A woman in Hunan was not pregnant for ten years after marriage, and her mother-in-law was worried that it was the physical problems of the husband and wife, so she let her daughter-in-law eat home remedies for 2 years, and as a result, the daughter-in-law gave birth to twins.
What is strange is that when the twins reach the age of 1, they still can't stand and can only lie on the bed.
Could it be that the sisters cannot stand is a matter of folk remedies? What disease did the twin sisters suffer from?
One or ten years without pregnancy, she actually got twins
There is a young couple in Hunan Province who have been married for ten years and are very affectionate in their marriage, but there is one thing that makes them feel very stressed.
Ten years after the marriage, his wife Deng Baiqing's stomach has not moved, and the couple has also gone to the hospital to check their bodies, and the examination report shows that there is no major problem with their health.
The family has three pulses, the son's father died when he was 15 years old, and Yang Ru'ai pulled his son up with hard work.
Yang Ru'ai was looking forward to her son marrying her daughter-in-law, but as a result, her daughter-in-law could not conceive a child, which made her more anxious.
In 2011, Yang Ru'ai inquired around the village, and finally took his daughter-in-law to find a famous Chinese medicine doctor, he gave Deng Baiqing a pulse, and soon prescribed a home remedy for her.
Yang Ru'ai is convinced of this, anyway, the daughter-in-law has not been pregnant with a child for such a long time, maybe she will eat folk remedies for a while?
What no one expected was that deng Baiqing actually gave birth to a child after eating folk remedies for two years, and was a pair of twin sisters all his life.
In 2013, on the day the twin sisters returned home, the mother-in-law also specially set off firecrackers downstairs to celebrate, and bought candy to share with neighbors, relatives and friends.
Neighbors who had never seen twins also said hello to Yang Ru and praised her daughter-in-law for being really powerful and giving birth to two in her lifetime. All kinds of blessings made her suddenly forgetful, and the whole person was immersed in joy.
Yang Ru'ai also specially named the sisters Xinxin and Rongrong, and seeing the sisters change from two crumpled "little old men" to porcelain dolls carved in pink jade, she felt that her life was getting more and more hopeful.
Yang Ru'ai taught the sisters to crawl when they were seven or eight months old, but they not only couldn't climb, but also couldn't control their bodies, and always lay down on the bed.
The more Yang Ru'ai thought about it, the more she felt that something was wrong, but her daughter-in-law's words made her dispel this doubt.
"Listen to my mother, I used to be seven or eight months old and couldn't climb, and I wouldn't leave until I was 1 year old, maybe they followed me." Deng Baiqing walked around the bed with the child in his arms and said to his mother-in-law.
Maybe I'm really suspicious of myself? Yang Ru'ai quickly left this matter behind.
The two children soon grew to 1 year old, and Yang Ru loved to teach them to walk, but the sisters could not even stand up, let alone walk.
On this afternoon, Yang Ru'ai and Deng Baiqing took the two sisters to the hospital in the town.
After briefly asking about the sisters, the doctor thought that they were developing slowly and needed to be examined again.
But Yang Ru'ai did not bring so much money when she went out, asking her to take out the examination fee of the two children for a while, she really could not take out the fact that she only believed that the first half of the doctor said that the sisters were developing slowly, but ignored the fact that he still wanted the sisters to check.
In this way, she returned home with her daughter-in-law and children, and Yang Ruai insisted on using the method of educating her son to the sisters.
Second, the child may have cerebral palsy?
But the sisters still can't walk after the age of three, and even the simplest "dad" and "mom" can't shout out, and Yang Ru, as a grandmother, is anxious.
If the sisters just can't walk and talk, maybe Yang Ru'ai and Deng Baiqing can still deceive themselves that the child's development is too slow.
The fact that Rong Rong could not sit in the chair seemed to tell them that he was indeed different from ordinary children.
Yang Ru'ai put Rong Rong on the bamboo baby chair to prepare to feed her, but she did not expect that Rong Rong seemed to have no bones at this time, and could only collapse on the baby chair, and even her head could not be lifted.
