From contraction to opening to three fingers
It felt like half a century had passed
However, it is accompanied by the guidance of a private midwife
This half century has not been difficult
——The childbirth experience of the new mother
"Inhale, hold your breath, exert yourself..." "Wow", the crisp cry of the baby sounded, and at this moment, I felt a sudden burst of relief in my whole body, from body to mind - my baby was born! I succeeded in giving birth!
"Come and kiss the mother, the little prince of six pounds and eight twos", when my midwife put the baby's little face to me, a sense of happiness that I had never had before filled my whole body, and it was a beautiful thing to have a baby.
Prenatal Anxiety: Smooth delivery, can I do it?
Throughout my pregnancy, I did my maternity homework. However, near the time of childbirth, I was still nervous, and a question always made me anxious: How much does it hurt to have a baby? Can I do it?
Mom: "It must hurt to have a baby!" I can't be born without pain..."
Mother-in-law: "Don't be afraid, now you can fight without pain, it won't hurt if you hit..."
Girlfriend: "The most painful thing is when opening the uterine mouth, before the painless pain is to doubt life..."
It seems that there is no real sense of empathy on the issue of having a baby, and I can only give myself positive psychological hints.
Labor experience: comfortable, full analgesic management
In the middle of the night, the water broke, and the pain was not strong at this time. Emergency came to San Mar, and the midwife was already waiting in the obstetric ward. This is the benefit of private midwifery services, one-on-one companion guidance, no matter when you are hospitalized, you can always be attentive to guidance.
One sleepless night, contractions began to kick in, and a wave of pain followed. The midwife patiently accompanied me, instructed me to relieve the Breathing Method of Ramaze, and gave me delicate braids.
More intense pain struck, and the midwife brought the ball. The midwife instructed me how to sit and lie on the ball, and my husband became a right-hand man at this time. This magic ball has a very obvious effect on pain relief.
At ten o'clock in the morning, I finally opened a finger. The midwife praised me for being great, saying that it was painless to open three fingers, "Many people are painful and nervous, and they can't stick to the opening of three fingers to surrender, which is a pity." "Vice President Zhao Zhiping has been asking us to do a full range of painlessness throughout the entire labor process, and she pays special attention to the non-drug analgesia management before drug analgesia." Because this process can last for several hours, it is necessary to improve the maternal feeling from a physical and psychological perspective. ”
Probably for this reason, I felt what my girlfriend said about opening the palace, but I didn't find it difficult. In this way, by nearly one o'clock in the afternoon, I insisted until I opened three fingers and marked it painlessly. At five o'clock, the palace entrance was fully opened in my sleep. Not long after, the midwife instructed me to use the most comfortable position I felt, and the free position successfully greeted my baby, without lateral incisions and no lacerations.
Postpartum summary: Don't be afraid, gentle childbirth is not a dream
Looking back on the whole process, it was pleasant and gentle, not because the pain was unbearable, and the scene of sweating, messy hair, and hysterical screaming in the TV series did not happen, and it was really a smile that gave birth to the child. During the long time waiting for the opening of the uterus, the pain struck, and for a moment, I also thought about simply cutting it, but I was quickly given up by the midwife's effective massage and man dance.
In short, now looking at the baby, in addition to thanks or thanks, you are still waiting for the birth of the sisters, if you are also "afraid of pain star people", do not worry, Santa Mar's full delivery of all-round painless you deserve to have. Come and pick up my good luck, I hope the next smiling mother to give birth is you.