Every day from waking up, I am faced with different choice questions, big and small, do you eat breakfast or not? What to eat? Driving to work? By subway? Bus or ride? Where to go at noon? What dishes to eat? Until lying in bed at night and falling asleep!
Life, in fact, is a choice of questions, fate is the combination of each of our choices, sometimes a casual choice, can make us feel a completely different scenery.
Probably because we know the importance of choice, it is now that the difficulty of choosing is so prevalent.
Especially in love.
Some time ago, a friend shared with me her journey before the engagement. In her words, it is walking between love and bread a thousand times.
Her boyfriend is good at everything, just not very well paid, and it is really difficult for them to have a home of their own in a strange city.
For a long time, my friends are in a state of anxiety, two years of feelings are not said to be scattered, the boyfriend can not say that he is obedient to himself, but it is definitely a piece of sincerity, no matter how heavy the rain, he will pick himself up and commute, usually always giggling, the key moment is more than anyone to maintain themselves.
Bread and love, reality and dreams, this is a problem that many of us will encounter, but also a choice that many people are difficult to make, it seems that the choice will not be complete, because this is like the problem of red roses and white roses, on the one hand is the flame, on the other side is the sea, we can not give up the fresh stimulation, nor can we give up the gentleness and peace.
But the moon will also have a round and lack, how can life be truly two perfect?
We all dream of having a perfect C option for us to choose from, but where is there a perfect person in reality!
People with both talent and character, the appearance is likely to be a hard injury;
People with good looks and good looks may be under great financial pressure;
Everyone pursues the rich and handsome, and the temper may be very smelly.
You know, having a sense of flaw is the norm in life.
There will be many choices in life, some of which are involuntary, some of which are willing, some of which are helpless, and some of which are unbearable to remember.
There are many sentient beings, and too many people involuntarily come to this world, living in a vacuum, until the end of life, and can't help but leave.
How many people can clearly know how to control their own destiny, understand the direction they want to go, and work unremittingly along the way, facing every choice given to them by God, they can grasp their own destiny and move forward steadily.
It is precisely because there are too few such people, there are many more emotions in this world, the so-called involuntary, the so-called life is like a drama, the so-called impermanence of the world, the so-called life if only as the first sight, in the final analysis, for their original choice, there is endless regret, regret the injustice of god, regret their misfortune.
In fact, every choice is a decision made by yourself. Whether it is someone else who has strengthened your determination, or a choice you make that you can't resist external temptations, it is your own decision after all.
At the beginning, if you could have a little more reason, a little more understanding of yourself, a little more understanding of life, and a little more responsibility for yourself and others, then, after all this, no matter the consequences, your life will be much less helpless.
Therefore, some people say that there are three regrets in life: not choosing, not insisting on choosing, and constantly choosing.
Fish, I want, bear paws also I want; neither can have both, and he who gives up the fish and takes the bear paws also.
No matter how you choose, on the road of life, learn to enjoy life, and insist on finding the most comfortable way to live in your heart, which is the best.