Ding Zhicheng is a famous actor, starring in many popular dramas such as "Six Groups of Serious Cases", "Silver Empire", "Gonggu Alley", "Beishang Guangdong Still Believes in Love", etc., and has won the "Golden Lion Award" of Chinese dramas, and is the "old drama bone" loved by the audience. He has a deep affection for the brother and sister of his disabled sister Ding Baoming, which makes people cry...
Ding Zhicheng was born in Beijing in 1963 and became a temporary worker at the Ministry of Geology after graduating from high school. In September of that year, Ding Zhicheng's mother, Zhang Baochen, retired from the Chinese Academy of Geological Sciences, and according to the policy at that time, there was a child in the family who could take over her post and become a regular worker.
Ding Zhicheng's father, Ding Xiaoshi, also works at the Chinese Academy of Geological Sciences and is a famous geologist, and he and Zhang Baochen have three children: daughter Ding Baoming, son Ding Zhicheng and Ding Zhihui. When Ding Baoming was 1.5 years old, he suffered from polio and left leg disability, could only walk on crutches, and after graduating from high school, he worked as a temporary worker in the Geology Department, responsible for the distribution of goods. Ding Baoming's work problem has always been the heart disease of Ding Xiaoshi and his wife. Now that Zhang Baochen has retired, they decided to let their daughter take over. However, the leader suspected that Ding Baoming was disabled and turned her away. In this case, Ding Xiaoshi and his wife had to let Ding Zhicheng succeed him.
Ding Baoming dreamed of becoming a regular worker, and now the hope was shattered, pain, despair and frustration intertwined in her heart, for three whole days she locked herself in the room without eating or drinking, and people quickly lost weight and haggard.
The sister's pain pierced Ding Zhicheng's heart like a knife. He interceded with the leader in charge of the Geology Department: "I am willing to give up the quota to my sister, she is disabled, it is not easy to find a job." The leader said officially: "We are doing things according to the policy, not who wants to come." ”
In this way, Ding Zhicheng became a regular worker in the library of the Academy of Geological Sciences. The sad Ding Baoming returned home to wait for work. Soon, she bought two sewing machines with the support of her parents and earned a meager income by sewing and repairing her neighbors. At that time, The individual was very despised, and Ding Baoming did not suffer from the white eyes and contempt of others. Whenever this happened, pain and resentment beat her heart like a whip, and it was her brother who stole her job. Inadvertently, Ding Baoming complained about Ding Zhicheng.
In 1984, Ding Baoming was already a 22-year-old girl. Seeing that the neighbor's family and Ding Baoming's girls of the same age have objects, and no matchmaker comes to the house to propose to their daughter, Ding Xiaoshi and his wife's heart is like a sponge that has sucked enough water.
Ding Zhicheng was also worried about his sister's personal problems. In order to alleviate the load on his soul, he paid a salary at one time, and he bought his sister a bat shirt and a white silk scarf that were very popular at that time. Unexpectedly, Ding Baoming didn't look at it, and casually threw the bat shirt and scarf on the sofa: "Are you showing off to me that you have a formal job?" Ding Zhicheng blushed and argued: "Sister, it wasn't me who stole your job, at that time I asked the leader to let you take over your mother's class, but they didn't agree." "On the contrary, it is precisely because of you and me that we have not had a formal job and become a self-employed person that others look down on!" His sister's misunderstanding broke Ding Zhicheng's heart, and he squatted on the ground and burst into tears.
In June of that year, Ding Baoming fell in love, and her boyfriend Yang Jianyun worked with her as a temporary worker in the Geology Department for 3 years. The young man is nearly 1.80 meters tall, with a large body and a dignified appearance. The sister finally fell in love, and Ding Zhicheng was happy for her sister from the heart. But soon, a trace of worry and worry spread in his heart: Yang Jianyun's personal conditions are not bad, he can find a girl with sound limbs, why would he look up to his sister? My sister is already very unfortunate, if she is emotionally hurt again, how can she get it?
