"Timid" and "cowardly" must be the worst adjectives in the world. For parents, the most feared thing is that their children are involved with such words. Because being labeled cowardly, it means that the child is not brave enough, not strong enough, and has lost many opportunities for growth.
Indeed, timidity and cowardice can make children become inferior, and they are particularly shy in life. I don't dare to communicate with people normally, I don't dare to try things easily, and I don't even have the courage to refuse. In this way, it is really difficult for the child to integrate into society, and the impact on his future is huge.
The path of life is originally full of various setbacks and tribulations, if children do not have the courage to bear, they will naturally be farther away from success. In early childhood, there may still be the protection of parents, but what about adulthood? If the child has always been cowardly and inferior, who will bear the storm of life for him?
All in all, cowardice is a big taboo on the road to growth. For children, their lives have just begun, even if they have bad behavior habits, as long as they are willing to correct them in time, everything is in time. So cowardice doesn't matter, just help them reinvent bravery.
Children are timid and cowardly, and only three moves are needed to make them brave.
First, learn to let go and nudge behind your back
There are many ways to love children, but doting, arranging, and indulging are definitely the least worth advocating. Because excessive pampering will only make children dependent, and they will never take the initiative in everything. It is better to learn to let go, let the child explore independently, and accumulate more life experience.
And parents should learn to nudge, according to the child's habits and mentality, to help them slowly overcome psychological difficulties. In this process, parents must master the "degree", and must not be forced. Because of cowardly children, most of them are inferior and timid, and a little breakthrough is progress.
Second, face the setbacks head-on and no longer run away
In the face of setbacks, many children habitually avoid because they do not have a deep understanding of setbacks. Many times, the "heart demon" is the most terrible, the so-called know oneself and know the other, in order to achieve a hundred battles. Accompany your children, face the setbacks they fear in life, and analyze and understand them in depth.
Parents will find that when their children truly understand these setbacks, they seem to be suddenly relieved. The cowardice in the heart will slowly disappear, and I am willing to slowly overcome setbacks. Although setbacks are "roadblocks", it is a "paper tiger" in front of strong and brave people.
Third, give respect and accept mediocrity
Children who are respected from an early age, they seem to have their own light, revealing self-confidence and bravery from the inside out, as if carved in the bones. This is because the respect of their parents makes them feel more secure in their hearts, and they are more confident, and they are not afraid of any haze and setbacks.
So, when you get along with your children, please give them more respect, understand and tolerate their shortcomings. Accepting the mediocrity of children is actually not so difficult, after all, in the face of health, everything is not so important. The mentality of parents is actually the most profound impact on children.
Write at the end: Believe that all setbacks are temporary, as long as the heart is always full of hope, and finally can see the rainbow. Failures, setbacks and difficulties can all become stepping stones to success and valuable experiences, depending on how the child perceives it.
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