■ Author: Uncle Nanshan
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01, people go bad luck, many people will encounter.
People, there will always be times when they are not satisfied. After all, "life is not satisfactory nine times out of ten", no one's life, will always be smooth, including you, but also including me. Therefore, in the face of unsatisfactory life, we must learn to use the right mentality and the right way to keep it. When talking about this topic with the old man of Nanshan, the old man of Nanshan reminded me: Even when we are in decline, we must know how to keep our four bottom cards, especially the third bottom card, so that we can realize the restart of adversity and regain our own chapter of life. So, what do the old people of Nanshan mean by these four bottom cards?
02, people are unlucky, to keep the bottom card of making a living.
The old man of Nanshan said that when people are unlucky, the first thing to keep is our bottom card for making a living. Ordinary people often say: "I have a skill, and I am not afraid of my parents running out of food." The strength of this skill actually refers to the means by which we make a living. This kind of means can be intellectual or labor-oriented. When a person falls into a depression, or even a disaster, bad luck and decay may come one after another. In such a situation, we must first find a way to ensure that we and our families have basic food, clothing, and shelter.
And when we have a skill to make a living, we hold the bottom card to make a living. People are in decline, and with our livelihood skills, we can earn a living by gritting our teeth and persevering, thus supporting ourselves and our families. In the face of adversity, as long as we do not give up on ourselves, relying on our step-by-step persistence, we will inevitably come out of the haze of life and usher in our own spring and warm blossom day.
03, people are unlucky, to keep the psychological bottom card.
The old man of Nanshan said that when people are unlucky, our psychology can easily fall into a state of collapse. Because when we are unlucky, our economic ability and our network resources will fall into the trough of life. At this time, we go around asking for help, and sometimes, we even encounter the sneers and ruthless blows of others. In such an adversity, if there is no strong psychological quality, our psychology is easy to collapse. The psychological collapse will not only bring us strong psychological pressure and self-abandonment emotions to ourselves, but also bring invisible pressure and burden to our families.
As a result, it will be more difficult for us to change the status quo in times of adversity. The most important thing for people to go through the decline and decline is to know how to change their luck in time. And if you want to change your luck in time, have a strong heart, and even have a "dead pig is not afraid of boiling water" mentality, it is not a way out of the predicament. Therefore, when people are unlucky, we must firmly hold our own psychological cards, and never let our psychology fall into a state of collapse, only in this way can we have the opportunity to change the unfavorable situation of people's decline.
04, people are unlucky, to keep the health card.
The old man of Nanshan said that it is most important for people to go bad and keep their own healthy cards. It is said that "the body is the capital of the revolution", and when we fall into a state of decay and even distress, we will be prepared to taste the cold and warm world of human feelings. In the midst of huge psychological pressure and life pressure, if we do not keep our own healthy bottom card, once the body has something wrong, or even bedridden, then our life may fall into the gray and difficult to struggle up swamp. At this time, we may be poor and sick, or we may not be able to afford to be sick, and we will spend the rest of our lives in pain and suffering.
Therefore, "stay in the green mountains, not afraid of no firewood", people are unlucky, we must use this sentence to wake up ourselves. When we are in adversity, calm down, make a good set of each small goal in our life, and then, with our healthy body, to achieve these small goals one by one. Once we have survived these hardships in life, then what awaits us will be the blessing after the bad luck has dissipated.
05, people are unlucky, to keep the emotional bottom card.
The old man of Nanshan said that people are unlucky, and it is also very important to keep the bottom card of emotion. It is said that "when the husband and wife are old partners", a person, on his long road of life, must understand the importance of the family, must keep the feelings of themselves and their lovers. However, people go bad luck, we often encounter the regret of "poor and lowly couples Pepsi lament", many couples in one side of the dilemma, after the decline, will make "husband and wife are the same forest birds, the big disaster is coming to fly separately" thin affection.
We who are in difficulty, once we encounter the separation of husband and wife, it will be worse, and our lives will fall into a more unfavorable situation. The real couple should share the hardships and hardships, and they should be "working together, and their profits are broken". Therefore, people are unlucky, and both husband and wife must keep each other's emotional cards well. Don't play this emotional card as a "stink card" of family separation, then the rest of our lives will be bleak.
06, spring blossoms, luck will naturally come.
Friends, it is normal for each of us to encounter bad luck. However, we must believe that "thirty years of Hedong and thirty years of Hexi", no matter who it is, can not guarantee that their lives will always be rich and developed, we must know how to keep their own life cards, in order to let their lives encounter such and such decline, not to "defeat the army like a mountain". In the same way, if people who are down again, if they do not give up on themselves, if they can persist in their efforts, then, sooner or later, such a person will one day get rid of the state of their own life's decline and return to their own spring season, at that time, good luck will naturally follow. Friends, you say, is that right? Welcome to leave a message in the comment area to discuss. Thank you.
【About the author】:Uncle Nanshan, focusing on original emotional stories, folk stories and emotional beauty writing, has published 6 books on emotions, beautiful texts and stories. Major self-media platforms original plus V authors, major platforms accumulated millions of fan authors, the major platforms cumulative clicks more than 500 million times. Uncle Nanshan aims to give everyone more small stories of positive energy through simple words, tell everyone some truths about being a person, and feel some beautiful little luck in life.