Names are code names that accompany us throughout our lives.
Different from the past, parents are generally highly educated and have a relatively high level of education, plus none of them want to let their children lose at the starting line of life, and they all want to prove their cultural level through their children's names.
Therefore, they often attach great importance to the aspect of naming their children.
However, because today's parents are generally more avant-garde in their thinking, they will also have some strange ideas when naming their children.
For example, combine your surname with the surname of your other half to form a "new compound surname". But parents name their children in this way, will it really not bring trouble to their children? Let's take a look!
"Pseudo-compound surname" has become a new trend of naming, and parents think that they are tall, but in fact they are not different:
No, the class teacher, Teacher Wang, complained about the name of a student she had brought.
Originally, the classmate's father's surname was "Gou", and it was not difficult to name, but when the child's parents named him, they adopted the method of "pseudo-compound surname" to combine the surnames of the two.
Before the children went to school, the couple did not feel that there was anything wrong with such a name, and even once thought that the name had a profound meaning and sounded very "tall".
Until the child went to elementary school, his classmates began to laugh at his name as "Gou Shi", and said that his name was dirty, which made the child very sad.
Therefore, Teacher Wang finally decided to communicate with the parents of the children and talk about the child's name.
Fortunately, after this conversation, Mr. Gou and his wife finally realized that there was something wrong with the name, and changed the name of the child.
In fact, there are many similar things, and now many parents are too casual when naming their children, and even parents will use game names and mascot names to name their children.
These names may sound very fashionable at the moment, but as time goes by, children grow up day by day, and the impact of such names on them is by no means a little.
Therefore, we still recommend that parents be more cautious when naming their children.
The "pseudo-compound surname" has endless troubles:
First of all, pseudo-compound surnames are prone to bad harmonics, which will bring trouble to children.
Just like the child of Mr. Gou we mentioned earlier, although the "pseudo-compound surname" does have a beautiful meaning, not every couple's name is suitable.
If you are not careful, some bad harmonics may appear. If parents do not find out in time, it must be endless, and the psychological harm caused to the child is not a little.
Secondly, the pseudo-compound surname does not read smoothly.
"Pseudo-compound surname" is indeed a good way to name names, but if the couple's surnames are combined, it is not so appropriate, it will become particularly tongue-twisting.
Such names will be more difficult to remember, and children will be more difficult to write, looking different, and not necessarily as tall as parents think.
If you don't get up well, it reflects the low cultural quality of the child's parents.
Secondly, pseudo-compound surnames may collide with names.
In fact, there are only a few surnames we commonly use, if everyone uses this way to name children, the probability of bumping into names is also very large.
It may be that in a class, there are several students whose names are exactly the same, which is easy to confuse and popular.
Finally, if the parents' feelings are broken, the existence of pseudo-surnames will only make people embarrassed.
Although it is said that when naming a name, parents have placed good wishes, but once the parents' feelings are broken in the future, the existence of such a name is only embarrassing.
Moreover, even if parents are embarrassed, children may be hurt because of their own names, affecting the healthy growth of children's physical and mental health.
Therefore, it is recommended that parents should be cautious when naming their children.
Editor's Note:
The trend of educational thinking is not necessarily wrong, but parents should also grasp the balance. In the matter of naming children, parents are right to spend their minds, but do not move "crooked minds".
Otherwise, the name not only can not prove that the parents' cultural level is high, can not let parents "Versailles" a wave, but also bring a lot of trouble to the children, affecting their mental health growth and academics, as well as classmate relationships.
Therefore, it is recommended that parents be more cautious when naming names and try to avoid some unnecessary troubles.
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