Ding Zhicheng and his sister
Ding Zhicheng invited Yang Jianyun to Yuyuantan Park near his home and asked directly, "Do you really like my sister?" Isn't it a show with her? Yang Jianyun told Ding Zhicheng: "Although your sister is physically defective, she is lively and cheerful, her mind is skillful, I am very happy with her, and my feelings for her are serious." Although Yang Jianyun swore an oath, Ding Zhicheng still warned him unassuredly: "If you deceive my sister, I will not let you go." ”
In October of that year, Ding Baoming and Yang Jianyun were preparing to hold a wedding, but the Yang family did not have a house, and the two worried about the marriage room. The Ding family has a two-bedroom apartment of 70 square meters, which is ready to be used for Ding Zhicheng's marriage in the future. Knowing his sister's difficulties, Ding Zhicheng took the initiative to consult with her: "Sister, the house left for me at home, you and your brother-in-law moved in, I live in the unit." "In her most difficult time, her brother can stand up, which makes Ding Baoming very moved, she deeply appreciates the warmth of blood and affection...
In November 1985, the sons of Ding Baoming and Yang Jianyun were born, and the burden on the family became heavier. Although Ding Baoming sewed clothes for people everywhere at this time, and Yang Jianyun also worked hard to do odd jobs, due to his meager income, the life of a family of three was stretched.
At this time, Ding Zhicheng had been admitted to the Beijing People's Art Theater and became a professional actor. Due to the sluggish drama, he rarely had the opportunity to go on stage, occasionally performing a play, and receiving a subsidy of only 1 yuan and 2 cents. Nevertheless, every time he received his salary, Ding Zhicheng had to buy a lot of gifts such as milk powder, fruits and toys to visit his sister and nephew. In fact, he frequently visited his sister's home, and there was another purpose, that is, to investigate how her sister was doing. Several times, he explicitly said to his sister, "If your brother-in-law is not good to you, tell me that my brother and I will come forward to do justice for you." Ding Baoming told Ding Zhicheng: "Although your brother-in-law does not earn much money, he is really a good person, and he is very good to me and my children." Seeing the happy smile on his sister's face when she said this, Ding Zhicheng put his mind at ease.
In September 1989, Ren Yi rearranged Cao Yu's famous drama "Thunderstorm", and Ding Zhicheng played the male protagonist Zhou Ping. That day, Ding Zhicheng rushed to send drama tickets to his sister and asked them to go and hold the stage for him. Walking into the house, the scene in front of him made him sad: Ding Baoming made clothes for people, the other party gave her a coke, she was reluctant to drink, poured the coke into two cups for her husband and son to taste. Yang Jianyun let Ding Baoming drink, and Ding Baoming pushed it to her husband. The two pushed back and forth, and neither of them was willing to drink... Ding Zhicheng's eyes were red, and sour tears couldn't help but flow down.
My sister, who has contracted polio since she was more than 1 year old, has been suffering from pain and suffering for more than 20 years, and now that she is married, she is still living in poverty. As a brother, he should help his sister, but his income is meager, and he has more than enough and lack of strength! During that time, Ding Zhicheng dreamed about how to earn money to help his sister's family.
In the spring of 1991, Ding Zhicheng went through the procedures of suspension of salary from Renyi and set up a decoration team by himself. In just three years, Ding Zhicheng earned more than 300,000 yuan, he configured big brothers, and purchased Cherokee jeeps.
With money, Ding Zhicheng's first thought was to help his sister's family. In 1993, he paid his sister more than 10,000 yuan and let her enter Beijing Union University to study fashion design. Brother-in-law Yang Jianyun has always dreamed of taking the civil service examination, but due to the pressure of livelihood, there is no time for systematic study. Ding Zhicheng took on the living expenses of his sister's family of three, allowing his brother-in-law to review his homework at home.
