There are many kinds of evil in the world, and some evil deeds will even exceed our imagination. But in people's hearts, evil is also limited, for example, people often say that "tiger poison does not eat children", that is, even if the food is as fierce as a tiger, it will not eat its own cubs, then people should have the heart of loving their children, no matter how vicious people are, what kind of mistakes they make, they should not think of hurting their children.
There must be some truth to this saying that has been circulating for so many years, but there are exceptions to everything, and this saying cannot be reflected in every pair of parents. In 2010, there was a shocking case in Dongguan, Guangdong Province, in which a mother drowned a pair of her twin children.
The children were only 13 years old, and they were buried by their own mother, who had committed a heinous sin. Unexpectedly, after the case, thousands of people interceded for this mother, and even her husband felt that his wife was not wrong. Why did this mother drown her twin children, why did everyone intercede for her, and what kind of inside story was there?
Loving husband and wife, giving birth to twins with cerebral palsy
In September 1996, Han Qunfeng and Huang Zhuolin married in Dongguan, Guangdong Province. The young couple was looking forward to their future lives, when his wife, Han Qunfeng, was working as a lobby manager at a bank in Dongguan, while her husband, Huang Zhuolin, was a reporter at a local radio station. The work of the two people is not particularly superior, but they are also relatively excellent positions, and the salary and remuneration in that era are also very impressive, even if life cannot be rich and expensive, it is also very happy.
The two are very compatible in both work and personality, and they get along very well after marriage, and their families and neighbors feel that they are a match made in heaven. Couples are also very satisfied with their current life, but sometimes they also look forward to the arrival of new family members. Perhaps the heavens also sensed their hopes, and after two years of marriage, an exciting news came that Han Qunfeng was pregnant, and she was still pregnant with twins.
After learning that his wife was pregnant, Huang Zhuolin took good care of her, and the whole family was anxiously looking forward to the arrival of these two new lives. In order for the twins to be born healthy and safely, Han Qunfeng usually pays great attention to everything and is careful about everything. Unexpectedly, even if she was so careful, when she was seven months pregnant, an accident still happened, and Han Qunfeng was rushed to the hospital and gave birth to the twins early.
Because they were born early, the two children were very thin at birth, and the doctor found that their hands and feet were not moving for a while. As a mother, Han Qunfeng blamed herself very much, and the family members comforted her not to feel guilty while anxiously waiting for the doctor's news. Fortunately, the doctor finally announced that the two children were safe, at least surviving, but in the future they had to carefully observe whether there would be any other problems.
Soon after, Han Qunfeng was discharged from the hospital with his twin sons, and at that time, the child's growth seemed to be normal, so the family was immersed in joy and excitement. But Remembering that the two children were born premature, Han Qunfeng sometimes pays special attention to whether there is anything wrong in their daily lives. Sure enough, when the child was about two years old, Han Qunfeng found that the two children had been unable to learn to speak, even their parents could not shout, and often drooled uncontrollably.
The doctor told Han Qunfeng and Huang Zhuolin that because the child was born prematurely, a lack of oxygen occurred at birth, so both children suffered from cerebral palsy. The situation observed by Han Qunfeng is precisely because the IQ of both children will stay at about two years old, so even as they grow older, they still can't learn to speak, they will involuntarily drool, and they will also be accompanied by symptoms such as stunted growth and muscle atrophy.
Seek medical attention everywhere, massage treatments have a miraculous effect
After listening to the doctor's explanation, Han Qunfeng and her husband were stunned, and for a moment they did not know what to say. After returning home, Han Qunfeng was lying on the bed and couldn't sleep, as long as he closed his eyes, his mind would come up with the bits and pieces of getting along with his two sons in the past two years. She even involuntarily fantasized that if neither of the two children had suffered from cerebral palsy, they would now surround her and her husband and affectionately call Mom and Dad, how good it would be.
