Pay attention to the development of language teaching and solve the confusion of language learning.
Many parents and friends do not know that one of the shortcuts to make children progress is to chat with excellent parents. As an elementary school Chinese teacher, I often deal with parents, excellent students, and their parents are also very good, which is obvious. Parents' words and deeds are the best learning guidance for children, but how to teach is very important. As a Chinese teacher, I talk to parents about learning counseling, children's learning performance at home, parents' counseling confusion, I hope that my guidance suggestions can give parents some reference. Parents will also chat with each other, most of them are envious of each other, becoming someone else's child, such excellence, not the parents' mouth of the understatement: I have not managed the child's learning, but there must be its parents in the process of tutoring unique. There may not be a gap between parents, but good experience is worth learning and learning.
I once met a parent who was a confinement sister-in-law, and her work was very busy, often for a month, and she could not accompany her children. But her child is a primary school bully, the language test 100 points, in the communication with the sister-in-law parents, I learned that it is not because the parents are busy at work, there is no time to accompany the child to learn, her child has become a primary school bully, their learning talent is very good, but even if it is a very hard work, the parents' education level is not high, and even can not provide the child with particularly good learning resources, but their educational counseling experience, must be used correctly in which link, this is worth our reference. Of course, good counseling education experience, replaced by other children, may not work, but behind the good results, those common counseling principles, it is still worth our thinking.
1, parents are too busy at work, how to cultivate learning habits
We all think that the nature of the sister-in-law's work is very busy, and she is not at home for a long time and cannot accompany her children to study. Especially now many second-child families, there are requirements for the age of the sister-in-law, and older people are not suitable for working too hard. So we can see that many sisters-in-law are under the age of 40, and at this age, the child is in elementary school, which is also a critical period. There are many excellent qualities in the sister-in-law, which can set a good example for children, they are careful, hardworking, and very professional in time planning and allocation.
Therefore, from their own professional experience, they will give children some guidance. As long as after doing the work of raising a baby, the rest time will accompany the child to write homework and study. Tell your child how to plan your time well, and slowly your child will understand how to start learning on their own. Generally in the third grade, the relationship between parents and children will gradually stabilize and settle in the learning process. Parents who are too busy at work are not ignoring their children at the same time, but paying attention to their children's learning in another way. How does the sister-in-law do it? Very supportive of the child's own learning style, such as the child likes to write homework after eating, then the sister-in-law parents will not force the child to write the homework before eating, nor will it stipulate what the child must do, everything let the child arrange and decide.
For parents, I do a good job of assisting children, whether in life or learning, I listen more to children's demands, give help, in life scenarios, give children some advice, cultivate their learning habits. After the transition of the first and second grades, to the third grade, the child's behavior and performance in learning can naturally form certain habits. We think that the parents of the confinement are parents with low education, but in fact, through the planning of time, they can also find a tutoring method suitable for their children. This is the experience of parents in balancing the relationship between career and family education, and I hope that other parents who are very busy at work can reflect on what help and impact we can bring to their children in the cultivation of learning habits.
2. Appear in time when the child needs it
The profession of being a sister-in-law is actually to establish a certain degree of counseling confidence for parents themselves. In the chat with the parent of the sister-in-law, I learned that the child also went to an ordinary primary school, and the parents of the classmates also had professions such as doctors and lawyers, and as a sister-in-law, they were the work of the housekeeping nanny, and they would have a little inferiority. But fortunately, the economy is not too bad, can give children a certain amount of learning support. Therefore, when the child needs it, the parents appear in time, which is also a very important counseling principle. In fact, the work of doing the monthly sister-in-law by yourself is also very hard, but when resting, as long as the child wants to eat the meals she makes, the mother will meet the child's wishes and do a good job in logistics.
For most primary school students, the need for parental help may not only be in learning, but also in psychological recognition and encouragement. This sister-in-law's parent, when the child is tired or a little bored with learning, will take the child out for a walk, chat, and talk about the fun things they have at work. The child's emotions are relieved, and he can naturally understand the parents better. At the same time, she and the child's father made up their minds not to quarrel in front of the child because of the trivial matters of life. What the child sees is that although the parents are doing the most ordinary work, the family and the United States, the parents' affection and affection, and the parents' mode of getting along with them is more like friends, although life is ordinary, psychologically it is very practical, which is very important for the child's learning. Children will not be afraid because the exam is not good, they will take the initiative to share with parents, analyze the learning by themselves, and summarize the process of learning methods.
3. Do not consider the gains and losses in the grades, and observe the advantages of the child
The 100-point student bully who often takes the Chinese language test is also flawed in other people's children. When the shortcomings are covered up by the full score, parents will also take the initiative to observe the child's problems. Mothers who are not at home for a whole month will also be distressed by their children's rebellious period, but she believes that the process of each child from birth to growth is unique, and the child will establish his own emotions in the stage of growth, even in infancy. Then their own children, when they are naughty and troubled, they need to accept the shortcomings of the child, observe the advantages of the child, rather than ignoring the recognition and improvement that the child needs to get because of excellent grades.
Regardless of the gains and losses in the grades, the parents of the sister-in-law saw more potential for their children. Just as she has become friends with her employer at work, every new mother will cling to her at the end of the work. Therefore, parents and friends, don't make excuses because you are busy at work, the excuses you are looking for are actually excuses that you don't want to take on educational responsibilities. Everyone is welcome to leave a message or comment.