As a sister, Xinxin was slightly better than her, and Grandma had to put the strap on the chair first, and then put the strap on Rong Rong, so that she could sit upright in the chair.
While feeding Rong Rong, Yang Ru'ai thought in her mind about when her granddaughter became like this.
The sisters have never had any major illness in the years from birth to the age of 3, and at most they will often have fevers at the same time, which will lead to illness and hospitalization, and the rest is not a big problem.
Yang Ru'ai suddenly remembered that her daughter-in-law had been married to her son for ten years but had been infertile, and later she was taken to a famous Chinese medicine doctor in the countryside by herself, and after eating home remedies for 2 years, she successfully gave birth to twin sisters.
Is it because the daughter-in-law eats the folk remedies that the child becomes like this? She couldn't help but look at her daughter-in-law who was feeding Xinxin at this time, and her heart was full of doubts at this time, but she did not tell her daughter-in-law about her doubts.
After the sisters finished eating, they quickly became sleepy, so the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law carried them into the room and asked them to rest for a while.
When the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law sat on the sofa and chatted, Yang Ru'ai first nagged a few words of home, and then mentioned the matter of the daughter-in-law's obstetric examination.
The daughter-in-law made it clear that she had only had an MRI once at the time, and the child should not have too much of a problem. Deng Baiqing seemed to want to confirm that he did not remember wrong, and also went to the drawer to find out the results of the MRI, and the test results also clearly stated that the child was not a problem.
The sisters woke up after only sleeping for more than an hour, and when the sisters woke up, they would take their children to the park downstairs to breathe.
When Deng Baiqing went downstairs with the sisters' stroller in her hands, Xinxin behind her was almost half of her body hanging in the air because of her physical weakness, which made people tremble for her. Yang Ru'ai, because her legs and feet were not sharp, could only hold RongRong slowly downstairs with both hands, and when she saw that Xinxin was almost about to hit the railing, she opened her mouth to remind her daughter-in-law: "Be careful, be careful of Xinxin's head." ”
After Deng Baiqing heard this, he walked towards the wall, trying to prevent Xinxin's head from touching the railing.
Soon they walked to the small park downstairs, and Deng Baiqing put the sisters in a remote corner and was pushed by her mother-in-law to play.
Watching the children running wildly not far away, Deng Baiqing couldn't help but walk into the crowd and couldn't help but sigh
Perhaps it was the encouragement of the mothers that made Deng Baiqing have self-confidence, and she took the initiative to hold her two daughters into the crowd and let the mothers also look at their children together.
Mothers saw that Deng Baiqing's two daughters were beautiful and lovely, and they all praised her for being blessed.
But the mothers picked up the sisters and found that their bodies were much softer than the other children's, and they could not stand. People around her speculated whether the two children had become like this because of physical defects, and Deng Baiqing quickly vetoed, saying that her children were very healthy and could not have any problems.
At this moment, a word came from the crowd, which stung the sensitive nerves of Deng Baiqing and Yang Ruai.
"These two children are cerebral palsy! The child lacks oxygen in the stomach, so he becomes cerebral palsy and can't stand up, which is the case with my neighbor's child. A man in pajamas came out and said affirmatively.
Deng Baiqing heard these words as if she was suddenly frightened, and she stared at the man with wide eyes and kept gasping for breath. And Yang Ru'ai, who has been silent in front of her daughter-in-law, heard this, and instantly locked her brows, she couldn't help but stare at the man, and scolded the man a thousand times in her heart.
The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law did not get angry on the spot because they were all neighbors, and they pushed the child out of the park.
What the man said was like a thorn, deeply rooted in the hearts of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Deng Baiqing proposed to take the child to the hospital tomorrow, so that they could feel at ease, Yang Ru'ai nodded.
Third, the son's temperament suddenly changed dramatically
The next day, Yang Ruai and Deng Baiqing took the two children and came to the Kang Rehabilitation Department of the Provincial Children's Hospital for examination.
Dr. Hu gave Xin Xinrong the simplest hearing response and found that the sisters were slow to the source of the sound, and that their hands were not easy to grasp objects.
