Two false words and two unavoidable truths contributed to the success of Liu Grandma's entry into the Rongguo Mansion
Liu Grandma's entry into the Rongguo Mansion is a very classic content in the dream of the Red Chamber, which also derives from the post-break language Liu Grandma entered the Grand View Garden, Liu Grandma entered the Rongguo Mansion three times before and after, on the whole, the first time is particularly critical and important, it is with the success of the first time, there is a second, the third time.
The first time Grandma Liu entered the Rongguo Mansion, it was really difficult, because of the disparity in the door, because there was no contact for many years, and because of the empty mouth and white teeth, she rushed forward to ask for something, and Grandma Liu was very worried in her heart. However, I was worried, and I wanted to go on, and Grandma Liu still had to bear the shame to open up her old face to try.
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After discussing the total, the best door-to-door combination was selected, Liu Grandma and Ban'er, the old one and the young. Of course, the reason for playing this combination card is to hear that the original Miss Wang Jia'er, who is now the wife of Jia Er, is more and more pitiful to the poor and compassionate the elderly, loves Zhai Jingdao, and shemi she gives money. If she is a little kind in the past, she will help her family get through it.
Houmen is as deep as the sea, and no one is sure whether they can enter this gate, and then the family discusses it again. Or the dog gave the idea, suggesting to go to Madame Wang's companion Zhou Rui's house first, if you can see her, it will be a bit interesting. It is true to meet Madame Wang, the Zhou Rui family is just a bridge of introduction, so it is planned well, and the specific time can depend on Liu Grandma's ability to adapt to changes. After Grandma Liu arrived at the Rongguo Mansion, she was also very witty, and with two false words and a must-say truth, she successfully harvested 20 taels of silver and climbed this relative.
The first lie
Grandma Liu was still lucky, originally those people at the gate of the RongGuo Mansion who stood up and folded their stomachs, talked about the east and the west, did not pay attention to her at all, only let her wait at the door for zhou Rui's family to come out, this is really going to die and wait, have to wait until the Year of the Monkey And The Moon of Ma? Grandma Liu went around to the back door and successfully got to the door of Zhou Rui's house through a small child playing.
The opening of the Zhou Rui family asked a question, "Are you passing by today, or did you come on purpose?" Grandma Liu opened her mouth and said her first false words, "I came to see your sister-in-law on purpose." Although he emphasized that he deliberately looked at Zhou Rui's family, he could not forget who he really came to, and then "second, please ask my aunt's an", the focus of the speech still fell on the expression of the back, "If you can lead me to see better, if not, then borrow your sister-in-law to convey greetings." This was said very appropriately and thoughtfully, and the Zhou Rui family understood what was going on as soon as they heard it.
Zhou Rui's family thought about their previous feelings and wanted to show their dignity, saying, "Since you took me as a person and defected to me, I will make an exception today and send you a letter." This is very clear, change the usual, change others, Zhou Rui's family may not go to the communication, this is also Liu Rui's speaking skills played a role, if Zhou Rui's family comes according to the previous rules, then Liu Rui's trip will definitely be in vain.
Gaomen compound, not everyone can enter, Jia Yun, as the home of Jia Province, wants to see Jia Baoyu and waits for a long time, sending two pots of white begonias, wanting to see Wang Xifeng is to borrow money to buy gifts, waiting for the opportunity to see. This week, the Rui family's Ken took the poor Grandma Liu into the house to find the housewife and counted as the fulfillment of Grandma Liu.
The second lie
Grandma Liu came to Lady Wang, but the Zhou Rui family also told Grandma Liu a fact: "Lady Wang does not care about the family now, it is Wang Xifeng who is in charge." Does Grandma Liu know Wang Xifeng? She didn't know at all that she and the Wang family were inseparable from each other, but only because her son-in-law, The Dog Erzu, had connected with the Wang family and recognized each other. However, hearing the Zhou Rui family say that Wang Xifeng was in charge, Grandma Liu said the second false sentence: "It turned out to be her, I said that she was good that day, so to speak, I still have to see her today." She had to meet the person in charge, and she couldn't give up halfway.
Changing Wang Xifeng's main affairs has increased Liu Grandma's inner anxiety, especially the rendering of zhou Rui's family, what "the heart has more eyes, harsh on the next person", this reputation is obviously and pity for the poor and old Lady Wang, is not a concept, no wonder Liu Grandma is cramped and uneasy.
Two sentences to tell the truth
After this, Grandma Liu was even more nervous, where the small door and small household had seen this world, directly treated Ping'er as Wang Xifeng, and when she really saw Wang Xifeng, Grandma Liu did not sit nor stand, nor would she say anything. But what the purpose of this trip is, she still knows it in her heart. When listening to Wang Xifeng say that "relatives don't move around much, they are all estranged, I don't know if we think there is no one in our eyes", Grandma Liu said a truth in time, this truth is full of heartache: "Our family road is difficult, we can't afford to walk, we didn't come here to give my aunt a mouth, even if the housekeepers don't look like it."
This sentence must be said, pointing out that she is very poor, empty-handed door is very embarrassing, fortunately, Wang Xifeng has the dignity and etiquette of a big family, interrupting her and saying" "The imperial court still has three poor relatives" let Liu Grandma's heart should be a lot calmer.
The next truth about asking for money, it is difficult to export, to say that Zhou Rui's family is also powerful, reminding her that "there are words just go back to the second grandmother, it is the same." Grandma Liu wanted to stay and not say, but then she thought of "why did you come today", so she "flew red face" and said with shame, "Only because I didn't even have food at home, I had to run to you to come old." Sister Feng had already understood, interrupted her words, and avoided the embarrassing scene from continuing. He happily gave her 20 taels of silver and a string of money for a taxi.
As a result, Liu Grandma successfully completed her mission to enter the Rongguo Mansion, so that this difficult family could not be maintained to operate normally, those two false words, and the next two must-say truths, also showed the wisdom of Liu Grandma, and there was a couplet in the dream of the Red Chamber: "Everything is insightful and learned, and human feelings are cultivated is an article."
Liu Grandma knows when to say something, at the same time, she maintains the simplicity and kindness of the people at the bottom, she is a master of dealing with the world, although she is a vulgar poor woman, but she has great wisdom, this time, Liu Grandma's mouth frequently comes out, such as "how big a bowl to eat", "At the feet of Tianzi, in Chang'an City, there is money everywhere, but unfortunately no one goes to take it", "Plotting things in people, accomplishing things in heaven", this is the survival wisdom of an old man, even if it is put into today's society, it is still applicable.