The problem of education is that so far no one has dared to pat their chests and say that there is no problem, whether you are an industry bigwig, or a small white, whether you are a senior scholar or an excellent doctor, you can't guarantee what your child will be like.
Regarding the education of children, a thousand families have a thousand kinds of suffering, and some mothers even doubt whether the child is their own child, no matter how many theories and books you read, educating children is always in the stage of exploration, and there is no successful method to apply.
The question of how to educate children has been a big thing for parents from ancient times to the present, and at the beginning of the Dream of the Red Chamber, with the help of Leng Zixing's mouth, he said that there were huge problems in Jia Fu on the issue of children's education.
There is a problem with education, the final result will generally be delayed, there is a person in the dream of the Red Chamber because of improper education, but his problems appear very early, but also pay the price of life.
This person is Jia Rui, a very unbearable person in the dream of the Red Chamber, the reason why I say this is because about Jia Rui's death, few people sympathize with Jia Rui, and even some ridicule and ridicule.
In the first eighty times of the Dream of the Red Chamber, many people also died, such as the death of Qingwen, which made people very sad and sad, and Jia Rui also died very early, but just like a basin of dirty water spilled on the ground, no one cared about the death of the statusless teenager here in Jia Fuli.
Jia Rui's grandfather was brought up by one hand, and his grandfather Jia Dairu was a teacher of Jia Fu Academy, such a setting has to be said to be a silent irony.
Jia Rui was fascinated by Wang Xifeng the first time he saw him, which was a very normal thing for an adolescent teenager, Wang Xifeng's age was not old, it was an era of youth blooming.
Unfortunately, Jia Rui was too strict in his daily life, and he had a very shallow impression of Wang Xifeng, for example, he just knew that she was the housekeeper of Jia Fu, and this time he saw it so beautifully, which completely fascinated Jia Rui.
Why jia rui is too strictly controlled, from the story of the school, we can see that those seemingly young, ignorant children in Jia Fu, in fact, in private, he knows everything, understands, playing friends and whatnot is normal operation, and all kinds of gossip news, is also the fastest spread here.
But honest Jia Lian, he must go home after dark, he must be the most obedient child in school, but this kind of child does not make mistakes, but if he makes mistakes, it may be a big mistake.
In the dormitory, the girl who is grinning and driving at every turn is actually very conservative, because she knows many things, but people who usually don't talk much may get married as soon as they graduate.
Jia Rui seems to be honest, but in fact, he lacks the cultivation of the immune system of that era, and he does not know what kind of person Wang Xifeng is, this rumor may not be true, but in the half-truth and half-false rumor, Kendy will have a side that Wang Xifeng does not know in his daily life.
But unfortunately, Jarry is a good student, drinking and playing this kind of activity, he certainly does not participate, the two models would not have been good or bad, unfortunately, human nature is impossible to suppress, at any time may erupt.
On this day, Jia Lian met Wang Xifeng, if you use beautiful language to describe, this is called love at first sight, don't laugh at Jia Rui, many teenagers, in fact, have had this experience.
But the honest Jared, without any love experience, did not know the words in the woman's mouth, that sentence is true, that sentence is false, believe in Wang Xifeng's words, deceive him many times, actually do not know, and finally for the last time, waiting bitterly in the cold wind, and being blackmailed, making him seriously ill.
If it is a bad boy in the academy, first of all, he knows a lot of rumors about Wang Xifeng, and generally does not have any non-thoughts about Wang Xifeng, and even knows who Wang Xifeng's little uncle is, and will not easily touch this piece.
Even if I didn't hold back, from several conversations, I could feel Wang Xifeng's true attitude, especially in the case that Wang Xifeng had already cheated once, it was absolutely impossible to be deceived a second time.
For the child can not manage the prince, appropriate to let him end and understand, some things that are not so positive, in fact, is also very necessary, after all, many things, you can not be all-round protection all the time.
Jia Dairu is too severe, so that he doesn't know what Jia Rui is thinking, and Jia Rui also belongs, completely falling into his own lust and unable to extricate himself, and finally killed himself and died in his own evil sea love day.
Children are flowers, but also have to experience some wind and rain, the sterile environment is not the best, the wrapped jared, eventually or dead, some things if sooner or later to face, early face may be a good thing.