Although the doctor said that the cure for cerebral palsy was like a miracle and difficult to achieve, Han Qunfeng had an inseparable love for his two sons in his heart, and he absolutely could not really give up treatment like this. After the husband and family knew the news, they all advocated having another child, and the next child must be healthy, making up for the regrets of the two people. But Han Jinfeng believes that this is equivalent to abandoning the twin children, so he firmly disagrees.
Since then, han Qunfeng has spent all his time in addition to going to work, taking care of the twins and finding a cure for them. At the beginning, of course, they could hope to be treated in a big hospital, so they took their children to a lot of top three hospitals, but the results were not very optimistic. So they also began to take their children to private clinics, although the doctors would prescribe them some medicines in a decent way, but the effect was not very satisfactory.
One day Han Qunfeng overheard that through massage, it may be possible to treat cerebral palsy, alleviate the child's muscle atrophy, and maybe the child can restore the ability to stand and walk. She further learned that the clinic where this massage was most powerful was located in Shijie Town, which had cured many patients with cerebral palsy. Han Qunfeng was very excited to hear this, and immediately took the children to Shijie Town.
Before going here for treatment, Han Qunfeng's two sons had been asleep in bed, because their legs were as soft as noodles, and they had no strength at all. Han Qunfeng didn't expect them to be able to recover like normal people, only hoped that they could at least take care of themselves. After coming to the clinic in Shijie Town for more than a year of treatment, Han Qunfeng was pleasantly surprised to find that the massage actually had some effects, and the child was already able to be supported to stand or even move around.
For Han Qunfeng, such a small improvement is enough for her to be happy for a long time, and she even feels that since the massage method can restore the ability of the two children to walk, maybe one day the disease of cerebral palsy can be cured, then the two children can return to normal. Since they could only seek treatment from the clinic in Shijie Town at this time, for the sake of convenience, the family simply made a home in Shijie Town.
In order to pay for the high cost of treatment, both husband and wife still have to work normally, so they specially hired two nannies to take care of the two children during the day. Even so, Han Qunfeng still could not be completely assured, sometimes the bank had a short break at noon, she did not care about the morning break, she would immediately run home to feed the two children personally, until she saw that they were all asleep, and then she could return to the bank to continue to work.
Financially unsupported, he resigned to take care of his children at home
During that time, both husband and wife were under great pressure, they had to travel to two places every day, and at the same time they were worried about the health and safety of their two children. Gradually, Han Qunfeng found that the treatment of the clinic in Shijie Town did not seem to have the next step, and through several years of treatment, they had only learned to stand and say a few simple words for a short time, and the rest showed no signs of recovery at all.
This disappointed Han Qunfeng a little, because at that time, they had to pay the clinic up to 5,000 yuan per month for massages. At that time, this was a big expense, not to mention that because the massage effect was relatively slow, they paid the clinic almost adultly. At the same time, they also have to pay for two nannies, and as the children grow older, the nannies feel that their workload is getting bigger and they are constantly asking for salary increases.
Although the husband and wife's salary income is not low, it cannot support such a high expenditure. After weighing it up, Han Qunfeng finally chose to resign and go home to take care of his two children himself. In this way, the burden of earning living expenses for a family of four fell on her husband Huang Zhuolin alone. Making this decision is very difficult for both husband and wife, but thinking about it for the sake of children, it seems that there is no bitterness that cannot be eaten.
After resigning, Han Qunfeng began to stay at home and wholeheartedly take care of and educate his two children. Of course, it is her greatest wish for her children to grow up healthy, but at the same time, she also hopes that they can return to normal, so she will tirelessly help the two children to practice walking and teach them to speak. At the same time, she also kept an eye on the latest news on the treatment of cerebral palsy, and in a few years, she traveled almost all over Dongguan with her two sons.
How hard Han Qunfeng and his wife have done for their two children, the family and neighbors are in the eyes, although they can't experience it firsthand, they also know how difficult it is for Han Qunfeng as a mother. So sometimes, some neighbors will take the initiative to come to the house to help her do some simple housework and share her pressure. The relatives at home knew that in order to treat their two children, the couple spent a lot of money and almost spent all their savings, so they would send them some money on a regular basis.
