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01. Preface
Love, like a layer of fog, always makes it impossible to really see the person you love. However, love can really make people feel.
When you fall in love, your heart can overflow with sweetness, there are stars in your eyes, and there is warmth in your palms.
True love for a person, can not be hidden, it must have traces to follow. It hides in the minutiae of life, in the trivialities.
Falling in love is a particularly sweet thing. However, the human heart in the world is unpredictable, and it is difficult to see the true heart.
In love, when you can't see each other's heart, you are prone to anxiety, easy to be insecure, and easy to cause questions and speculations about lovers.
Lan Lin said: "The things in this world that cannot be hidden are Sanyo, sneezing, poverty, and love. ”
Although love cannot be hidden and can be felt, it is still easy for people to suffer from gains and losses, so that people cannot see each other's true heart. In fact, as long as the heart is careful, love can be "seen".
If a person truly loves you in the depths of his heart, there will be "three performances", which is very warm.
02, good at empathy, understand you
Love has self-healing power. If a person really cares about you, he can heal your heart.
Some studies in psychology say: "When the deepest needs of a person's heart are met, the effect of healing psychological wounds can be achieved." ”
If a person truly loves you, he will care about your feelings and become one of the few people in the world who understands you.
A person who really loves you, he will be good at empathy, worry about what you are worried about, enjoy what you are happy, will put your emotions first, and always care about your feelings.
A beautiful love must be a true communication between heart and heart. The more people who care about you, the more they understand you. When communicating, there will be a feeling of "seeing each other and hating late".
A true love is the mutual consolation of the soul. Because, he will take care of your preferences, pay attention to your living habits, and care about your inner feelings.
The deeper you love, the more you will care.
When a person is empathetic in front of you and "understands" you very much, in fact, it is only because he uses his heart to care for you and love you deeply.
03, taking on trivial things is a kind of love
True love is not a momentary enthusiasm, but a long boring and tedious stay.
When a person truly loves you from the bottom of his heart, he will be willing to manage his life with his heart, willing to bear trivial things with you, and willing to use his heart to find fun in his trivial life.
In the TV series "Children of the Qiao Family", Wang Yiding's love for Qiao Sanli may not be vigorous, but it can make people see his intentions.
For example, sometimes after the night shift, he would always escort her all the way home, or, after Qiao Sanli's bicycle broke, he could show up in time to help her fix the bicycle.
It seems that it is just some bits and pieces, but it hides Wang Yiding's intentions.
When a person cares about a person in his heart, all her trivial things are actually a big thing in his eyes and heart.
If you really love someone deep down, in life, she has any difficulties, he can always appear in time.
Life is made up of trivial things. People who really love you are willing to manage their lives with their hearts and let the dull days blossom.
04, encounter difficulties, stand up
Love will make a person brave, become meticulous, and become bold.
If a person falls in love with a person from the bottom of his heart, he will try his best to protect her thoughtfulness.
In the TV series "The Beginning of Love", after Tian Ermai fell in love with Xie Qiao, he became a shadow behind her. No matter what difficulties she encountered, he was by her side.
Whether it is a big thing or a small thing, Tian Ermai can see it in her eyes and then quietly help her solve the problem.
First help her solve the residence, then help her solve the "identity", and then help her solve the driver's license test...
In short, no matter what kind of difficulties Xie Qiao had, Tian Ermai could stand up at the first time. Although Xie Qiao had always looked down on him, he had been silently guarding her.
If a person really loves you in his heart, he will guard you with his heart, take care of you, and not let you be hurt.
Love to the depths, always want to give the other party more sense of security, want to appear at the first time when she encounters difficulties, to shield her from the wind and rain.
Falling in love with someone will become her "hero" and guard her lifelong stability.
05. Summary
Love is meticulous and warm. If a person truly loves you, he will give with his heart, and make you feel loved, cared for, and cherished with his heart.
The person who truly loves you will give you meticulous care and be your hero.
In life, all the sweet words are not worth the action force implemented into life. People who truly love you are always silently paying for you and silently guarding you.
The person who truly loves you will let your heart be filled with love and wrapped in tenderness.
If a person has you in the depths of his heart, he will use his heart to care for each other's feelings, let people feel safe, feel down-to-earth, feel loved and cared for.
If you don't feel love in a person, or even have been in internal friction, leaving early is the best choice.
For the rest of your life, cherish the people who love you deeply. Learn to cherish, you can harvest more happiness.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.