When did you start to become gentle?
Presumably we'll have a lot of answers, because it's too broad, but if we were asking a different question, who would you be gentle with?
Then this answer is easy to come out, that is, to the person you like. Oh, yes! It seems that all feelings start with gentleness at the beginning.
As someone said, "You are the joy I see at first sight, you are the way I look, you are my gentle destination, you are the reason for the rise of the corners of my mouth." ”
And the truth is that when we meet someone we like, we become very gentle with him. Remember plato saying: "When love taps on the shoulder, even men who usually disdain poetry become poets." ”
Many feelings are indeed like this, sweet and gentle in the beginning, and it is up to us to end up later. But in the initial love, the two people must be gentle.
Just like Gu Wei and Lin Zhixue in "The Rest of Your Life, Please Advise More", their encounter can be said to be gentle after liking you. It can also be said that their encounter is the structure of the classic romantic comedy in three acts.
The first time they met in a bar, Lin Zhixue used Gu Wei as a tool person, using him to prevent himself from being discovered by his father, so the encounter between the two people was actually not very pleasant.
After that, their relationship between the two people once, twice, and three times did not change much, and it can be said that the road to their relationship was bumpy, and it took 18 episodes for the relationship between the two people to finally be determined.
At this time, we can see that liking a person begins to become gentle, and this sentence is not wrong at all.
At the beginning, when Gu Wei didn't like Lin Zhi School, he always looked like he refused to be thousands of miles away, but when he liked Lin Zhi School, this attitude was gone. He began to like advice, and used his gentleness to love Lin Zhixue.
He would say to her when Lin Zhixue was crying: "Well, don't cry, I've been there, I'm here." ”
When Hayashi School was afraid of becoming ugly because of allergies, he said, "Everything is beautiful, it's really beautiful."
He would also show his "domineering" appearance when others slandered Lin Zhixue, and say loudly to the person who denigrated her: "He is the person I like, trouble you to like the person you like in the future, no, be kind to my girlfriend." ”
Yes, Gu Wei's gentleness was only for Lin Zhixue, and he was not without temper, but his temper would only get better and better for Lin Zhixue, because he really liked her.
Indeed, when we like a person, how gentle we can be, how gentle he can be, he will hide all his likes in his daily trivia, and at this time, both people are emitting a gentle breath from the inside out.
It's like Yi Shu wrote in "The Story of the Rose": "Love is not learning, you don't have to learn." If you love someone, it is difficult to hide in your heart, and it is natural to focus on her, which is instinctive and laborious. ”
Because liking can't be hidden, it's like watching a story like this before, which has such a dialogue:
"I'm always stupid and my temper explodes at the slightest. Every time there was a fight, even if it was my fault, it was he who finally bowed his head, and I asked him why he could do this to me. ”
He said: "Because I like you, I just want to give you the most tenderly, and every day I love you a little more than the day before." ”
As we often say, not loving is obvious, and so is love, and it is very obvious. Especially when a person faces someone he likes, this performance is involuntary.
It's like a person who is originally a serious person will also talk to you, nag and advise you. And these changes are all manifestations of his gentleness towards you. And what is hidden is his concern for you.
So, when you like someone, often the first thing that starts to change is that you become gentle enough with him.
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