When I first started watching "Chasing the Love Family", I thought qi Tian was very unreliable, knowing that I was just Dong Yiyi's spare tire, willing to wait for ten years, and almost sold my father's house to buy a wedding house for Dong Yiyi.
But later, after he and Dong Yiyi broke up, he met Xu Xiaomu, and his behavior became more and more favorable, plus under the contrast between his eldest brother and second brother, he became more and more reliable.
And Xu Xiaomu, originally thought she was a very confused girl, knowing that Gao Yi was not a good person, still with him, and even helped him hide the truth, did not expect that in the end her feelings for Qitian could be so sober.
It can be said that the finale of this drama is really quite unexpected, Qi Tian, who once made people feel the most unreliable, has become the most reliable one in the whole drama, and Xu Xiaomu, who was once confused, has also become the most sober in the whole play. I think that's a pleasant surprise.
Qi Tian's reliability.
Why do I say that Qi Tian is the most reliable? Because after receiving the text message from Dong Yiyi's departure, he deleted Dong Yiyi's number in front of Xu Xiaomu, this scene still made me very touched.
Of course, under normal circumstances, starting a new relationship, deleting the ex-girlfriend's number should be a basic operation. But for Qi Tian, who has liked Dong Yiyi for ten years, it is not easy for him to do this step.
Not long ago, when he knew that Dong Yiyi and Cheng Feng had divorced, he was still bent on comforting her and caring for her. It can be seen that in Qi Tian's heart, no matter how deeply Dong Yiyi hurt him, he never blamed her for hating her, and it was even likely that he still missed her.
Obviously, this is unfair to Xu Xiaomu. But the matter of feelings, it is difficult for us to get through our own hearts, to find Dong Yiyi, is qi Tian's instinctive reaction, and after calming down, he considered Xu Xiaomu's feelings, this is the responsibility in love.
Therefore, although Qi Tian also did something that made Xu Xiaomu sad, in essence, he was reliable, he was serious about his love, and he also consciously took into account the feelings of the other party, which was much more reliable than Qi Tianyou, who divorced without a word, and Qi Tianzuo, who often sought out his ex-girlfriend to drink and talk to.
And after Xu Xiaomu left, Qi Tian decided to go to her, at this time, he really thought clearly about what he wanted. He did not choose to go to Dong Yiyi, who had waited for more than ten years and finally returned to being single, but went to find Xu Xiaomu, who loved him deeply, which was enough to explain everything.
Xu Xiaomu's sobriety.
Xu Xiaomu is actually a particularly screwed girl, when she was with Gao Yi, Gao Yi had a violent tendency towards her, but she was still reluctant to leave. After liking Qi Tian, she did not dare to confess and wanted to test him by moving away.
She has a clear logic and thinking in her heart, that is, she does not know how to express, and always hides herself. Such a person, emotionally, will be easy to miss, easy to get hurt.
Fortunately, she met Qi Tian, who is a person who is relatively easy to open her heart, which can make up for her poor expression. But this feeling also has regrets, that is, Qi Tian's heart, once loved Dong Yiyi so deeply, this hurdle, it is not easy to cross.
As we have already said, Qi Tian went to see Dong Yiyi after he knew that dong Yiyi was divorced, which was his instinctive reaction in his heart, and he deleted Dong Yiyi's number, which was his responsibility to Xu Xiaomu. In fact, this just shows that Qi Tian has not completely let go of Dong Yiyi.
If you don't completely let go of your predecessor, you won't fully accept the incumbent. Qi Tian deleted Dong Yiyi's expression, Xu Xiaomu was completely in her eyes, she read Qi Tian's heart, so she decided to leave.
Her decision is really very sober. However, what she is more sober about is that she chose to leave, but she clearly told Qi Tian her feelings for him, rather than twisting and hiding herself as before, or pretending to be tempted.
In doing so, on the one hand, she gave Qi Tian time and space to think clearly about what he really wanted, on the other hand, she also won the opportunity for herself, once Qi Tian thought clearly, there would be no obstacle between them.
Matching love.
In fact, when watching this drama, the most I think about is the word "match". When Xu Xin came back, I was thinking about Xiao Nan and Xu Xin, who was more compatible with Qi Tianyou; when Ye Minyi was pestering Qi Tianzuo, I was also wondering if they were compatible. But I didn't expect that in the end, it was actually Qi Tian and Xu Xiaomu who matched best.
Frankly speaking, Xu Xiaomu's personality is not the type I like. Girls like her, everything must be "like holding the pipa and half covering their faces", getting along, it will be very tired. There is also the inferiority that she has carved in her bones since she was a child, which will also make her love and marriage road bumpy.
But it is precisely these characteristics of hers that determine that she needs a man who is full of sunshine and deep affection like Qi Tian to warm her and heal her. If you change gao Yi, a person with a gloomy heart, it will become a disaster.
As for Qi Tian, this person, who looks like he has a big grin and no heart and no lungs, but in fact, he has a very delicate and sensitive emotional nerve. He also needs a person like Xu Xiaomu who is introverted, who not only restrains his self that is about to let go if he is not careful, but also cares for his heart that needs love and attention.
The two of them together, is a kind of complementarity, both mutual needs, but also heal each other, both to achieve complementarity, but also to cherish each other. And this is exactly what the love of the match should look like.
Many of us are exploring what kind of two people love each other in order to be happy naturally. In fact, love, what is the fixed look? What's right for you is the best.
Two people together, not necessarily what kind of talent and female appearance, pearls and combinations, but your advantages are exactly what I need, your shortcomings are exactly what I can tolerate, so that it is a match of love.
About the author: Meet and miss, a woman who likes to read and write, focusing on the creation of articles in the emotional field and the analysis and answer of emotional questions, I hope that my words can accompany you warmly forward.