At that time, Ding Zhicheng learned that his wife gave birth to a daughter, and he instantly collapsed when he preferred sons to daughters: "Why is it not a son?" Frustrated, he did not go to the hospital to take care of his wife and children, but instead called his friends: "Come out to drink at the bar, buddy is very annoyed now!" For this, he collapsed for 3 days.
Ding Zhicheng was born in Beijing to a famous geologist and his mother also works at the Chinese Academy of Geological Sciences.
Ding Zhicheng has an older sister named Ding Baoming, and when her sister was one year old, she had polio and caused a left leg disability, and she could only walk on crutches.
Later, Ding Zhicheng had a younger brother, and his parents told them from a young age that they must take good care of their sister until they are old.
Ding Zhicheng had no complaints, and felt that his sister and brother were his responsibility.
After graduating from high school, Ding Zhicheng and his sister both entered the Academy of Geological Sciences, starting as temporary workers.
At that time, his parents hoped that his physically disabled sister would take over, and Ding Zhicheng and his sister had no opinion.
Unexpectedly, when the parents retired and their children took over, the leader did not agree to her succession on the grounds that her sister was disabled.
In desperation, his parents had to give Ding Zhicheng the quota, but his sister hated him because of this matter.
Ding Zhicheng also felt a little sorry for his sister, and paid the first month's salary, he specially bought a bat shirt and silk scarf that were particularly popular at that time for his sister.
Who knows, she didn't appreciate it at all, slammed her clothes and scarf on the ground, and said coldly: "You just came to show off to me that you have a formal job, right?"
No matter how Ding Zhicheng explained it, his sister was unwilling to forgive him.
Later, her parents saw that her sister liked to make clothes, bought her a sewing machine, let her learn tailoring, and hoped that she could also have a craft to support herself.
My sister was good at her craft, and it didn't take long for her to open a small store, and the customers who came to her every day were endless.
In the blink of an eye, my sister also reached the age of talking about marriage, and her parents were worried about it.
Unexpectedly, Yang Jianyun, who worked as a temporary worker in the geological factory with his sister, took the initiative to go to the door to ask for relatives.
Yang Jianyun is a tall and handsome young man, very healthy, he is so good, why would he like a disabled person like his sister?
Ding Zhicheng asked Yang Jianyun out and asked him, "Do you really like my sister?" If you dare to deceive her, I will not spare you!" ”
Yang Jianyun smiled, he said that he liked Ding Baoming's virtuousness and ingenuity, and felt that she was a kind and good girl, so he wanted to marry her.
Ding Zhicheng put his mind at ease.
At that time, my sister was getting married, and there was no house, so the two had to squeeze into a small tailor's shop.
Ding Zhicheng said to his parents: "Give my marriage room to my sister and brother-in-law to live!" I will talk about my business again, and I will be relieved to settle my sister first. ”
The next day, he gave his 70 square meters house to his sister and moved to the unit himself.
The year after the marriage, the sister gave birth to a son. Ding Zhicheng is very fond of this nephew, and his salary is basically subsidized to them in addition to his own expenses.
Later, Ding Zhicheng was admitted to the Beijing People's Art Theater, but he has been playing supporting roles and has no money.
Seeing that his sister and brother-in-law were living a difficult life, Ding Zhicheng was very unhappy in his heart, so he made an important decision and went to the sea to do business.
In 1990, Ding Zhicheng set up a decoration team and began to work everywhere, and within a few years he saved more than 300,000 yuan.
After having money, he let his sister go to college to study fashion design, and then let his brother-in-law go to the civil service examination, and all the expenses and living expenses were Ding Zhicheng.
Later, my sister set up her own clothing brand, and my brother-in-law was also admitted to the civil service, and my life finally got better and better.
Soon after, someone introduced renyi's accountant to Ding Zhicheng, who was already in his 30s and married within a short time of contact.
The next year, the wife gave birth to a daughter, but the patriarchal Ding Zhicheng heard the news, directly left the wife and child in the hospital and ran.
He called a friend: "Go and drink with me, my heart is so annoyed, how can I have a daughter, how can I have a son?"
Ding Zhicheng collapsed for 3 days.
But after 3 days, when he went back to see his daughter for the first time, a wave of fatherly love directly surged into his heart, whether it was a daughter or a son, it was his child.
Since then, he has changed to "daughter is good, daughter is better than son, daughter is a small cotton jacket, warm." ”
After the family settled down, Ding Zhicheng disbanded the decoration team and returned to renyi filming, and the first play was with Zhao Baogang's "A Matter of Wind and Snow and Snow".
With this play, Ding Zhicheng became a hit and became good friends with Zhao Baogang and Fu Biao.
After that, he also starred in "Yang Zhen" in "Six Groups of Serious Cases" and embarked on the peak of his career.
Privately, he is very moralistic, and whoever has something to ask him for, he is duty-bound to do everything he wants to help.
But his approach caused dissatisfaction in his wife, who left his time and energy to his friends and inevitably snubbed his wife and children.
But he just didn't want to change, and said, "I'm like this, I can't live without friends."
When his daughter was 5 years old, Ding Zhicheng was still divorced, and his daughter Ding Ding returned to his ex-wife, and the two broke up peacefully.
After more than 20 years of divorce, Ding Zhicheng has never remarried, nor has there been any scandal.
He bought the house next to his daughter's school, and as long as her daughter was in trouble, he could appear as soon as possible.
He said: "I owe my daughter too much, there is no way, I know that I have to love even if I dot on it."
Today, Ding Zhicheng's father has died, leaving only his elderly mother, his sister is older, and his daughter is left.
He was not ready to marry again, and he lived for them for the rest of his life and took good care of them.
Perhaps Ding Zhicheng is not a responsible husband in marriage, but he is a good father, good friend, and good brother.
Before Fu Biao's death, Ding Zhicheng had been with him for more than 20 days.
He is the typical Beijing grandfather, inclination, boldness, filial piety, and kindness. Once a son-preference, he has long become a "daughter slave".
In fact, in that era, both celebrities and ordinary people had a bit of a patriarchal mentality.
Now the times are progressing, and people's concepts have long changed, whether it is a daughter or a son.
Do you still have patriarchal people around you?
