When I returned to my hometown during the Spring Festival this year, my mother told me very happily: My cousin of my aunt's family finally gave birth to twins after many years of marriage, and my aunt hugged her grandson as she wished and went to a heart disease.
I was also very happy when I heard it, and casually asked my mother, "Where did you make the test tube?" ”
"It's not IVF, people say it's naturally conceived!" The mother showed a meaningful expression as she spoke.
I will understand, understand is to warn me not to talk nonsense.
Because in recent years, I have found that many couples around me have kept a secret about "doing IVF" after giving birth to a child through IVF, and have publicized that the child was born of a natural pregnancy.
It turned out that I had always thought that these people were "superstitious" or "sentimental", until once in the mother group to talk about this topic, there are several "test tube mothers" appeared to say, only to solve my confusion: the original test tube parents' "hard mouth" is really bitter, because the outside world has too many misunderstandings of ivory babies, circulating various versions of rumors, can not be explained at all, such "lies" is actually a kind of protection for children.
About some people's misconceptions about IVF
For the term IVF, I believe most people are not unfamiliar, even middle school students who have just taken a biology class know that this is a technology of artificially assisted reproduction.
However, there is a long distance between "familiarity" and "understanding", and it is because of people's half-understanding that rumors about IVF are "flying all over the sky", and even many people are prejudiced against IVF babies. Especially after the children go to school, the identity of "IVF baby" may make them discriminated against, so the reason why some parents are "hard-mouthed" is also a helpless choice.
Ivy loaf is it grown up in an IVF?
If you know about IVF technology, it may be difficult to understand such "brain circuits", but in real life, there are not a few people who hold this view.
Before I saw an interesting sharing on the Internet, a small beauty in a company who had not had children for many years, through IVF technology, finally conceived a baby, which is well known in the company.
One day, when the little beauty went to work with a big belly, a male colleague who graduated from 985 university shouted after meeting: "Aren't you doing IVF?" How can you still have a big belly? ”
The little beauty was very embarrassed for a while, and replied: "What does it have to do with a test tube and a big belly?" ”
The male colleague was surprised: "IVF, shouldn't the baby come out of the IVF?" ”
In fact, even if the society develops to this day, we still can't underestimate the lower limit of medical knowledge for some people.
Some people may have heard of IVF technology, but in the final analysis, they have only "heard of it", do not know anything about the specific principles of it, and even directly "as the name suggests", mistakenly thinking that IVF is really a child born from an IVF.
Is IVF equivalent to adopting someone else's child?
Also due to a misunderstanding of IVF technology, in the eyes of some elderly people, doing IVF is equivalent to "spending money to buy children", which is to steal legal loopholes, thinking that the baby born of IVF is not "their own baby".
There was such a thing in the countryside of my hometown, there was a young couple who had been married for many years, they had not been able to conceive children, and then they did IVF, and it was difficult to have good results, but there were many rumors in the village.
When the mothers in the village chatted, they often talked about the little couple doing IVF, and some people said conclusively that "the baby born of IVF does not know whether it is their own child, in fact, it is adopted."
Later, the rumors spread to the ears of the little couple, the two could not stand it, moved to the county to rent a house, who wanted the rumors to become more and more intense, even the neighboring villages were spreading.
Although IVF is now very common, in the mainland folk, medical knowledge science is still a long way to go, in the eyes of some elderly people, there is still discrimination against IVF, some sensational rumors believed to be true, causing many unfriendly public opinion.
Is there really a difference between IVF and natural conception?
The so-called IVF technology is to use artificial methods to combine sperm and eggs in vitro, carry out early embryonic development, and then transfer back to the female uterus to develop, so the essence and natural conception is actually the same.
Some mothers will worry about IVF babies, and there is a difference in life expectancy from normal babies.
In fact, after years of follow-up surveys, it was not found that the life expectancy of IVF was affected.
And on the contrary, because IVF technology will undergo genetic screening, it can rule out chromosomal genetic diseases with a high probability, find certain health problems, and achieve "the best of the best", from this point of view, IVF babies are healthier.
Second, there are also mothers who may be concerned about the intellectual impact of IVF.
In fact, as early as 1978, the world's first case of IVF was born in the Uk, for more than 40 years, the girl has been married normally and has children, and there is no difference between intelligence and normal people.
And after so many years of development, there are not a few babies who have come to this world through IVF technology, many of them have become professors, researchers, IQ, emotional intelligence performance are all normal.
Therefore, whether it is from a real case point of view, or considering the logic of IVF technology itself, there is no difference between IVF and natural conception, and the reason why many people are biased against IVF is because of their own "ignorance".
Nowadays, IVF technology has changed to the third generation, and with the further development of technology, I believe that more couples will choose to "realize their dreams" through IVF technology in the future.
So I hope that everyone has the right attitude towards IVF technology, do not wear "colored glasses", IVF and ordinary babies are really no different.
Today's topic: What rumors have you heard about IVF?