a good life.
Life actually can't stand the wait, busy for most of our lives, we should also consider our own lives.
After the age of fifty, life wants to open, see, let go, stop embarrassing yourself, maintain a good mood, do not envy others, do not sigh the world is cold, with a simple heart, ordinary mentality, to manage the second half of their lives.
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