Text/Wei Chen
In life, the biggest backer is only himself.
In this lifetime, we will encounter countless disasters and hardships, expecting others to help us get through the difficulties, and the final result is often disappointment.
Sometimes it's not that the other person is not doing their best, it's more that they don't know how to help you.
The only person in the world who knows you best is yourself, whether it is sadness or joy, only you can digest it after the emotions appear.
After experiencing hardships, many people suddenly found that the key to getting out of the predicament is their own ability.
Whether it's personal connections or family backgrounds, there are only a few things that can be done to help. If a person does not make up his mind in his heart, it is difficult to get rid of the clouds on the way forward.
No one can accompany us on this road, and we must learn to adapt to separation.
In this life, the harder you work, the luckier you are, and your own life has meaning.
Even if they are parents and children, they are just passers-by in our lives. Some relationships will break up one day, and some people will always go far.
As the old saying goes, it is better to rely on the ancestors than on oneself.
When people are young, they always feel that there are many people around them who can be relied on, so they dig their hearts and lungs out of people.
Wait until you are old to realize that everyone's life is their own, and everyone has their own life.
Sometimes the alienation between people is not due to selfishness, but to the helplessness of reality.
Life is originally a drifting separation. Some relationships have vanished unconsciously, and when they look back, they have dissipated in the wind and cannot be saved.
You shouldn't have too high hopes for the outside world. The world has always been about more hope and more disappointment.
Time flies by, and in the blink of an eye we're all old.
People find out in their old age that no one can be trusted in this life. Maybe we can change the development of many things, but no one can change the thing about getting old.
When people are old, they can only rely on themselves. For yourself, the biggest capital is a healthy body.
If you don't want to live a humble life, you must take advantage of your youth to strengthen exercise.
Someone might say that my lovers, relatives, friends, and children are kind and willing to take care of me. But no matter how well you take care of it, it is better to act freely.
Every elderly person understands that lying in a hospital bed and being carefully cared for by relatives is far less happy than being busy in life as a "nanny" for their children.
In their old age, people do not become the burden of others in order to live comfortably.
Don't try to test human nature at any time, and even those close to it have a selfish side.
The test, from the outset, was doomed to a fiasco.
As the saying goes: "The poor are no one in the downtown area, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains." "A person's financial ability largely determines his relationship with the people around him.
After all, there are not many people in this world who are serious about righteousness, and most people see only profit in their eyes.
After people fall down, it is best not to always think about who will take the initiative to repay the favor and help you.
Thinking too much will only make you sad. Whether it is a young man who is downcast or a helpless elderly person, in the most difficult time of life, he will find that the people in this world who can rely on him have no one but himself.
Therefore, in life, we must leave some room for ourselves in advance. You can love, but you can't give it all.
As the saying goes, rely on the mountains to fall, rely on everyone to run. Pinning your hopes on others is a very risky thing.
To be a human being, you cannot harm people's hearts, but you cannot do without a defensive heart. Leaving yourself a way back is not to be honest enough, but to be sober enough.
If you still have time and opportunities, please work hard to improve your abilities. Only when people are strong can they cope with accidents and risks.
There has never been a perfect person in this world, and there is no such thing as absolute perfection.
The fairness we see is nothing more than relative fairness. If you don't have the ability to push injustice away, society will only let you endure injustice until it becomes the norm in your life.
Since you can only rely on yourself, you must understand that you are hurting yourself. For the rest of his life, he did not follow the trend or compare, but only listened to his heart.
Content source public number: Wei Chen [ID: weichenip]
About the Author: Wei Chen, freelance writer, writing mentor. Normally quiet, occasionally humorous.
I hope that through words to bring you spiritual relaxation, may your life be more beautiful after encountering my words.