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The writer Yu Hua wrote in "Alive": "You must not be confused, the dead still want to live, you are a big living person can not die." ”
Yeah, everyone wants to live a long life. However, many people do not understand that people always have to die, everything will become nothing, why should they live? What is the meaning of being alive?
There is a way, eat a trench, grow a wisdom.
A person always has to experience something in order to truly understand life, otherwise your understanding of the world is ethereal, and the concept of life is simple.
Usually, after experiencing the following things, you will understand what is the meaning of human life.
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First, after the death of your parents, you will understand that you live for the sake of "blood love."
In the TV series "My Brothers and Sisters", four children, Yi Ku, Si Tian, Qi Tian, and Qi Miao, were born in a small town in the north, and their father was a teacher. They grow up carefree in the snow.
The weather is unpredictable. Their parents passed away, they were placed in foster care with relatives and then sent to different families. The siblings have been separated ever since.
When Si Tian grew up, she found that she had a terminal illness. So she tried her best to reunite with her brothers and sisters, hoping that in her lifetime, she could still feel the warmth of family affection. Finally, the four children hugged each other and cried at the concert.
Some people say: "Parents are here, there is still a source in life, parents go, life is only the way home." ”
When you lose your parents, your siblings are the closest people. This is your feeling, and it is also the feeling of your children. Generation after generation of people, passing on the bloodline, while relaying the feelings.
Families become families, families become villages, towns, cities. Therefore, we often hear the saying that there are brothers in all corners of the world.
I like this sentence: "As long as the family is together every day, they don't care about any blessings." ”
It is the greatest blessing to be together as a family. As long as you live, the blessing will always exist. This is also the meaning of parents telling us with life and love what it means to be alive.
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Second, after surviving the moment of life and death, you will understand that to live is to "be kind to life."
In Japan, there is a big boy named Chisho Yamada, who is affectionately called "Miracle Boy" by netizens.
In a tram accident, he lost both legs and his right hand. When he was rescued, he found that he was incomplete and very depressed, and his parents around him were also in tears.
His brother said, "Saved lives cannot be wasted." ”
Yes, people who rub shoulders with the god of death are lucky and blessed, how can they not cherish it?
Now Yamada Chisa is optimistic and upbeat, not only has a job, but also served as a torchbearer of the Olympic Games. He said: "As long as you can convey a little smile and courage, you are very satisfied." ”
Nothing can stop a person's yearning for life; nothing can stop a man who wants to go to the sun.
"You're not even afraid of death, what are you afraid of?" This is not only an inspirational word, but also the most authentic insight. When you cross the door of life and death, you will find that the road ahead is clear, and there is a back road; the door on the left is closed, and the door on the right.
Cherish the body, this is the meaning of life. As a result, more and more people are realizing that health is the greatest asset. We can spend a little less money, make a bucket less gold, and as long as we are healthy, it is proud enough.
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Third, after being needed by others, you will understand that living people have "their own value."
I have seen such a story: Hu Xueyan, a rich man in the Qing Dynasty, crossed the river by boat when he went to Xiaoshan, and accidentally overturned a child's basket.
The child insisted on a compensation of six yuan, but Hu Xueyan did not have change. Therefore, Hu Xueyan set his sights on a beggar, Yu Xiaomao, and borrowed six pieces of money.
A few years later, Yu Xiaomao learned the craft of shipbuilding and became a family. He found Hu Xueyan and asked for a sum of money to build a ferry and ferry for his hometown.
The meaning of life is sometimes extremely simple. When you are so disappointed in yourself that someone needs you, you will stand up and be the "boss" role. Because your life is no longer your own, but everyone's.
Therefore, many people find their own value and find a way to live after being needed.
From a certain point of view, "good has good rewards, and cause and effect are not false." Your kindness has made others successful and helped yourself. When you become more and more kind, there is a light of humanity.
For example, a lifelong very ordinary white square, after retirement, by riding a tricycle to make money, helped many children to go to school, his light, we will always remember. Even though he has been gone for many years, he is still "alive".
Because "six pieces of money" can change a person's fate, you can let a large group of people enjoy the blessings. Why not enjoy such a good thing?
When you are stuck, don't dwell on the meaning of life, and help people in need.
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The writer Hemingway wrote: "Regretting your mistakes and striving not to repeat them is true repentance." Being superior to others is not noble, and true nobility should be superior to one's past self. ”
There are a hundred answers to the meaning of being alive in the hearts of a hundred people. More people will say, "Life has no meaning."
Really doesn't have to be so negative. The meaning of life is a kind of perception, it is a way to calmly go to the end of life, and naturally do something.
The ancients said, "Everything is fate, and half a point is not up to man." ”
The ancients also said, "All things are inferior, but the reading is high." ”
Which sentence do you want to listen to the ancients? It should be like this: recognize the fate, then change the fate, one change is not enough to make yourself successful, then change a few more times. The more wisdom you have, the deeper your understanding of life.
The fool confesses his destiny, and the wise man recognizes. From the perspective of life, three meals a day, greeting relatives, worshipping ancestors, caring for society, getting rid of troubles, picking up books... All have a certain meaning.
Yu Hua said: "No matter how big a person's life is, if he wants to die, he will not be able to live." ”
Even if life will not be eternal, you and I still have to be a person who "wants to live".
Author: Cloth coarse food.
Follow my words and go into your heart.
The illustrations in this article come from the Internet.