Teacher Tu Lei once said such a sentence:
"Love is precious in the heart, but if it lacks externalized performance, it is illusory.
Heart to heart, mouth to hand, is the perfect payment. ”
Deeply.
Love is a verb, infinitely moving.
People who truly love you will love you with their own practical actions.
Whether he loves you or not, you don't need to ask him frequently, you can feel it in the details of your relationship with him.
Men do not reject the following 3 things, is really want to love you for a lifetime.
Will not refuse to take responsibility, will seriously love you
Zhang Haochen wrote in "I am only one you away from the world":
"The best romance is to get along plainly.
You know the other person is there, very down-to-earth, and all the time is settled. ”
Indeed, in the relationship, the most precious thing is actually a solid peace of mind.
The love he gives you is your greatest strength.
Ah Cheng in the movie "When a Man Is in Love", in a debt collection, met the daughter of the debtor Haoting,
And fell in love with this cold-faced beauty at first sight.
But Haoting was very resistant to his violent debt collection and was full of hostility.
But Ah Cheng not only did not flinch, but became more and more frustrated and courageous.
The man who has just opened his heart, like a child, clumsily expresses his love.
He can't help but 'harass' Haoting to get her attention.
He will also make a love bento and give Haoting, who has no money to add food.
He'll be so happy after a successful date that he'll deliberately do a haircut.
Ah Cheng becomes gentle and childish, and at the same time takes care of everything for Haoting.
And his warmth is the key to really impressing Haoting.
In particular, Haoting's father, who was in debt, died of illness, the funeral was empty, and how far her relatives hid from her.
Only Ah Cheng called his brothers and customers to come to the funeral, condolences, and scenes.
"Your business is my business, and you don't have to be afraid to have me", is the best love that men give women.
Won't refuse to spend time with you
Writer Suzen said:
"The most extravagant person in the world is the one who is willing to spend time with you;
Everyone's time is valuable, and giving your own time to you is equivalent to giving your own world to you. ”
Deeply.
Everyone's time is limited, and those who are willing to give your limited time must see you as important.
Someone once described companionship this way:
The so-called companionship is not how many gifts to ask the other party to send, how many surprises to give;
It's that when you're lonely, he's there; when you're sick, he's there.
Every time you look back and need help, he's there.
His companionship for you is like a habit carved into your bones.
When this person is there, you will feel very at ease.
But whenever you need Him, whatever it is, He will be free for you and will always have time for you.
In his heart, only you are supreme, and nothing is as important as you.
People like this who will see you more than anything else are really ready to grow old with you.
If you are lucky enough to encounter it, don't be silly to miss it.
Won't refuse to share the housework for you
I know that I have seen such a question:
When did you become disappointed in your marriage?
There is a high-praise comment at the bottom that reads:
"I've been married to my husband for many years, and every time I complain to my husband, 'I have to go to work like you,
Why do I still have to wash and cook every day instead of you? ”
The husband always replied with a sense of course:
"How long can you take up washing clothes, just throw them in the washing machine?"
What's there to complain about? ”
I don't think that doing housework, with children, this kind of thing, should be divided by the AA system.
After all, everyone has different work intensities, and their respective things are different.
But what I have repeatedly emphasized is responsibility.
There will never be a standard answer to the age-old conundrum of "who washes clothes and who does housework".
But at the very least, one cannot be a cow and a horse, and one can be a blessing.
The man who really loves you must be willing to take the initiative to share the housework for you.
He may not be very skilled, but he will do what he can.
He understands that you are not easy and is willing to share the tedious chores with you.
If a man is willing to take responsibility for you, spend time with you, and share the housework for you as much as possible.
Well, obviously, he really wants to spend the rest of his life with you.