In fact, many people hope that their children can become more, because only in this way can the family atmosphere be better. However, there was still a big difference between the past and the present, especially in the past, if there were more children, then it would definitely be different from now.
Ms. Wang is now in her 50s, and 20 years ago Ms. Wang made a very important decision, that is, to have three children. Because Ms. Wang feels that only when the children in the family become more, can they enjoy a better atmosphere. So Ms. Wang did not heed the persuasion of the people around her, and then gave birth to these three children.
Although there are many troubles when taking care of children, Ms. Wang's heart is also very happy, seeing the three children gradually grow up, Ms. Wang feels that everything she has done is very worthwhile. Miss Liu and Ms. Wang also have the same idea, Miss Liu feels that only when there are more children in the family can they be happy and harmonious.
So Miss Liu gave birth to the child not long after, but Miss Liu did not encounter too much trouble. Because Miss Liu was originally a career-oriented strong woman, she had already saved enough money before giving birth to a child, so the matter of having a third child did not cause her too much pressure.
And her parents are usually more leisurely, so after giving birth to three children, Miss Liu put the child to her parents and let the two old people go with the children. In this way, Miss Liu can quickly devote her time to her work, so she has not delayed her work schedule at all, and everything seems to be very smooth.
In fact, this is a very common phenomenon, and the past and the current state of life are definitely different. If that's the case, it should be about having three children. If you compare the three children born 20 years ago with the present, then the gap must be very large.
What is the difference between having a third child 20 years ago and now?
If we really want to talk about this gap, then we should first talk about economic pressures. If you had three children 20 years ago, it would have been basically not too much financial pressure, because prices were not as high as you might think, and raising children was not a difficult thing. As long as the child can eat and wear warm, there will not be too much of a problem.
Now if you want to have three children, then the pressure must be very large, then you should first think of the financial pressure. Nowadays, it is not an easy task to raise a child, it takes most of the energy, and it also needs to pay most of the money, only in this way can we ensure that a child becomes a good person.
Therefore, many parents will express their helplessness in the face of this problem, because most families cannot afford to bear all this in front of them, so their situation is often worse.
However, if you choose to have three children now, then there is still an advantage that we can see. That is, after giving birth, young people are basically not under any pressure in taking care of children. Because after giving birth, young people can put all their energy into work or do something they want to do.
As for the care of children, this matter can be left to the elderly, after all, today's elderly people are more leisurely, and they can also take time to take care of children. If you had three children 20 years ago, the results would have been different.
In those days, no one could come out to take care of their children, so these parents had to take all their energy to take care of their children in order to ensure the healthy growth of their children. In this way, the pressure on parents will become very large, and if they are not careful, they are likely to have a series of problems, so these parents often have to look at this matter with a twelve-point spirit.
If you really have three children, then you can make the atmosphere in the home more lively, which is a very good thing for the whole big family. Of course, if you choose to have three children 20 years ago, the atmosphere in the home will become better, and the friendship between brothers and sisters will become stronger.
If you choose to have three children now, then the friendship between brothers and sisters will not be so strong, after all, everyone's mind is now open, and everyone has their own things to do, so it is difficult to put their hearts in the whole big family.
So through these angles, it can be seen that there is a big gap between having three children 20 years ago and now. However, no matter what kind of gap there is, we should take good care of our children, because only in this way can we ensure the excellent growth of children.