After the broadcast of "Spring Day Late Departure", it was unanimously praised by netizens, the most distressing of which was Wu Yating. As a single mother, Wu Yating has left all her love and time to her two children, but she has only ignored her feelings!
When the male guest who was liked asked: "Is there a place of fear and fear in looking for the other half with a child?" ”
Wu Yating collapsed before she could open her mouth, because for a divorced mother, she was not only facing a miserable reality, but also the anxiety of changing her body!
After divorcing Wang Quexin, the two people originally planned to take a child alone. But Wu Yating insisted on raising her sister and brother alone, and was reluctant to be separated from any child, because her sister and brother would only have more feelings if they lived together.
In addition to taking care of her two children, Wu Yating usually relies on live broadcasting to earn money to support her family every day, and the busyness of life makes her have no time or qualifications to accept a love!
As Wu Yating said, after the divorce, she changed from a young girl to a woman with extra flesh on her stomach, scars, sagging breasts, and even a little ugly. Such a self even feels ugly when you usually look in the mirror, how can others like you?
I really didn't expect that Wu Yating, who was cheerful and confident on the surface, also had such a fragile and inferior side. Thinking about it carefully, the reason why Wu Yating does not dare to fall in love again is that she is afraid that when two people develop further, they will not be able to face their own changes calmly, because this is also unfair to the man!
Seeing Wu Yating's crying, I finally understood why divorced mothers are so difficult to enter into new feelings! Because the harm of childbirth to a woman is not only physical, but also psychological, and even feel that such a self is no longer worthy of accepting love!
Wu Yating's words not only expressed her heartache, but also said the voice of many postpartum mothers. When a child is born, everyone's focus is on the newborn, but few people pay attention to the mother's emotional changes!
In fact, as early as before participating in the show, Wu Yating had shared her caesarean section experience on social platforms.
Because it is a scar constitution, after Wu Yating's abdomen is produced by caesarean section, the scars on her stomach are particularly obvious. Other people's scars are very thin lines or prints, but the scars on Wu Yating's stomach are particularly obvious, and whenever it rains, the location of the scars will be particularly itchy.
For aesthetic reasons, Wu Yating, under the advice of the doctor, will have a scar removal injection every six months. Although there is no guarantee that the scar will disappear completely, at least it will look flat and will not protrude!
Perhaps in the eyes of many people, there is no need to care about these things after becoming a mother. But for Wu Yating, every girl has the right to pursue beauty, and although these scars are invisible to others, they are very concerned in their hearts!
Just like she has been insisting on fitness since her divorce, although it is really tiring to take care of her children every day and stay up late to work, Wu Yating still insists on exercising every day. Because the body is the capital of the revolution, only by making your own physique better can you take good care of yourself and your children!
Finally, I would like to say: we are someone else's daughter, mom, co-worker, friend, girlfriend, wife, multiple identities. But before we become these identities, we are all ourselves, no matter which role we become, we are all independent individuals, and we hope that every woman can be treated gently by the world!