Writer Li Xiaoyi said: "First make a living, then seek love." ”
The greatest sense of security for adults is that they have spare money in their hands and idle hearts.
Don't be sentimental, don't be sad.
Make good money, and then go to the sad spring and autumn.
Stephen Chow said in an interview:
"Make money!" What's more important than making money, I love money so much. ”
Admit that you love money and there is no shame in that.
Breadwinners, three meals a day, poetry and far away, which one is not piled up with money.
Recently, a post-95 girl, relying on car washing to pay off 200,000, was on the hot search.
Her name is Liu Shuxian, she is 26 years old and was born into a single-parent family.
During the day, she runs a substitute driver, drives 20 kilometers, and earns 40 yuan.
In the evening, Liu Shuxian and her friends were on the side of the road, holding up a car wash sign, which read:
8 taxis, 10 ride-hailing cars and 15 private cars.
At two o'clock in the morning, she was tired and sweaty, and she earned 200 yuan all night.
Liu Shuxian, a single-parent family, is very eager to stabilize in her heart.
Asked why do you fight so hard?
Liu Shuxian replied:
I want to save money to buy a house. I am not afraid to suffer, bitter in case it is sweet?
Even if it is bitter and not sweet, it can be accepted, and if you try harder, you must not give up.
It's hard to make money.
No money, more suffering.
A person who has suffered from no money will understand the sweetness of making money.
Many young people always shout that life is meaningless, and the elderly answer: There is nothing to do when they are full.
If you have been hungry and survived famine, you will understand that living is the greatest meaning.
Life is not about making money, but making money is about living better.
Guo Degang said: "Pretend to have three points of dementia to prevent death, and leave seven points to make a living." ”
Earning a living is the most basic self-discipline and the guarantee of life.
My grandfather, in his eighties, still makes money at the wet market.
In the morning, at dawn, I went to the vegetable garden to pick vegetables, wash them, and then walk 5 kilometers to the town to catch the market.
Some people, seeing that Grandpa is old, sometimes buy vegetables for him to give him fake money.
Grandpa couldn't tell the difference, and finally was deceived in vain.
His uncles advised him not to do the work, it was not worth it.
Grandpa said, "As long as I can still move, I have to rely on myself." Even on this day, only 2 yuan is earned, and you can exchange it for a few sips of wine. ”
Making a living is a habit in the bones, and it is also the most solid support for a person.
Li Xiaoyi wrote in the book "First Make a Living, Then Seek Love":
Only by living a wonderful life, no longer suffering from gain and loss, no longer cowering at the end, and no longer looking forward and backward, can you become an independent woman who is respected, soft on the outside, and the inside.
Recently, the phenomenon of "squatting at home" and "nibbling on the elderly" has become more and more common, and many young people are reluctant to go out to work and rely on their parents to support themselves at home.
Parents are still healthy, and there are still people to rely on to "nibble on the old people".
If your parents have also reached the stage of needing support, who will protect you?
Don't waste your life in decadence and eventually lose the ability to make a living.
For the rest of your life, please rely on yourself.
Make a living first, love later. First have confidence, then lose your temper.
"When you meet a good person, you start a family first, and when you meet a noble person, you start a family first."
Hu Xueyan is a famous red-top merchant.
He went from a country cowherd to a rich businessman.
Fifteen years after Qing Daoguang, Hu Xueyan's father died of illness, and the family was in difficulty, so he had to leave his hometown to wander.
In order to survive, Hu Xueyan did everything.
From sweeping the floor, pouring urine pots and other miscellaneous tasks, after three years of completion, he became a formal partner of the money bank because of his diligence and steadfastness.
Hu Xueyan, 19 years old, was accepted as an apprentice by The Treasurer of Hangzhou Fukang Qianzhuang, and later died in the Treasurer, entrusting all the Money Estate to him, which is also the foundation of Hu Xueyan's career.
Because Hu Xueyan was diligent and inquisitive and made friends, he met many nobles.
Zuo Zongtang and Zeng Guofan both trusted him very much.
Hu Xueyan said:
Being a person should only ask about cultivation and not about the harvest, because the harvest is not something that one can control, and one can only control the process, not the result.
As the saying goes, thirty and standing.
What is established is the cause, the character, and the ideological realm.
Standing on top of the sky, bright and clear, you can meet the source left and right wherever you go.
When I was young, I always felt that it was easy to be a person, and Hua Nian fang knew that it was difficult to establish a career.
I've heard a passage like this:
Let the heart be quiet and settle down; work and earn a living, be down-to-earth and diligent; treat people and things, and be smooth; save my body every day, and be upward and good.
All of this is the true God who blesses you.
You are your own God.
The best amulet for a person is to make money and make a living.
On the road to run for the ideal, there are wind, frost, rain and snow.
But as long as you are diligent and diligent, you can reach the far side of your heart.
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