When is the child most obedient? Many mothers say that when they were just born, they lay on a small bed or held it in their arms, looking at their eyebrows and smiling, and the hearts of adults were also warm. However, the older the child grows, the more disobedient he becomes. Not only did he disobey, but he also started throwing things!
In the small park, there were several mothers with children chatting, talking about their children starting to throw things, one by one.
Xiaomei's mother said that children especially like to throw spoons and bowls. Now Dad bought her a bowl that wasn't afraid to fall. Every time she threw it out at dinner, we picked it up and washed it and told her not to throw it, but to eat well, but before a second, the spoon and bowl were thrown on the ground again. The child also laughed very happily, repeating it many times a day, which was really angry with me!
Duoduo's mother also said that the child especially likes to throw things recently, and when she throws them, she is also laughing, I picked her up and she threw them again, is it to see that I am so funny.
Yangyang's mother also agreed, saying that no matter what kind of children like to throw, especially toys. And sometimes it was loud, and the neighbors downstairs came to ask several times. The child can't speak yet, is his temper so big? That can talk is not to sing against me every day?
Many mothers are thinking about why their children suddenly like to throw things. And pick it up and throw it out again? Do you dislike it or do you mean to play it this way or just throw something and find it funny? But children don't just throw toys, spoons, bowls, and food. Isn't that a waste of food?
The first thing parents need to know is that it is very common for children to throw things, and it is completely normal, which is the embodiment of the child's interaction with the external environment and the external world during the child's growth.
When does the child start throwing things? Usually after 6 months. The first time a child may have thrown something inadvertently, he will feel very excited, so he will repeat it many times, hoping that his parents will discover their new skills. That's right, the new skill. The child will feel that he can pick up something and throw it on the ground, and he can control the thing, and the child will feel very happy.
It may be happier that different things fall on the ground with different sounds. Sometimes not only does the sound not change, but the trajectory of different things slipping off is also different. And the strength of the child's throwing is not the same, and it may be different how far and near this thing is thrown on the ground. The child will think, wow, it's so much fun. So he would keep throwing and trying.
Throwing things is a child's growth, but also a child's need.
The child throws things with the help of hand movements, and visually follows according to the feedback of the sound after the things fall to the ground. This is the first time that the three systems of touch, hearing, and vision have collaborated to promote a child's brain development.
However, few parents realize that it is normal for children to throw things at this time, which promotes their growth, so parents will complain, get angry, think that children are not easy to manage, will hide things or will clap their children's hands, saying that you still can't throw things or so on.
If parents understand that throwing things promotes their children's growth and development, then they must support them in the face of their children's throwing. May some parents say that throwing vases is also supportive? Of course not, although throwing things is conducive to children's growth, but what can be thrown or how to throw we need to guide children.
How do we guide children when they throw things?
First of all, when you find that your child starts to throw things, you should give affirmation and encouragement in time.
Wow, it turns out that the baby's little hands are so powerful. Let the baby know that the parents are paying attention to his growth, and every bit of his progress the mother knows and sees.
Throwing things away by children is not intentional, it is a very common thing, so parents should not make a fuss. Heck, how do you throw things or something, this thing can't be thrown. When the child observes the parent's reaction, he will know that my parents will have such a reaction when I throw something, so the next time they ignore me, I can throw something to let them see me.
Moreover, if the adult's reaction makes the child uncomfortable, the child may have a psychological mode such as being careful and observing the color, and he will be more able to see the color of the person in the process of growing up.
Second, don't keep fragile and valuable items around your baby.
This is very important, many mothers are convenient to take care of their babies, and they do not wear jewelry on their bodies. Because sometimes children grab their mother's necklace and throw it away. There are also glass porcelain vase teacups and other things to stay away from children. Because the child does not know whether this will be broken or not, we must ensure that the child does not have these two items around.
You can put more sounds or stuffed toys or tumblers. The first time a child throws a tumbler, it's fun, this thing is different from others, it actually doesn't fall, it's really amazing.
Again, you can guide your child to throw things in the form of games.
You can put a cardboard box or a basin at a short distance to guide your child to throw things into a designated area or a designated box and basin. Be sure to high-five the child when he is shot, because he has grown up again. The three systems of his hand, eye, and brain worked together successfully.
You can also set a straight-line height to see who throws the plush toy high.
Throw things of different weights and textures with your child, let your child develop his hands, know which is lighter and which is heavier, exercise hand development and tactile perception.
2. In the process of slowly growing up, you can tell him what he can throw and what he can't throw, and prepare more things that fall on the ground that have a sound, do not roll, and can stay in place for the child to throw. The child may throw it in a different direction, or throw it with different force, etc.
Parents need to master the guidance and coping methods when children throw things, so that children can do what they want to do at this time at their age and development stage. If you can participate in the throwing game with your child on an equal footing, then your child will look forward to it more and be happier.
In the process of accompanying children to grow, parents are also growing. It turned out that this little child in their arms had so many thoughts, and it turned out that their little hands were developed step by step, and they would look at it so intently when they threw things. It turns out that this is the coordinated development of the child's hand-eye brain. Perhaps after parents understand all this, it will be more common to look at their children and throw things and better accompany them.
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