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There are three major helplessness in life: embarrassment in early years, lamentation in middle age, and loneliness in old age.
In fact, people have been suffering all their lives, but some people have suffered less, while some people have suffered more. The so-called "intersection of sorrow and joy" is this truth.
Take an ordinary person, when do you think life is the most bitter?
It's not early years, it's not early middle age, it's late middle age, and it's late years. In other words, after the age of 50, everyone needs to face new risks and challenges.
From the perspective of life development, 50 years old is precisely a key turning point in life. You turn well and naturally have no worries about your old age. On the contrary, if you do not turn well, all the problems will come unexpectedly.
Why are some people able to achieve good health in their old age, while others can only be miserable in their old age? All this is the result of a combination of many conditions.
After the age of 50, you have a good family, a good income, filial piety, healthy parents, then the rest of your life, will not you be stable? However, life is not satisfactory nine times out of ten, and there are too many people who cannot go along with their wishes.
I believe that this point is particularly clear after the 70s.
You know, the tragedy of the post-70s old age actually began when they were 50 years old.
02
After the 70s of Ben Wu, he is facing 4 mountains.
At the moment when the 70s run to the fifth, there are four mountains as scheduled, and no matter how strong your ability is, you can't dodge it.
The first mountain is "pension".
There is no doubt that the post-70s generation will enter the ranks of the elderly in this decade, so they will face a serious "pension crisis". At the same time, they not only have to provide for themselves, but also for their parents.
Raising children and preventing the elderly can only benefit the parents of the post-70s, but not the post-70s themselves. You know, the children after the 70s can't even support themselves, so why talk about supporting their parents?
The second mountain is the "child."
In this regard, many people will wonder why children have grown up, why will they also have an impact on the lives of the post-70s? Two reasons.
First of all, there are many post-70s who have given birth to a second child, and that is the most fatal. Secondly, even if the post-70s do not have a second child, then they also need to help their children buy a car and a house, and even help their children to support them.
The third mountain is "occupation."
Career is actually closely related to your "income". Some of the post-70s have already made a fortune, which can ignore this problem. However, there are still many post-70s who are "troubled" because they are unemployed and have no income.
Unemployment in middle age, or even difficulty in finding employment, is a problem of workplace discrimination that cannot be changed. Can it be changed? No. In the eyes of private business owners, it is better to find young people than a middle-aged and elderly person. It's brutal.
The fourth mountain is "medical treatment."
In today's society, there is a saying that is very realistic, between the poor and the rich, there is only a distance of a hospital bed.
Some people suffer to old age because of occupational diseases, some people return to the pre-liberation period overnight because of serious illnesses, and some people empty their homes because they are seriously ill. This is the most helpless place.
03
The helplessness of the post-70s began after the age of 50.
After the age of 50, we will actually face an extremely "complicated" life. This complexity is often beyond our imagination.
Before the age of 50, many people hope to hurry to the age of 50, because people know that many people leave before the age of 49, and only by crossing the barrier of 50 years old can life be stable.
In fact, there will be no stable moment in life. At the very least, your health will get worse and worse, your energy will become more and more decayed, but your income will be less and less, the burden on your family will become heavier and heavier, and your children will become more and more dependent on you. This is the most helpless place.
We just have to talk about children and we understand.
Generally speaking, most of the children after the 70s are post-90s or post-00s generations. However, this generation faces three problems – it cannot afford to support itself, it cannot afford to marry, and it cannot start a family.
Since they can't start a family, the post-70s generation as parents have to help their children. Just think, if even the post-70s can't help the child, then the child can only be more and more miserable?
This is not a problem of the child himself, but a problem of the environment. It seems that children can provide for their parents, but in fact, most children will eat old, and you can only be willing.
Three words to summarize, very helpless. Four words to summarize, sigh sigh.
04
In the face of the above problems, after the 70s, we should do the following four things.
First of all, we must save a certain amount of money.
Again, in this day and age, having money and doing everything can also get your child out of the inner circle. However, if there is no money, it is the unfortunate beginning of three generations.
Second, take good care of your body.
If you can't be rich, then I wish you happiness. If you can't be happy, then I wish you happiness. If you can't be happy, then I wish you peace. Take good care of your body, that is the key to "saving money".
Third, have a positive attitude and wait for the flowers to bloom.
Although life is cruel, there is still hope for the future, even if there is little hope. But it is still necessary to say that when you have money, live a good life. When you don't have money, put your mood on well. That's the truth.
Fourth, prepare for the worst.
No matter which generation, there must be no luck mentality, but to prepare for the worst-case scenario. Because life is always more complicated than you think. It, there is no best, only better. There is no worst, only worse.
Everything, very realistic.
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