Text/Wei Chen
Poverty is like a disease. When a person feels poor, he is not happy no matter what his life looks like.
Almost all people in this world will feel poor, and in fact no one is the most unfortunate, some are just more unfortunate.
If a person is always compared upwards, then the self he sees will always belong to the vulnerable group.
If a person is always compared downwards, it is only possible to be inexplicably complacent in ordinary life.
People must be sober enough, and only when they are sober will they not do things that are out of line and exaggerated.
Poverty or wealth in life depends partly on the economy, and more on the psychology.
It is difficult for poor people to live a life as they wish, and such people are still greedy even if they are rich.
In people who are not rich in their hearts, the following five characteristics often appear.
Greedy and cheap
In life, we inevitably have to deal with others. Smart people always seem to have high emotional intelligence, and they are mostly generous in getting along with people.
When I was studying, there was a classmate in the class who was very popular. The reason people like to associate with her is because she is empathetic enough.
No matter who she gets along with, she will deliberately let the other party take advantage. Although the effort is not much, the generous attitude is really contagious.
There is one thing in common with most people, that is, if you are good to me, I will be better to you, and if you are not good to me, I will be even worse for you.
Economic poverty only makes people's lives difficult, and spiritual poverty blocks the connection with others.
No one likes to be taken advantage of by others. If a person is always greedy and cheap, it is inevitable that he will eventually suffer a big loss.
Suppress others
There are always some people in life who like to suppress others and elevate themselves.
From a psychological point of view, such people tend to be extremely jealous.
Sometimes even in order to prove that they are "very good", they will deliberately fabricate things that do not exist.
People who suppress others usually have low emotional intelligence. They do not realize that they only need to improve themselves if they want to prove that they are excellent, but they feel that as long as they try to pull others down, they can highlight themselves.
The lazier the person, the more likely to complain, the poorer the person, the more accustomed to hitting the swollen face.
In fact, the world has always been deaf and blind, and all a person's deception is only self-deception. It may be possible to blind the world for a while, but the truth will one day surface.
People with poor hearts often can't see the good of others, as long as others come to the fore, he will struggle to suppress, afraid that his already low status will be surpassed.
Belittle friends
Franklin said: "Poverty itself is not terrible, what is terrible is the idea that you are destined to be poor, or that you must die of poverty." ”
People without ambition are more terrible than a moment of poverty.
Not only are they unmotivated, but they even pull their friends out of the water.
Because I love face, my self-esteem is extremely strong.
Often in order to prove their ability, they will demean the friends around them. After all, for them, the people around them are the most convincing, and they are also the most suitable for being a negative case.
People with narrow hearts, regardless of economic conditions, are psychologically poor.
Truly capable people do not demean those around them. The world has always been: the superior people praise people, and the inferior people step on people.
Unwilling to be grateful
As the old saying goes, the grace of dripping water is repaid when the spring springs
Whether a person is kind or not depends on whether he is willing to be grateful.
Gratitude is not only an attitude toward life, it can also determine a person's ultimate destiny.
People who are unwilling to be grateful will only take the road of life narrower and narrower, and there will be fewer and fewer people who are willing to help him.
People who are lacking in heart are often reluctant to be grateful because they feel that the world owes themselves.
Therefore, it is natural to regard the help of others as compensation for themselves.
In fact, no one will help another person for no reason, either because they like it or because they expect it.
If a person is unwilling to be grateful after receiving favors from others, even if he finally gains a lot, he will inevitably be spurned by everyone.
Swear black is white.
As a person, the most feared thing is self-righteousness.
The glory of the humble is always long-lasting. People must be self-aware enough in their lives, whether it is a temporary scenery or a sudden wealth, do not show an ugly appearance of being high above.
There has always been a heaven outside the heavens in this world, and there are people outside the people. No one can really reach the top.
Smart people will try their best to reduce their arguments with others, and even if they can't avoid it sometimes, they will be humble and reasonable.
The strong word snatcher may be able to reap the stage victory. But in the long run, it will only make people feel that "this person is invincible".
The poor will be desperate for victory, and the rich will always be the point.
Content source public number: Wei Chen [ID: weichenip] It is very easy to meet the author.
About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.