Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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When men find that women have changed their minds, there is no place in the first angry questioning that is not "spitting" on women's infidelity, gratitude, and dissatisfaction.
Generally speaking, the proportion of affectionate people in intimate relationships is almost always women greater than men! Whether men admit it or not, this is an indisputable fact!
When it comes to changing hearts, most men take the kidneys, and most women go to the heart!
In an intimate relationship, the reason why women change their hearts, many times really need men to introspect! Otherwise, it is difficult to achieve happiness with anyone you are with.
We all know that feelings are two-way to have meaning and results. However, in the face of feelings, people who are too selfish and lead to different frequencies of management abound!
Some men will think extremely self-righteously:
Intimacy has been established, and "living well" is enough. There is no need to do too much unnecessary "management" at all.
There is no relationship in the world that can exist apart from business. Two people in an intimate relationship, the more in the real moment, the more they need to use ways and methods to operate.
Otherwise, the person who loves you deeply will leave you.
In the face of the truth that women change their minds, men will have the following extremes:
Self-abandonment, no longer able to believe in feelings;
Do incomparably rude acts to women to relieve the hatred in your heart;
Find the third party and solve the problem with your fists;
Gather all the women's relatives and friends together, simply lose their faces, and women don't want to live well!
None of these extremes highlight his introspection!
Women's change of heart, it seems to be a problem of self-love on the surface, in fact, there is still a man's "neglect" of women when they get along with them.
Human nature and the human heart will never stand the test. If someone holds a nice and delicious pastry and changes your hand with a hard nest, you will definitely agree!
A woman's needs in the relationship are either money or love!
Women who love money will be with you because of money; at the same time, they will betray you because of money!
If you meet a woman who is with you for the sake of love, then once the love you give her makes her discouraged, she will not only respond to you with desperation, but also "repay" you with a change of heart!
The human heart is greedy. At different times, expectations will continue to rise!
Human nature cannot stand the test! When a person is surrounded by disappointment all the time, he will show despair of all expectations. Thus, the direction of the change is found to be met by one's own needs.
And such a reality is most common in women in intimate relationships!
In intimate relationships, leave aside the woman who loves money. Why would a woman who only cares about being loved change her mind? Man, have a long snack!
The reason why amorous women change their hearts, men should know how to properly introspect:
First: pay attention to the actual needs of women
In the relationship, the nature of men is that they do not want women to take the initiative to ask too much, but they prefer women to go straight when expressing their demands. This point happens to be perfectly integrated with the woman's "duplicity".
Therefore, we often see some women who appear in men's vision as "women". In fact, some women's "work" is nothing more than to get men's attention.
Behind the tiredness and fatigue of men facing women's "doing" is the truth that they have never understood what women want in their hearts.
The more a woman loves you, the harder it is to be the satisfaction a man wants. Seeking a lasting relationship for love pandering to and deliberately "doing" for love to get a man's different attention are all difficult out-of-control performances for women when they are deeply in love.
Often, when men face such a woman, they only pay attention to the superficial form that the woman annoys themselves, but they never want to go into the woman's heart and see what she really thinks.
Because love is humble, pandering, afraid of loss. Because of love, it will suffer from gain and loss, and always make some movements to let men pay attention. All this is because of deep love, and the lack of "security".
If, a man can give a woman enough security and guide her to be confident, then the relationship will continue well.
Unfortunately, some men think that women are too "suffocated" by themselves. From ignoring the actual needs of a woman's heart to not caring at all about what she is going to do, this is the main reason why a woman's heart is getting colder little by little.
Emotional things, often people outside the circle will see more thoroughly. Therefore, a person appears and gives the woman the care and attention she wants, and the woman's heart follows.
After all, that feeling was something I couldn't have been satisfied with! Therefore, even if the person who appears brings himself deception, the woman recognizes it!
Second: emotional management requires a perfect combination of action and language
Emotional management is a big subject. Not many people can successfully graduate!
Those who did not manage well and can still work together in their later years are mostly because of the "discipline" of responsibility and reverence, so that the two people can not give up. However, many people are not happy to help each other to old age!
The reason is the lack of "management"!
People are alive, and it can be said that there is no one thing that is not "troublesome"! Even eating, you can't do a good absorption without chewing, let alone emotional management?
In intimate relationships, all contradictions come from not knowing how to operate and not wanting to operate! Once people are in an intimate relationship, occupying the time of not understanding and not wanting, the relationship will definitely break down.
In the emotional relationship, when there is a problem, the first time not to solve the problem, but from their own point of view to measure their grievances, there are many people.
Some men feel that women are okay in their normal time, and once they have a problem, they let themselves not know! Women's hysteria and emotional loss of control make men feel too "unreasonable".
In fact, if a woman is not mentally ill, then all her emotions are traceable! Please believe that most women's "venting" in their feelings is accumulated bit by bit of disappointment!
When the feelings cross the wind and snow into the chai rice oil and salt, the business is the official beginning. This means that the perfect combination of language and behavior can manage the emotional relationship to the extreme to the greatest extent.
Some women's change of heart is not really a change of heart, but in a way of distraction, to detach themselves from a man who makes them despair!
Men, most people think: I work hard to make money, what else are you not satisfied with?
Just want to say, if there is no woman, you can not have to work hard, do not have to make money?
Of course, I am not using this text to endorse women's change of heart and accuse men of their deservingness, but by letting men understand the real need psychology of women in intimate relationships, so that men understand that a qualified lover, it is not enough to work hard to make money!
In intimate relationships, once a woman is sad to a certain extent, desperate to a certain extent, she will desperately put out the fire.
Since an intimate relationship has been formed, it means that there is a great charm and attraction in each other, so that they can be combined with each other. When there is a problem between two people, empathy is the first thing to do.
Then, it is to open your heart to listen to each other's voices, and to meet each other according to each other's actual needs!
The feelings of men and women need the constraints of responsibility and reverence, and they need to be willing to operate and stabilize each other. Relying solely on personal intuition and self-determination of the form of relationship together, it is easy to let the other party lose the temperature of love and produce disappointment and despair.
People who have changed their hearts cannot be retained. Don't wait for the person you love to change his heart, you don't know how to self-reflect, this is the sadder thing than facing a lover's change of heart.
Two people together, to see each other's advantages to get along, do not stare at the shortcomings of life, the relationship will be long-lasting!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
Topic Discussion: What do you think is the biggest reason why women change their hearts? Leave your true words in the comments section below.