Ding Zhicheng and his mother
In 1994, Ding Zhicheng was 31 years old and still alone. Ding Baoming urged him many times: "Zhicheng, my sister is only 1 year older than you, the children are in elementary school, you are not too old, it is time to start a family." Every time Ding Zhicheng giggled: "Sister, it is fashionable to marry late now, I am not in a hurry!" ”
Where does Ding Baoming know his brother's true thoughts? A very important reason why Ding Zhicheng is slow to find a partner is that he wants to help his sister's family change the situation as soon as possible, if he has a family, if he helps his sister again, it will cause contradictions in his own small family. This is the real reason why Ding Zhicheng is slow to find an object.
This year's Dragon Boat Festival, when Ding Baoming was chatting with his mother, he was surprised to learn that a very important reason why his brother went to the sea to do business and did not find a partner was because he wanted to help her family tide over the difficulties. That night, Ding Baoming found Ding Zhicheng and said with tears: "Zhicheng, your great kindness to your sister, your sister can't repay it!" You must start a family as soon as possible, otherwise my conscience and your brother-in-law will not be at peace for the rest of our lives! Ding Zhicheng told Ding Baoming: "I am your brother, you have difficulties, I don't help you who will help you?" I listen to you and find the object as soon as possible. ”
In December of that year, Ding Zhicheng and Renyi's accountant formed a family; in October of the following year, they had a daughter Ding Ding. The younger brother finally had a home, and Ding Baoming's heart was solidified.
In 1996, she registered "Baoming Clothing" named after herself, specializing in the design of clothing for celebrities, entertainers, and senior white-collar workers; Yang Jianyun passed the civil service examination and became a staff member of the Beijing Municipal Labor and Social Security Bureau. The economic conditions of this family of three have changed.
Ding Baoming knew that his brother's hobby was still acting, and she advised Ding Zhicheng: "No matter how hard you work in decoration, you are just an ordinary businessman, and you should return to the show business circle." The sister's words reached Ding Zhicheng's heart, and now that the conditions for his sister's family and his own family were good, it was time for him to return to renyi. In 1997, Ding Zhicheng left the business world and returned to the People's Art Theater in Beijing. In the more than two years since then, he has starred in many film and television dramas such as "Divorce", "Where Dreams Begin", "Endless" and so on, and is well-known in the show business circle.
In August 2000, due to personality incompatibility, Ding Zhicheng went through divorce procedures with his ex-wife, and his 5-year-old daughter lived with his ex-wife.
Hearing the news of her brother's divorce, Ding Baoming's heart tightened, in her opinion, her brother was because he helped his family delay the golden time of love, so that he was hastily shortlisted for the city, which eventually led to the disintegration of the marriage. That night, Ding Baoming came to Ding Zhicheng's home and said sadly: "Zhicheng, my sister is sorry for you, if it weren't for my sister's family, you wouldn't be like this." Ding Zhicheng said: "Sister, I can't blame you for this, I can only say that my fate with her has been exhausted." ”
For a long time, Ding Zhicheng could not get out of the haze of divorce. Ding Baoming saw it in his eyes and the pain was in his heart. Almost every day, Ding Baoming had to come over to accompany his brother, and When Ding Zhicheng did not speak, she sat quietly with him. A week later, Ding Baoming made Ding Zhicheng his favorite beef noodles for the seventh time, and Ding Zhicheng did not stay as it was in the same place as in the previous days, but swept away like a cloud. Ding Baoming's heart had a hint of comfort: his brother was able to eat, which showed that his pain had eased.
Ding Baoming knew that his brother was hiding at home all day, and he would be immersed in a sad past and could not extricate himself. She said to her brother, "Zhicheng, our family has never gone out together. While my parents are still moving, will we go to Huangshan to play with a large family? Ding Zhicheng also wanted to go outside to relax and agreed with his sister's opinion.
