A person's life may be long or short, a person's life may be sweet and sour, a person's love may be deep and shallow, and a person's happiness will also be thick and light; however, the reality of life wanting to live is really a challenge in the current environment.
Every real scene in life and the practice of striving for real life will more or less make us involuntarily have a feeling derived from the instinct of life; the mind will often be washed, the spirit will get a breath, and the mind will be sorted out for this.
Red dust is like a net, the common fate is difficult, the more we live, the more we feel that we cannot extricate ourselves; fame and fortune are intertwined, materialistic desires are rampant, and the more we go, the more we feel that the burden is increased. In the impetuousness and noise of the world, we involuntarily learn some skills to deal with: seemingly arrogant is actually hiding inferiority, language is often covering up the weakness of the heart, self-righteousness is actually a fragile will is vulnerable, only promises or is premeditated behind your back fatal trap; so we see the good heart is imprisoned by the increasingly indifferent armor, so we witness the beautiful love in the face of money and power in the wilderness, so we often look at him left and right, So we face the greetings and smiles of others but find it difficult to grasp their true meaning. Life should be real, but we are constantly using such acts to betray the original meaning of real life, whether you are deliberately or casually leaning on or unintentionally. So, Milan. Kundera said, "Every judgment separates us from our predetermined feelings, and even if we can survive in hypocrisy, we will not last long; since the flower of love can wither in the real wind and rain, it will inevitably die in the air of vanity; remember, no matter what the reason, never pretend to be emotional, be good at pouring out your own voice, and also learn to understand each other's stories, even if the other party is weak or stupid; every life has its own colorful music, real communication, In fact, it is the most effective, simplest and most direct and the only correct method.
1 The growth of life is originally so simple and pure, but we ourselves make it too complicated. A person from birth is like riding a train at a uniform speed, and before death there will not be a platform for you to rest or a detour for you to prolong your life, and the only thing we can resist with the length of life is to expand the width of our life as much as possible. We should have the ability to enrich our own lives, which may be heavy, but it is real, and reality is an experience, and experience constitutes life. Although the closer one lives to the truth, the more difficult it feels, this may be an indispensable contest between natural life and civilized human nature, where the strong or the weak are judged.
Hypocrisy is indulgent, authenticity is inspiring. Life that is immersed in hypocrisy is muddy, and even to death may not be able to say anything about its own life, and the life or short life that is cheered up in the real environment will also leave a brilliant life trajectory like a shooting star. Love is the same, hypocritical love can only be in a comfortable life and steal peace, once misfortune comes, "birds throw into the forest", "the land is really clean"; and true love, even if there are occasional quarrels in daily difficult life, but still love each other, but will also support each other in a huge blow, but also can be alone in the disaster of one side to lift up a bright sky.
In the face of truth, the biggest blow comes from the people we love or white lies. Even the deception of some small things will make our hearts have a deep feeling of defeat, although it is not very painful, but that discomfort is really speechless. Career failures, career setbacks, betrayal of friends, economic fraud, and even the death of relatives, in the face of these pains, we can soothe and rest in the real dialogue of the soul, with real feelings as companions, we will also find another way to make a comeback, and a lie of our children can shock the most painful nerve in the heart, making people dazed and overwhelmed. It is because we love our children deeply, and the depth of love will hate miche, and the pain is fierce, we...
Thinking carefully about the life we have already experienced, we are not afraid of the truth coming. Originally thought that without the wings of our parents, our lives will be unable to continue, and really when our parents drove the crane to the west, we once won the weak shoulders, but also provoked the burden of raising younger siblings and relatives; originally thought that the failure of the cause would destroy our confidence to continue living, and really nothing, our feet began to endure the humiliation and burden of hard work; really, we are not afraid of the coming of the real facts, the summer rainstorm flooded the farmland we have begun to pump, not afraid, We rushed to plant autumn rice when the flood had not yet completely receded, the blizzard froze our livestock, not afraid, as long as the grassland could return to green, the wind would still blow low and rich aquatic grass to show the flock of white clouds...
We just want to live authentically. Living authentically should become an instinct of our lives, a habit of the heart, and a color of personality; in the face of reality, we need a kind of courage even more, and living authentically can stimulate our love of life, because this love can further stimulate our indomitable courage, and with such courage we can have the perseverance of water drops and stones.
In the face of reality, courage and perseverance, whether it is life or love, half of it is already quite wonderful!
In fact, in modern society, many things that were originally opposed have gradually lost so clear boundaries, such as good and bad, beauty and ugliness, good and evil. This is a colorful world, under different lights, you have different angles and different feelings with different purposes, the same thing will definitely conceive a pluralistic scene, the key depends on whether you have a sound mentality, a keen eye and a mind that hides dirt and dirt.