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Someone once said that love is like a bright moon, bright and brilliant from a distance, smooth and perfect. But up close, it's full of wrinkles and holes.
Although it is only a metaphor, it vividly tells the truth of love - behind the beauty, there is also a hint of falsehood. In the world of feelings, men and women may have lied in the name of love and made temptations in the name of love.
For women, the most common temptation is to ask the other party's sincerity, and for men, the most commonly used temptations often appear in the form of "requirements".
In the process of male-female interaction, if a man makes these three requests to you, don't rush to agree, because perhaps only the more you refuse, the more he will love you.
One: Ask you not to be too frugal and become the proudest canary
I believe that many women have heard this sentence during the period of hot love:
"Since you've been my girlfriend, I'm going to make sure you're a princess and make you the happiest girl in the world."
This sentence is not only a common sentence used by the domineering president in film and television dramas, but also the preferred language used by many boys in real life when showing their hearts.
In the TV series "I'm Good in Other Places", Xu Yan and Shen Zichang are a couple who have experienced a long-distance run in love.
In order to please his girlfriend, Shen Zichang often struggled to buy some bags or luxury goods that he could not afford, and Xu Yan did not pay attention to spending money, and finally the two finally ended their love for practical reasons.
Men let women spend their money, whether it is dramatic or not, and it does not matter how sincere it is. As the other party to be confessed, girls must not enjoy each other's gifts as they deserve, spend lavishly, or really see themselves as princesses.
First of all, measuring love in terms of material things is indeed a kind of trampling.
Secondly, if you are really rushing to get married, then you can live within your means and consume moderately for your future.
Two: Ask you to give up your job and become a full-time wife to be raised by him
In today's era, everyone's life pressure and cost are relatively large, if two people are working class, it is easy to have no one to take care of the family, no one to take care of the children, so many men will say:
"If you don't go to work, I'll raise you."
Not to mention whether the man's proposal is because of the pain of the other half, or whether there is another reason. As long as the woman accepts this advice, she actually accepts to give up her income and career for him, for love, and for the family, and put herself in a dangerous situation.
Over time, both men and women will inevitably lose the topic, and the burden of life will eventually overwhelm men.
Just like Jiang Jing in the TV series "Our Marriage", after accepting her husband's proposal to become a full-time wife, she had to be forced to treat her husband as the boss, and finally ended up with a cheating end, which is really not worth it.
Therefore, no matter how much you love him, don't give up your career, try to balance family and life, and truly become your husband's helper, he will only love you more and more.
Three: Ask you to give up your pursuit and become one of the ordinary people
The reason why a man will be attracted to a woman is nothing more than because when they meet, the woman is dazzling, whether it is talent or appearance. So he wanted to take it for himself, and offered to let you give up your pursuit and stay with him for a long time.
At this time, if the woman accepts the man's proposal, then the brilliance of your past may dim in the blink of an eye, and the man is likely to forget your sacrifice after meeting other stars.
Just like Shen Comet in "Our Marriage", he was better than her husband in college, but after giving up her pursuit for the sake of her family, she was also lost to everyone.
In the world of feelings, men give you these three proposals, nothing more than out of love for you, but women who really have a mature view of love should see more long-term than him, reject these proposals, purely love, sincerely cherish, and your happy journey can go further.
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