Everyone wants to be happy, but everyone's definition of happiness is not exactly the same, for women, the greatest happiness, is the man who is with himself, can hurt himself and love himself, know how to cherish himself, and never hurt himself.
Many women are always complaining that "good men are other people's families, good husbands are other people's families", women are always wondering why they have not met good men, how their husbands are not so good.
In fact, whether a man is good or not, is not a good husband, and the relationship with women is very large, a smart woman, know how to grasp the man's heart, let the man willingly do everything for himself, let the man obediently hurt himself and love himself.
Come over and people tell you that it's not that your man isn't a good man, it's that your way is wrong, and that women who want to be happy must learn to "routine" men like this.
1. Find out his temper and learn to show weakness
Everyone has everyone's temper and disposition, and if a woman wants to get along well with a man, she must find out the temperament of a man, know that he is prone to get angry because of what he is in, because why he is in a good mood.
Generally speaking, men eat soft and not hard, so women should learn to show weakness in front of men, and when men are tough, women can't be too tough, otherwise two people will definitely quarrel.
Learning to show weakness in front of men is not to raise one's head in front of men, but a "routine" for women to grasp men's hearts, and men are willing to pamper and accommodate a woman who shows weakness in front of themselves.
2, understand his preferences, the right to please
Everyone has their own preferences, such as what they like to eat, what special things they like, and if women want to please men, let men know that you have him in your heart, you must understand men's preferences.
Only in this way can you please him, when you eat, give him a favorite dish, and give him a gift he likes on his birthday, which can make him very happy and let him understand that you care about him.
Knowing how to please men does not mean becoming cheap in love, if you want to love each other well, women must take men seriously, must care about men's thoughts and feelings, two people can truly love each other.
3) Men need encouragement and learn to praise
Every man is unlikely to be born to succeed and everyone experiences failure, so women learn to encourage men rather than hit men so that your men can easily succeed.
When he does the right thing, when he improves, women should give appropriate praise, men will be more willing to do, when men fail, do not say something ugly, should give encouragement.
Learning to praise a man, not blindly flattering him, but giving you appropriate encouragement at the right time, is a "routine" for women to make their men more successful.
4, grab the man's stomach and cook for him
It is said that "if you want to catch a man's heart, you must grab a man's stomach", and it is true that when you prepare a delicious meal for her and he eats satisfactorily, he will love you more.
When he is busy outside for a big day, he can eat a delicious meal when he comes home, even if he is anxious, he will become calm, and he will feel the warmth of home and feel your importance.
Know how to cook for a man, not to become his slave girl, in the intersex, is to pay each other, only if you are willing to do more for him, he will love you more, cherish you more.
5, keep yourself mysterious, occasionally cold him
In the relationship, women must retain their own mystery, when the man fully understands you, but also fully control you, will be less and less cherished you, less and less serious about you, and may even have to abandon you.
Only by maintaining her own sense of mystery can a woman always be attractive to men, so that men can always be interested, occasionally cold him, he will care more about your feelings, will pay more attention to you.
Occasionally cold him, not equal to always cold him, but sometimes, do not need to be too enthusiastic, do not need to blindly please, but also let him know that he also has a temperamental personality, good for him, just because of love for him.
Summary: Whether in love or in marriage, women must have their own "routine", love or marriage to be happy.