Mr. Yang Dai said: "There is no need to let everyone know the real you, and there is no need to keep telling others what kind of person you are, people who understand you will naturally understand, people who believe in you will naturally believe, if everyone understands you, you have to be ordinary." ”
That's it.
Time is so long, the days are so long, we don't have to embarrass ourselves, do what we should do with our hearts, why think so much, why have so much burden.
Want to open, look away, let go, everyone has their own way of life. Someone else's pace, someone else's path, may not be for you. What others can't understand may be your detachment, and you don't have to force yourself to live like everyone else.
Life is already difficult, don't live with yourself, some things are really not as important as you think. The more you think about it, the more you add to your troubles, the more you will continue to suffer in a cycle.
Wasting one's own time and energy to speculate on the minds of others and to care about what others think of themselves is the most futile internal friction.
Some people don't matter
Whoever passes by whom in life is a fate. But too many people are passers-by in our lives, just pause and never see them again.
Those who are destined to leave, cherish when they come, and do not have to waste their feelings to worry about when they leave.
Years are so long, that person at a certain time, can not affect your life. Maybe after knowing him for a long time, you can't even remember his appearance and become blurred.
Those who know how to give, we remember, those who are ungrateful, just let him go. Scattered and scattered, there is nothing to regret.
A hundred people are full of nature, and many people are not happy. You don't need to have a good relationship with all the people, people who hate you, no matter how perfect you are, he will still be critical of you.
If someone else takes you out of their minds, you don't have to go near. Between people and people, it can be true or false, and between hearts and hearts, it can be warm or light.
Life is only 30,000 days, you and I are all passers-by in this heaven and earth, there is no need to be too attached.
Some things don't worry about
People live, and many things are impossible for themselves and themselves. As long as your heart turns over that momentum and passes your own pass, everything is negotiable.
No one can guarantee that their life will be smooth, and in the face of those sudden dissatisfaction, we can only face it calmly.
For life, we try our best. If you can't think about it, you can only ask for trouble. Don't live so tired, some things are stuck in the heart and form a knot is not as good as relief.
The life of an adult has never been easy, busy with work, endless responsibilities, unspeakable grievances.
Don't hide everything in your heart, release the pressure step by step, clean up the negative emotions a little bit, and the sunshine will have a gap to penetrate.
Being too calculating will only make others think that you are shallow, and you will also fall into endless internal friction, and eventually exhaust your heart.
Learning to be tolerant and forgiving, to think less, not to retaliate, not only to forgive others, but also to let yourself go. Don't embarrass yourself, look down on everything, in order to see the bigger world.
Life is not satisfactory nine times out of ten, the heart has shackles, will be worried, break it, live in the moment.
Don't live with yourself, don't live with life. No matter how big things are, over time, they have become a thing of the past.
Feng Tang once wrote: "When you really can't put it down, go to the intensive care unit or cemetery, you can easily understand that you have got too much, and then there is greed, too little time, too many fun things, from the perspective of respect for life, do not have to be entangled." ”
Yes, compared to life, old age, illness and death, the rest are small things. If you want to live this life well, the biggest enemy is not others, but yourself.
Time is like an hourglass, counting down every day from the day life began.
Man does not live to have the courage to confront the world, but to have a sense of acceptance in harmony with himself.
Meaningless attachment, regret that cannot be sought, unload the burden on the body, and take a step back to open the sea and the sky.
What people are most afraid of is that the mind has entered a dead end, many things do not have such a clear and clear answer, do not lose big because of small, look back after a hundred years, those who have lost time and energy because of internal friction and entanglement, people and things that have been lost, can never be recovered.
If a person cannot get out of his own obsession, he is a prisoner everywhere he escapes. Life is short, don't live with yourself, and do and cherish.
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[Wen | Wei Wei'an: the pen has temperature, for the voice of emotion, an atypical writer who loves words, invites you to perceive life together]