As the first of the four famous works, "Dream of the Red Chamber" can win the love of Chinese readers not only because the characters it portrays are deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, but also because of its enduring philosophy of life.
Lin Daiyu told the world how red and thin life, Jia Fu I told readers not to be defeated outside the golden silk, and today Xiaobian wants to tell you that it is indeed about Jia Rui's death of "do not lust".
Lustful sister-in-law
Jia Rui, originally a junior in Jia Province, although his family was poor, he also read poetry and books from an early age, and if he took the right path, he would inevitably become a literati and spend his life ordinary. But as a marginal figure, he not only coveted cheap, often blackmailed his children to invite him, and more fatally, he was obsessed with lust and lust, and this shortcoming eventually led to his tragic death in Fuzhong.
The murderer of Jia Rui's death is often inferred to be the hottest person in Jia Province. As a junior in the palace, when Jia Rui met the mature and bright Wang Xifeng in Ning Province, he secretly coveted wang Xifeng on the side, and he dared to visit Wang Xifeng, and his thoughts had already been seen through by Wang Xifeng. At this time, Sister Feng was not in a hurry to show her attitude, but was planning in her heart to rectify this unruly disciple prodigal son.
For the first time, Wang Xifeng pretended to promise the infatuated Jia Rui that he would wait all night in the cold winter weather with heavy snow. However, Jia Rui still did not change his heart, and in the face of lust, he did not even want to understand why Feng Jie did not come to the appointment, and within a few days, he secretly touched Feng Jie's room and teased Feng Jie.
When the spicy Feng Jie faced the repeatedly unchanging Jia Rui, she quietly joined forces with others to set a bigger trap for Jia Rui. So the second time, under Feng Jie's plan, Jia Rui was forced to owe a hundred taels of silver and was drenched in feces and urine. Jared, who was so humiliated, became seriously ill ever since.
After drunkenness, he died violently
However, the strange thing is that in the face of repeated difficulties and insults, Jia Rui is not repentant, as if he is immersed in fantasies about Wang Xifeng like a demon. As his illness worsened, all his thoughts fell into lust and could not extricate himself.
Forced by the helpless Jia Rui ancestors, they had to invite a lame Daoist to dissolve the adulterous demons in Jia Rui's heart, and at this moment, the Daoist took out a mirror, this mirror is called "Wind and Moon Treasure Book", which can cure people's evil thoughts and delusions. But if you want to cure the disease, you can only look at the back of this mirror, so that you can cure Jared's inner demons.
But when Jia Rui, who was lying on the edge of the bed with a dry face, held the mirror in his hand, he held the reverse side, but he could only see a skeleton, and he was frightened, he turned the mirror upside down, looked at the front, but could see the beautiful and moving Wang Xifeng. At this time, no matter what others said, he only stared at the front of the mirror like a torch to see the Fengjie in the mirror, so he died violently not long after, tragically dying in the palace.
Only by breaking through evil thoughts can we be free
Although many people blame Jia Rui's death on Wang Xifeng's responsibility, in fact, Jia Rui's death is entirely due to his own step by step falling into the love affair, and finally falling into the desire to extricate himself. Cao Xueqin told the reader through such an incident that in life, do not think about lust, excessively sink into the mud of desire, and eventually damage their own future, so they must get rid of it as soon as possible and reinvigorate themselves.
How can we get rid of such thoughts in our lives? In fact, the ancients have long told us how to do it.
First of all, in daily life we should pay attention to moderation, because the ancients often said "full of warmth and lust". Among them, "fullness" does not only mean the satisfaction of eating, but also means the difference in the basic living conditions of people, when too satisfied in daily life, people are easy to indulge themselves and indulge in unquenchable lust.
Second, you can use the lustful mind and spirit on the right path. Use the Taoist method of self-cultivation to alleviate it. If the daily energy is too energetic, it can be helped by exercise and other ways, which can not only strengthen the body but also reduce the color concept.
brief summary
Whether it is ancient people, people in novels, or us now, we may have had the same worldly troubles on some issues, but as long as we can recognize reality and not pursue too many unattainable things, we can always break free from evil thoughts and feel the real and pure world.