Relationships are like a mirror.
We all hope that treating others with kindness can win the respect and kindness of others.
If a person pays his heart, he is greeted with malicious slander.
In the face of such a situation, I think everyone will have a contradictory psychology, and they are not willing to interact with each other from now on, and whenever we see such a person, we will avoid it.
This life, everyone's time, is limited.
Instead of wasting a lot of time on people who don't deserve it. Why can't it be removed from the other person's body?
From now on, pay more attention to yourself, cherish yourself more, if you meet someone who is in love, and then cherish and protect, such a choice is a wise behavior.
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Subconsciously look at friendship.
Everyone's growth is different.
In the process, everyone strives to be a sincere person.
When necessary, we also have to learn to disguise.
In this way, people can both maintain social interaction with friendly people and avoid those with ulterior motives.
Even so, we still meet the wrong person. For example:
Some people claim to treat you as a friend, but in fact, they just use the friendship of friends and constantly use you. But deep down, the other person has never recognized you, or respected you.
Meeting such a person, for everyone, is never a fate, and even one day, it will become a challenge and disaster. Therefore, instead of acting with each other, it is better to choose to disconnect from it.
After all, everyone's energy is limited.
There are some relationships that are really not worth maintaining, so don't waste precious time.
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This way back to you, is not to care.
Interpersonal, there is sincerity and friendliness.
One day, it is also possible that you will encounter hypocritical people.
When you regard the other person as a real friend, the person's heart has never really accepted you. For friends, how to see through a person's true face in interpersonal relationships?
From a psychological point of view, we can judge the authenticity of feelings based on the subconscious mind.
A person's subconscious, often the most authentic side of the heart, will affect a person's judgment and choices. And these subconscious minds will be expressed through the words and deeds of this person.
There is an old saying: the details are in the real chapter.
If you want to grasp the subconscious of a person, you need to find out the subconscious behind the person's words and deeds from the details, so as to understand his true thoughts and find the answers he wants.
If a person replies to you like this, he should still choose to disconnect it, because he really can't afford it.
Always perfunctory.
When two people interact, sincerity is a long-term prerequisite.
If a person sees you as a true friend, he will not only communicate with you with his heart and lungs, but also choose to help you and support you at critical times.
It is a joy for you to be able to maintain a state of communication.
Therefore, with a sympathetic attitude toward each other, they will continue to communicate frankly. And the other party's words and deeds will not leave you with any perfunctory feelings.
Conversely, if someone doesn't consider you a friend.
Even if he keeps in touch with you, he won't tell you the truth, but will be defensive against you at every turn.
When you need help, that person will find various reasons to reject you. When you make some demands, the other party will also use some words to prevaricate you.
If it is such a feeling, it is recommended that you let it go.
Even if we continue to communicate, one day, the two sides will face a day of turning faces. When you find that the other party is not sincere enough, patience will only disappear day by day, and you are no longer willing to accompany that person to act.
Casual attitude.
Feelings need to be maintained.
People who care about you will not treat the feelings between you with the mentality of fate.
Instead, they will seize the opportunity to socialize with you and make the time in front of you wonderful. Even if you really have a day of separation, you will remember each other deeply.
In the passage of time, those who cherish their fate will become a brand of life.
When you think about it, you will always feel a warm heart, not only will you miss such a friend, but also thank each other for meeting each other, making this life more worthwhile.
If you meet such a friend, it is certainly worth cherishing, and it is also worth treating with gratitude.
If in a relationship, you try to cherish, but the other party has been avoiding, or with a casual attitude, it is recommended to let go of it. Sometimes, from the tone of the other person's speech, we can feel whether he is valued or not.
The matter of feelings is the result of the interaction between two people, not one person can grasp it.
In the face of a person who does not know how to cherish you, instead of humbly contacting the other party, it is better to let go, and choosing to break the connection is a wise way.
Likes to blame you.
Why can two people come together?
Even one day, both parties can become confidants in life, so that there is no real talk.
Mainly because, after meeting each other, they can appreciate and attract each other. Even if you find that the other party has shortcomings, everyone can stare at the advantages and maintain a state of appreciation.
Instead, deliberately point out the flaws in others to show their own excellence.
True friends can realize that no one is perfect.
Since getting along with you, such a friend will not stare at your shortcomings, but will always appreciate you, willing to communicate and share with you, and go to a better place together.
And the one who looks at you with disgust will never see you as a friend. People who are keen to treat you with an accusatory tone will not be true friends with you.
Even if the other person maintains a state of interaction with you, it is only to meet temporary needs. When you have no use value, the other party will choose to leave you.
Such a person, who knows where your weaknesses lie, may also use your weaknesses to satisfy personal interests. You see him as a true friend, and that person has the potential to become an obstacle in your life.
Life is nothing but a journey.
In the process, we will meet countless people.
Some people have met and been with you, and if they are really not suitable for each other, they should not be done. Because such a person, after all, does not regard you as a real person, in his heart, he does not care about the feelings between you.
If you meet people who treat each other sincerely, please cherish each other's fate.
Because the friendship between you can not only pass the test of time, but also make each other's lives more exciting. In the face of such a person, you may wish to say sincerely: thank you for meeting, it is really good to have you.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.