In order to further build a campus safety defense line, continue to do a good job in the prevention and control of campus bullying, effectively prevent and curb the occurrence of student bullying incidents, and effectively protect the physical and mental health of primary and secondary school students, under the guidance of the Department of Education's Department of Safety and Security and Stability Maintenance, Jiangsu Education News Network focused on the topic of "preventing bullying in schools", produced vivid and vivid propaganda cartoons, and pushed the relevant special knowledge of "prevention of campus bullying" in "student articles", "parent articles" and "school articles".
Today, please see the "Parent Chapter" of the "Prevention of School Bullying" topic "How Can Parents Help Their Children Cope with School Bullying?" 》
If your child is a bully, please—
1. Clearly and seriously tell the child that such behavior is resolutely not allowed, and never accept the child's "just fun" reason.
2. Arrange an effective, non-violent, punishment.
3. Spend time with your child and enhance your understanding of your child.
4. Cooperate with the school to correct the child's behavior, and keep in constant contact with the school teacher.
5. Avoid having your child watch TV, movies, or violent video games with a lot of violence.
6. Reflect on the interaction between family members at the first time, and eliminate behaviors that may cause children to imitate.
If your child is being bullied, please pay special attention to !!!
A few words that must not be said -
When a child is bullied and confides in the parents
Parents do not give their children practical advice
Instead, blame the child:
Mom, I was bullied at school...
How can you be so useless? He hits you, and you hit him next time!
Why is it always you who are being bullied, not others?
Isn't it just a fight, how big a deal? As for crying and crying?
Tell your teacher about this, what is the use of telling me? I can't beat him for you.
......
These words will only make children more and more afraid and disappointed
Parental indifference is more terrible than bullying
Parents should do this —
1. When discussing with your child, encourage him or her to know that he or she can trust you and get your help at any time.
2. Confirm whether the school has dealt with bullying or whether it is properly handled, and if necessary, it can be jointly resolved with the school.
3. If the bullying situation occurs on the way to and from school, the older student should be arranged to accompany him to and from school, or personally pick up the child until the problem is resolved.
4. If the child is introverted and shy and lacks social interaction, he or she should help him (her) arrange more club activities that match his or her interests to cultivate the child's appropriate social skills and build self-confidence.
5. Teach children to recognize various types of bullying, so that children are familiar with the coping methods of different types of bullying. One-on-one "drills" can be performed with your child at home. After repeated training, your child's self-confidence and courage will be significantly enhanced.
6. Discuss solutions with your child, ask him or her opinions and ideas more, guide and allow your child to solve problems in his or her own way, and exercise his (her) ability to solve problems on his or her own in encouragement.
7. Communicate with children in a timely manner and channel children's psychological pressure. If the child has psychological problems such as avoiding school, he should seek professional psychological help.