The desire to be loved is an innate need for everyone.
I would like to ask which woman does not long to be loved, not to have a man who knows cold and knows heat, guards her side, and cares for herself.
We often hear a saying: girls should be rich, boys should be poor. The abundance here refers to the spiritual prosperity, giving the girl care and love.
Why can a girl who has not been raised rich since she was a child be easily coaxed away by a candy when she grows up?
It is precisely because of the lack of love since childhood, so her heart is extremely eager to be loved, as long as a boy is a little better for herself, the girl's heart will be easily captured.
In fact, the influence of the environment on women is very large, it will invisibly affect a woman's psychology and thoughts.
A woman who has been lacking love for a long time will have 3 obvious characteristics on her body.
01. Feeling inferior and uneasy inside
Women who have been lacking love for a long time are divided into two situations. Either there is a lack of family love from childhood, or there is little pursuit of the opposite sex around when they grow up.
No matter what kind of situation it belongs to, a woman who lacks love, who has been in a state of being left out for a long time, will feel more and more inferior and insecure in her heart.
She will sincerely think that she is not good enough, not good enough, that she does not deserve to be loved, and will not be welcomed everywhere.
She will also be insecure because there is no one around her who can rely on her, someone who can make her trust.
Such a woman, no doubt, is sad and unfortunate. Because a person who lacks love will lack the confidence to live confidently, lack the courage to face setbacks, and lack the vitality of youth.
However, the more no one loves, the more women have to learn to love themselves. Don't give up on yourself, don't let yourself fall, learn self-respect, self-improvement and self-love, and improve yourself.
Others are not willing to give you pampering, you love yourself, spoil yourself, try to make yourself more confident and excellent, and make yourself a woman worthy of being loved.
02. Feelings become easy and humble
Women who lack love for a long time are more likely to lower their standards and requirements for the other half, and they are more and more satisfied with their feelings, and they can easily open a relationship.
Because I feel that no one loves me, once I meet someone who is not so satisfied with himself, he will accept that person's pursuit of him.
Not only that, women who lack love will also blindly pay in this relationship, flatter each other, want to get the attention of the other party, and want to make the other party cherish themselves more.
In fact, the more comfortable a woman is with her feelings and the more humble she is in love, the more difficult it is for her to achieve happiness.
Because the attitude of the will is easy to make yourself humble, blind giving is easy to make yourself cheap, the moment you lower your posture, you have already lost in this relationship.
The more you lack love, the more you must learn to manage feelings rationally, so that you can enjoy the love of the other party while paying, and let yourself get more pampering in your feelings.
03. Work harder and be more motivated
A woman who has been lacking love for a long time is often left behind no one to rely on and insecure, so she will work harder and make more money to give herself a sense of security.
Because, she knows that in this world, there is no one who can really rely on herself, and the only person who can rely on herself is herself.
Therefore, what one desires to get can only be won by oneself, rather than by begging others to get what one desires in one's heart.
On the other hand, she is in a blank state emotionally, and she can only enrich herself through hard work, to improve herself, and to make her life more solid and meaningful.
When she has achieved achievements and glory in her work, she will be more likely to ignore the gaps in her feelings, focus on her career, and when she makes more money, her heart will have a little more comfort and fullness.
As YiShu said: I want a lot of love, if there is no love, then I need a lot of money.
Emotional Message:
Women who have long lacked love will have 3 obvious characteristics on their bodies.
Her heart will feel inferior and uneasy, she will become willing and humble in her feelings, and she will work harder and more motivated.
I want to say to all women who lack love: May you have a light in the dark and an umbrella in the rain. If not, you can light a lamp for yourself and hold an umbrella for yourself.
Even if no one loves you, you must learn to love yourself well, try to improve yourself, try to make more money, make yourself a confident woman, meet a better person, manage your feelings rationally, and not be humble.
You must know that what you want, including love, can only be pursued and fought for by yourself. If you bloom, the butterflies will come. If you are wonderful, the sky is at your own disposal.
When you become more excellent and more dazzling, naturally someone will see your light and come to your side to love you and cherish you.
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