Dr. Hu was sure that the sisters had brain damage to their heads, but what caused it required further examination, so she gave the sisters an EEG and MRI examination with Deng Baiqing's consent.
Although the inspection was done, Deng Baiqing's face was not very good-looking, because the money for the child's examination was still barely handed over by her husband who had been running for half a month day and night. When the Provincial Children's Hospital learned of the difficult situation of Deng Baiqing's family, it decided to waive all the examination fees for them.
When Dr. Hu informed Deng Baiqing of the news, she took Dr. Hu's hand and thanked him one after another, and even knelt down for Dr. Hu.
Dr. Hu quickly pulled her up and said that the abnormality of the double may be related to genetic and brain damage, and it will be a very complicated process to treat in the future.
The specific cause of the brain injury will take two days to determine the results of the examination.
Yang Ru'ai and Deng Baiqing walked out of the clinic with the child in their arms, planning to go home and tell the child's father the news.
Although in two days they will know what kind of illness the child has, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not good-looking at the moment, and they know very well how much money they have at home.
Deng Baiqing's husband worked hard every day, and could only barely earn the family's living expenses, and could not take out the extra money to heal the sisters.
But they couldn't watch the sisters live like this for the rest of their lives.
At the thought of this, Yang Ru'ai couldn't help but shed tears, and in order not to let Deng Baiqing see it, she stubbornly did not turn her face and pretended that nothing had happened. After Yang Ru'ai dried her tears, she clearly saw the tears in Deng Baiqing's eyes, she touched her pants pocket, took a few pieces of paper from her pocket, and wiped away her tears for her daughter-in-law.
The way home seemed particularly distant in their eyes, and even the sisters were rarely calm along the way.
After Yang Ru'ai placed the child, she returned to her small home.
The next day when she came to her son's door as usual, no matter how she knocked on the door, his son would not open it. Yang Ru'ai, who did not know why, sat on the ground and cried bitterly while knocking on the door, and she did not understand why her son did not open the door for her.
Obviously yesterday was fine, how did it change today?
Yang Ru'ai kept knocking on the door without dying, only to see that there was finally movement inside the door.
The son, who has always been honest in character, changed his normal behavior at this time, and asked his mother not to enter his house again with a fierce face.
Yang Ru'ai kept pleading bitterly, "Son! You tell mom why not let mom in the door. At the same time, she hugged her son's thigh, afraid that he would not come out again when he went in.
The son, who was originally distressed to see his mother sitting on the ground crying, was repeatedly questioned by his mother, and slowly revealed the reason why he did not let his mother enter the door.
Mom, I'm all for your own good, you don't want to come to my house with your children, since you have a family, go back to your house. It turned out that after Yang Ru'ai saw that her son had married her daughter-in-law, she found an old partner again, and planned to live with her old partner.
Since Yang Ru'ai married her wife for eight years, although her life has been poor, there has never been a quarrel between the two. How could the son suddenly say such a thing?
Yang Ru'ai decided to ask her wife for clarification, she first returned home, found that he was not at home, she immediately rushed to the old partner's son's home.
Fourth, happiness in old age has been tragically broken
But what she didn't expect was that she came to her husband Xia Jiangbo, but her husband calmly told her: "Let's get a divorce." ”
Yang Ru'ai's eyes widened and she shook her head in disbelief, and after a while she emotionally took Xia Jiangbo's hand and asked him why he wanted to divorce himself.
Xia Jiangbo was impatient with her entanglement, and forcefully threw away her hand and said:
"I have emphysema and diabetes, and you don't know that I married you so that you could take care of me, but have you ever put me in your eyes for your granddaughter?" Instead of wasting time with you, let my daughter-in-law take care of me. Xia Jiangbo continued that Xinxin and Rongrong are yang ru'ai's only granddaughters, and if they have surgery in the future, Yang Ru'ai, as a grandmother, will definitely take all the money to help her granddaughter.