In late August, Ding Zhicheng, his sister's family and his parents traveled to Huangshan, Anhui Province. Over the years, Ding Zhicheng has rarely gone out because he is busy. Now that he is in the arms of nature, he feels relaxed. Standing at the top of the Huangshan Mountain, facing the reckless mountains, Ding Zhicheng, who had been suffocating for a long time, shouted loudly and cheerfully, and he truly felt that in front of nature, people looked so small, and what was the right and wrong that could not be let go?
When Huangshan returned, Ding Zhicheng told Ding Baoming: "Sister, I have said a complete goodbye to the past, you don't have to worry about me. Ding Baoming smiled, and there were tears flickering in the corners of his eyes...
Stepping through the gully of spiritual pain, Ding Zhicheng began to sprint in his career. In just a few years, he has starred in more than 20 film and television dramas such as "Six Groups of Serious Cases", "Never Look Back", "Return to the Beach" and so on, becoming a well-known powerful actor.
Like Ding Zhicheng, Ding Baoming's career has also advanced by leaps and bounds. In addition to operating "Baoming Clothing", she also registered and established "Bo Jewelry Garment Co., Ltd.", which not only made special clothing for national leaders, but also designed and produced cheongsam for the wives of ambassadors of more than 20 countries such as the United States, Canada, and Turkey.
In late August 2003, Ding Xiaoshi died of Parkinson's disease. My father was gone, and my mother was transformed into an isolated goose, depressed. He has been filming outside all year round, his brother has also formed a family, and his 73-year-old mother lives alone, and Ding Zhi honesty is not at ease. Ding Baoming knew his brother's concerns and said to him: "Zhicheng, you are at ease filming outside, and I will take my mother to live with us." ”
In this way, the years passed quietly in the support of the sisters and brothers. A few years passed, and by 2008, Ding Zhicheng was 45 years old. Since breaking up with his ex-wife, Ding Zhicheng has not been involved in feelings over the years. Ding Baoming advised his brother: "You should become a family again, drifting around alone, we are not at ease." "The eldest sister is like a mother, Ding Zhicheng can feel his sister's concern and long love for him, he also wants to re-establish a family, but he has not met the right person."
Ding Zhicheng has a successful career, looks handsome, and often has little girls who ador him to express his good feelings. After Ding Baoming knew, he advised his brother: "Zhicheng, those little girls are so much younger than you, if you come together, will you be happy?" My sister thinks you still have to find someone of the same age and live a down-to-earth life. Ding Zhicheng felt that what his sister said was very reasonable, and told her with a smile: "Sister, you can rest assured, I will definitely be cautious when starting a family." ”
In December 2016, Ding Zhicheng starred in the TV series "Beishang Guangdong Still Believes in Love" was a hit on major television stations across the country, and as usual, Ding Baoming stayed in front of the TV set and watched the drama without landing. She was pleasantly surprised to find that after the polishing of life, her brother's acting skills have become more mature and pure. The only thing she couldn't rest assured of was her brother's personal problems. She gave Ding Zhicheng an "ultimatum": "Brother, if you don't solve your personal problems this year, your sister will go to the marriage agency to register you." ”
After that, Ding Zhicheng also tried to find love, but he did not meet the right one. Ding Baoming also went around for his younger brother Zhang Luo, and did not find anyone to fall in love with. In January 2020, Ding Zhicheng has been divorced for 20 years and has been single. Ding Baoming is worried about his brother, and his biggest wish is to hope that he will become a family as soon as possible and live a normal and stable life! I wish Ding Zhicheng a happy married life as soon as possible and fulfill the wish of his disabled sister.
Back to reality, as a parent, how to cultivate excellent children?
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Take the words of the world-famous physicist Yang Zhenning:
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Who is Liu Xuanyu?
Compared with mathematicians such as Hua Luogeng and Chen Jingrun, Liu Xuanyu is not well-known, because his energy is mainly in mathematics teaching and the preparation of primary and secondary school textbooks.
Liu Xuanyu wrote many mathematical books in his lifetime, the most famous of which are these three:
The first book is "Mr. Ma Talks About Mathematics", which mainly talks about how to use the graphical method to solve some of the four problems of arithmetic
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