Why have I been with him longer? The more lonely you feel, the more insecure you feel? Does he feel this way because he didn't love me for a long time? Why do you feel like he doesn't love you anymore is because you're focusing too much on him. So I always like to think wildly, do you think that because you care too much, it is easy to suffer from gains and losses. In addition to considering that he is not doing well enough, you also have to think about whether you have a problem with yourself.
The more time and energy a person puts into running a business, the better it will be. But emotional things are always full of uncertainty, and the more you want to get a sense of security from the other person, the more you will feel insecure. When you give, you can hope to get something back from the other person. But this kind of feedback does not necessarily have to be. Security of this kind of thing, in the end is still a subjective feeling, rather than putting expectations on others, it is better to take the initiative to change themselves and give themselves a sense of peace of mind.
At that time, I felt that no matter what I did, as long as two people were together, I would never be alone. But then I also began to slowly feel that sometimes a person is also very good, and it may really be that distance produces beauty. Two people have been together for a long time, sometimes properly separated, but feel more comfortable, and the reunion atmosphere after each small goodbye has become better. Although two people will not stick together every day now, it feels like the feelings of two people are getting better and better. Sometimes when you are busy and can't take care of each other, you will occasionally say that you are left out in the cold. After all, love depends on attraction, not on stubbornness and bitter retention. Ultimately, the sense of security is created by oneself, not by others.
Everyone, especially women, needs a sense of security, whether it comes from inner stability, from a loved one, or from wealth. It's just that sometimes the older we get, the more afraid we are of relying on others, because we have experienced the pain of loss, because of the sense of uncertainty that we are afraid of pinning all our hopes on others, and we slowly understand that many people and many things are not very certain, what is possible to lose, and the only thing that can accompany themselves forever is themselves. Slowly, we become more independent and more mature. We've become stronger and we know how to properly manage a relationship.
I hope you can love the people you want to love, do what you want to do, and live the life you want to live, but the premise of this must be that you can love yourself well.