After many years like this, perhaps the two children also felt the mother's good intentions, and one day, they actually said the "mother" that Han Qunfeng had been waiting for for a long time. For a normal mother, it is very common to be able to hear this title, but for Han Qunfeng, this is simply a miracle. This also makes her more determined that the efforts of the past few years are worth it, and she will be able to wait for the due return.
In the following days, Han Qunfeng was still at home alone to take care of her two children, and every time the child made a little progress, she would be very happy, but sometimes because the child could not learn a word, she would also become irritable. Of course, every time she got angry, she would guiltily hold her two children and apologize, knowing that she had been in a hurry. For more than ten years, she has been living in such a depressing environment and experiencing mixed feelings.
Hit again, he committed suicide after drowning his child
Although these days were hard, even if there was a little reward, Han Qunfeng felt extremely happy, but she did not expect that God would even take back her insignificant happiness. In 2010, the twins were 13 years old, and Han Qunfeng had been caring for them at home for nearly a decade. Although the child has not yet reached the level of being able to take care of himself, Han Qunfeng is still under tremendous pressure and is constantly working hard.
However, during a routine re-examination, Han Qunfeng was suddenly told by the doctor that the two children had suffered from muscular dystrophy. This means that the possibility of the two children returning to normal is even more slim, and Han Qunfeng, who learned of this news, suddenly began to wonder whether his persistence in the past ten years was meaningful. The doctor told her that once she suffered from muscular dystrophy, it not only meant that it could not be cured at all, but also meant that the patient had to suffer from pain every day.
In the past ten years, no matter how hard and tired, she never wanted to give up, but now after listening to the doctor's words, she suddenly began to doubt herself, almost like the sky had fallen. Han Qunfeng kept repeating the words said by the doctor in his mind, and suddenly a terrible thought came to mind: If the children are going to be tormented by illness when they are alive, then it is better to take matters into their own hands so that the children can get relief.
She began to plan silently in her heart, not only to kill her two children, but also to commit suicide and gain liberation with the children. Because the past ten years of life has really exhausted her, but the children are her only hope, if even the children are gone, there is no point in her living. In the end, Han Qunfeng set this matter on November 20 of this year, and it happened that her husband was going on a business trip on this day.
On this night, as usual, Han Qunfeng took care of his sons for a day, put them to sleep in the evening, and fed them some sleeping pills. Then she filled the bathtub with water, picked up her sleeping sons one by one, and pressed their heads deep into the water. Although the children took sleeping pills, instinct still made them start to struggle, and Han Qunfeng's heart was like a knife, but he still firmly held their heads until they stopped moving.
Then she put on new pajamas for her two children, put on her own pajamas, and took out the pesticides that had been prepared. The three of them lay side by side on the bed, and after Han Qunfeng drank the pesticide, he texted her husband with her last breath and said that I and the child had slept, don't disturb our sleep. Huang Zhuolin, who received the text message, naturally did not notice anything unusual, until the next day when he returned home, he smelled the smell of pesticides in his nose as soon as he entered the door, and saw that the three people were not normal, so he panicked and called the emergency phone.
It was too late, and although Han Qunfeng had survived, his two sons had already drowned. After recovering, Han Qunfeng was directly taken away by the police for investigation, and she was also prosecuted for intentional homicide. This news has attracted the attention of many people, but the public opinion is one-sided, sympathetic to the mother, and even many former neighbors have written petition letters, hoping to deal with Han Qunfeng lightly, and even the husband feels that his wife is not wrong. In the end, she was sentenced to five years in prison.
epilogue:
Perhaps the most moving thing in this case is the petition letter that is more than a dozen pages long and has been signed with thousands of names. Behind this letter also reveals how hard Han Qunfeng usually works to take care of his children, in fact, everyone can see it.
Han Qunfeng drowned two children and made a big mistake, which is beyond doubt, but is she really carrying too much responsibility and burden on her? In the final analysis, she is just a poor mother, there are many mothers like her, they should get more understanding and care from society, in order not to go astray!