Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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Life is a process that is associated with "Poe". It's either up or down!
Just as the so-called people go to the high places and the water flows to the low places, although the uphill road is tired, it is getting better and better every day, and although the downhill road is easy, it is not as good as a day.
People live all their lives, chasing happiness and stability, hoping that as they grow older, they can avoid sadness to a large extent.
For this reason, I don't know how many people have dreams that can predict the future, hoping to see through the rest of their lives, and then reasonably avoid the occurrence of various sorrows.
Leaving aside these useless reverie, in fact, each of us does not have to have the superpower to investigate the future, and we can also have the ability to climb the hill all the time.
However, because of their birth and life circumstances, some people have created doomed sad results.
In this world, the more present, the more sinister and unpredictable human nature is, if a person cannot break through himself, he can only associate with all misfortunes.
In the face of reality, no matter who you are or what you have experienced, you can only really rely on yourself.
In real life, some people see this clearly, so they desperately try to transform and grasp the present, but they have always been on the road of climbing.
Unfortunately, some people, just because they fail to recognize this, have become more and more miserable in their own world.
Many people say that a woman does not have to fight so hard, and in the future, if she finds a good man to marry, she will only enjoy happiness for the rest of her life.
It is a fallacy that does not have to be spelled out that way.
In the world of changeable feelings, it is also unknown whether it is a good man to meet. Is there any better option for the rest of your life than to create on your own?
Why do some women live more and more smoothly, while some women become more and more miserable? The answer is simple - the more you live, the more miserable the woman, there are 3 obvious characteristics on the body, after reading you will understand:
First: excessive inferiority!
A person's inferiority complex, which is deeply influenced by the influence of the original ecological family or the environmental factors of the acquired growth (including school and the workplace), is generally difficult to heal itself.
Women who are excessively inferior often feel "powerless". No matter what she does, as long as there is a negative voice, even if it is just a negative look, it is easy to make her panic.
Women who are excessively inferior need the encouragement and recognition of the outside world at all times to make themselves "full of energy". Otherwise, she would be in her own space, enjoying the darkness and not willing to go under the sun.
Women who are excessively inferior will often deny themselves and care too much about the evaluation of others. As a result, it is impossible to extricate yourself from being trapped in negative emotions.
In fact, in real life, everyone's heart lives with an inferior self. However, more people regard inferiority as the driving force for their own life to climb:
Children without umbrellas can only run as hard as they can! If you are worse than others, you will desperately try to fill what.
A person with excessive inferiority is still an extremely sensitive master, and a word, a look, and an action of others can cause her negative emotions...
This is also doomed, if such a person does not change her inferiority complex a little bit, It is difficult for God to change her increasingly desolate ending.
Second: excessive conceit!
Women who are overly conceited are generally because they have been endlessly denied by people, so they must deliberately show their "omnipotence".
Or, having been overly recognized and praised by their parents, they lack deep, correct self-awareness and think that they are really "great."
Or, because you have to use conceit to cover up your inferiority.
What women are most afraid of is not to achieve nothing, but to have the ability to have the tip of other people's iceberg and start to flutter, or to have a certain ability but because of excessive arrogance, and drive away their luck.
In real life, people are willing to contact people or things that make them "comfortable", and women who are overly conceited will only make people look at the "uncomfortable" from the inside out.
The excessively conceited person, who is more arrogant than the sky, the earth, and the air, is the negation of everything other than himself. All your words and deeds and decisions are right because of her infection and her "suggestions", wrong is that you deserve it, that you "didn't listen" to her!
In short, the excessively conceited person, the kind of ego and contempt for everything, will only make other people's emotions almost burst to the brink.
People live and engage with people is a compulsory course. The unhappiness that excessive conceit brings to others is actually to seal the road for the rest of your life. Whether you're really capable or bluffing, it will only make people stay away.
A person wants to live a life that is not desolate, and he does not have to be friends with anyone, but he must not make too many enemies. Otherwise, the embattled life is not desolate!
Third: Excessive worship of gold!
Money is a good thing and a necessity for people to live. Money is also a pit thing, because too many people have gone astray for it because of the need for survival.
Some women, just for their own vanity, are willing to block the road for the rest of their lives for money. What seems to be enjoyment in the moment is actually a brief madness before the desolation.
For the sake of inner vanity, he will not hesitate to sell his feelings and future, and obtain psychological comfort through material satisfaction. Such a person is actually the most unconfident and empty person caused by spiritual poverty.
Women who worship excessively money, because jealousy and greed lead to selfishness, make it difficult to get real satisfaction.
People often satisfy the sweet after being bitter, but after the sweet, they cannot accept the bitterness.
Women who worship excessively money live only for material pleasures, and their greed will increase day by day. It is precisely because of this that they are more interested in getting something for nothing.
Therefore, whoever gives her money will go with whomever she wants, reckless, not looking at the future, and unscrupulously. In the end, after the age of being able to "make money", I have never had the ability to keep money, and I have lost the best time to build my life, and the desolation will follow!
When it comes to hard work, women work harder in their lives than men. If a woman pins her life's luck on someone else, she is doomed to live more and more desolate.
In particular, excessive inferiority expects to be recognized and encouraged by others at all times in order to have the motivation to work hard, excessive conceit without deep self-awareness makes everyone around them respect themselves, and excessive prohibition deviates from the path of life...
Such a woman will never experience the solidity and satisfaction that she has exchanged for self-struggle, hard work, transformation and improvement.
Living, the body has a disease is not terrible, the terrible thing is the heart disease. Once the heart disease is up, when the self refuses to cure it, the objective person will only make your condition worse.
Don't expect the outside world to give you any strength, to achieve any hope for you, because your joys and sorrows are insignificant to others.
So, next, how are you going to live?
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
Topic Discussion: How do you think a woman should manage herself if she wants to have a satisfactory life? Leave your heart's words below.