It is said that love is easy to get along with, it is easy for two people to look at each other, but in the next process of getting along, it is easy to cause problems between the two people because of personality, or some reasons in living habits, once these problems are not handled properly, the feelings of both sides are very harmful.
Therefore, many couples can mostly get along happily in the early stage of love, and with the passage of time, various large and small conflicts will also break out.
Like the two below, because of a small conflict, they stood in the green belt on the side of the road for at least two hours, but the problem was not solved.
In the bright sunshine, the smell of spring girls is exuded everywhere, the roads are full of traffic, and everyone is busy with their own business.
In the green belt next to the road, a man and a woman silently confronted each other, unwilling to leave for a long time.
The woman was carrying a backpack, wearing a black blouse and a short plaid skirt, looking youthful, the man was wearing a black coat and black pants, judging from the shoes on his feet, although the sun was out, the temperature in the morning and evening was not very high, and some of them were warm and cold at first.
The woman has been standing silently in a corner, while the man has his hands in his pockets, constantly walking around the woman, and looking around from time to time, looking very helpless.
Obviously, this is a small couple who are making trouble.
Both seem to be good at words, the woman uses silence to express her dissatisfaction, and the man also uses silence to accompany his girlfriend, waiting for her to calm down.
The atmosphere at the scene was inexplicably somewhat depressed, and the two seemed to be secretly competing, as if whoever spoke first would lose, and time passed minute by minute in silence.
Although the two are in an awkward situation, they can also see that their feelings are still good, after all, the man is also trying to accompany his girlfriend, and he runs away alone without anger.
It's just that the man may be a straight man, who will just stand silly with her, walking back and forth, even the grass has been stepped on, and he doesn't know how to comfort his girlfriend and give each of them a step.
Bo Jie's point of view:
Although I don't know what the contradictions between the couple are, when the two are in an awkward situation, if either party can take the initiative and say what they think, they don't have to waste so much time there.
Smooth communication is the foundation of a good relationship, no matter what kind of relationship, the most feared is the Cold War, it can be said that the Cold War is a precursor to the end of all relationships.
As the saying goes, a thousand people have a thousand Hamlets, everyone has their own ideas, and it is normal for conflicts to arise in the process of getting along.
It's not terrible to have problems, it's terrible not to use the right way to solve the problem, so that the problems are more and more, bigger and bigger.
And if you want to solve the problem, the best way is to open your mouth, say what you think in your heart, let the other party understand, through continuous communication, improve the understanding between each other, but also let the two sides get along more and more happily.
Communication is not like losing weight, you have to open your mouth.