Although the old couple is remarried, Xia Jiangbo also has his own son and daughter-in-law, and he is even less likely to give everything to help her granddaughter like Yang Ru'ai.
Yang Ru'ai heard his wife complaining about himself, and his face was also ashamed. However, in the face of prosperity and glory, she could not make concessions.
Xia Jiangbo asked her for the last time: "Between your granddaughter and me, who do you choose?" ”
Yang Ru'ai said that he would always be on the side of his granddaughter, and if he was willing to remember his eight-year love affair, the two would be reconciled.
If Xia Jiangbo insisted on divorcing himself, the two people would first temporarily separate, and after they had calmed down with each other, they would talk about divorce.
Since Yang Ru'ai learned the reason for her son's sudden change of temperament, she no longer bothered with Xia Jiangbo any more.
Soon Yang Ru'ai rushed to the door of her son's house again, and the son had no way to open the door for his mother.
As soon as Yang Ruai entered, she saw her daughter-in-law lying on the bed, she covered her face with a quilt, and no matter how her husband shouted at her, she was indifferent.
"What about medicine? What about Bai Qing's medicine? His mother's reminder made him constantly rummage through the drawer, and he found the medicine bottle in the corner of the drawer, but the bottle was indeed empty.
It turned out that a year after Deng Baiqing gave birth to her daughter, she saw that the sisters could not walk and talk like normal children, which invisibly brought her a lot of pressure.
It didn't take long for her to develop postpartum depression, and her spirit was always up and down, with attacks every half a month.
Her husband could only give her psychotropic medications for suppression when she was ill. During this time, the whole family's thoughts were all on the sisters, and no one paid attention to Deng Baiqing's medicine, and her husband was annoyed by this.
Although Deng Baiqing's illness occurred quickly, the disease disappeared quickly.
After twenty minutes, the wife gradually woke up, looking at the chaos in the house, and she knew that she was sick again.
Deng Baiqing couldn't help but crouch on the ground and cry with a headache, and her husband squatted down, gently patted her back, and comforted her next to her. Yang Ru'ai just sighed but didn't say anything.
The main thing now is what disease did the sisters get? And this doubt waited until the day after tomorrow to tell the truth about the great poplar Ru Ai and others in an anxious and uneasy mood, and finally waited for the day to get the results.
This morning, Yang Ruai's family took the lead in rushing to the Hunan Provincial Children's Hospital.
Through the results of the sisters' magnetic resonance imaging, the doctor analyzed that the children were born with hypoxia in the mother's stomach or premature hypoxia, which caused their brains to atrophy.
Although The condition of Xinxin and Rongrong is more serious, if they can receive treatment as soon as possible, they can still hope for improvement.
Hearing that the sisters had great hopes of getting better, the big stone in the hearts of the three people finally landed.
Although the child can be cured, the key is where should this money come from?. Yang Ruai's family learned with the help of their neighbors that the Civil Affairs Office of Xidu Town, Hengyang County, could help them. So they rushed to the Civil Affairs Office with their children in their arms.
The deputy director of the Civil Affairs Office said that in view of the economic situation of Feng Wenjun and Deng Baiqing, as long as they apply, the local government can handle the minimum guarantee for them, and each person can enjoy a government subsidy of 165 yuan per month.
Not only that, as long as they are reimbursed by the state, the low-income security personnel have special assistance, and they are hospitalized in hospitals outside the county level, and only need to solve the remaining 40% of the medical expenses.
Although the huge medical expenses have been solved by 40%, the remaining medical expenses still make the poor family sad.
So they looked for the government again, and later the government joined forces with local charitable foundations and caring people to help the sisters through this huge difficulty.
Women are weak, but mothers are strong. Even if Yang Ru'ai knows that her granddaughter is sick, she is not willing to abandon her granddaughter for her own happiness.
Although Yang Ru'ai may lose her husband, she has a strong and great "backing", and her son and daughter-in-law will also miss her good, and she can take care of her mother wholeheartedly in her later years.
The only hope is that the two sisters can get better as soon as possible, so that their parents and grandmother can see the miracle that happened to them and stop worrying about them.