Fate is an invisible seed.
If one day, it is planted in your heart, it will eventually usher in the opportunity to grow.
In the beginning, maybe you didn't realize it.
Until that seed, with the momentum of the towering sky, everyone will realize that there is a person who has long been hidden in the depths of his heart, and he has been hanging on to him for a long time, and it is really difficult to forget it.
Fate seems to be silent, but it is actually deafening.
When the seed of love grows into a sapling, even if we want to cover it up, it is difficult to do so.
From then on, there will only be one call in the depths of everyone's heart, that is, to fulfill the feelings of two people at any cost, even if they face more tests, they have the confidence to pass.
01
If you don't love, draw a line.
Girls are emotional species.
In the age of love, they are tender and hope to meet a sincere and long-term fate.
From the perspective of love psychology, the direction of girls' lives is often related to love. Especially in the second half of life, what kind of men to get along with directly determines whether they are happy or not.
Aware of this, girls usually don't treat feelings with a casual attitude.
Although it is said that they are full of expectations for love, they hope to live with people who are in love. But I have to admit that love is full of unknowns, and I will also meet people with ulterior motives.
Therefore, the more girls value love, they will also be careful.
In the face of boys' pursuits, they will not give up the psychology of defense, but will choose to draw a clear line with each other. In this way, women can do self-protection.
Of course, if men are sincere enough, they will often use their persistence and sincerity to impress girls step by step. Let the other party let down their guard, try to communicate with themselves, and in the process of communication, gradually conquer the woman's heart.
02
Love you and will treat you like this.
The love of girls is often in a single thought.
Before they are moved, they can guard the bottom line and be a principled woman.
If they do not love a boy, they can remain rational and draw a clear line with each other, for fear of a cross-line action, which will make the boy misunderstand and let others cast strange eyes.
Therefore, girls will be cautious in the expression of emotions.
However, when girls realize that a boy has completely broken into their hearts, they will abandon all principles and spin around the boy, even if the moth puts out the fire, it is not spared.
It's just that love how do you say it?
After all, the personality of girls is subtle, even if they are full of love and hope to hold hands with boys to become lovers, it is difficult for them to take the first step in love, but they will convey their inner admiration through some ways.
Love you to the extreme, women will treat you like this, often can't help it.
03
Ask for your help and get your attention.
Men have to understand the fact that:
As a girl, what does it mean to take the initiative to ask you for help?
The most important day, show that this girl trusts you deep down, so she will expose her personal weaknesses to you, hoping that you can give her some help.
If a girl frequently asks for help from a boy, it is likely to be a sign of admiration.
From the perspective of girls, it is difficult to open their mouths when they meet the boys they like, even if they love each other very much. After all, girls are in a vulnerable position and need to protect themselves.
However, the subconscious mind has the willingness to communicate, how can it bear it!
Smart girls often seek help to fight for opportunities to interact with each other, and through mutual communication, they have a further understanding of boys, and also take this opportunity to let boys pay more attention to themselves.
If you admire each other, then the fate of two people can easily be implemented in the water.
04
Boo Han asks for warmth and wants to give you care.
Gentleness is the biggest charm of girls.
From the perspective of personality, being careful and meticulous is the advantage that many girls have.
However, a woman's gentleness and carefulness will not be used casually on a person. Unless that person is the object of recognition by the girl, they will put that person in their hearts, and grasp the details and convey a considerate side.
In fact, it is not difficult to find such a situation in interpersonal communication:
Girls don't like a boy, she will keep a distance from the other party, and even have the performance of avoiding it.
When women are conquered by the charm of men and want to develop with boys, they will release their gentle and meticulous side, through many details, release their tenderness.
If men are smart enough, they are often able to catch these signals and give emotional feedback.
It is undeniable that many men have a big grinning personality and can easily become a "short-sighted eye" in love. By his side, there is obviously a girl who knows cold and knows heat, but she can't find love for a long time.
05
Ask for advice and trust you completely.
When single, many girls have goals and visions.
They will have their own direction in life and will have a sense of enterprise.
Even some girls will look forward to competing with the men around them and supporting half the sky in the workplace. At this time, women seem to be very wise, and they can also use their own strength to make men throw admiring eyes.
Love, on the other hand, will make girls emotional, and even make them "IQ zero".
When a girl's heart is completely settled in a certain boy, they can easily lose their rational judgment and will act emotionally because of it. When encountering love, the judgment of girls is easy to decline.
However, many girls will give the choice to boys.
Is there a girl around you who always likes to ask for your opinion? As a boy, you must realize that this girl trusts you and admires you, and will respect you and give you the right to choose.
Girls frequently ask you for advice, which is actually a heartbeat signal.
If, just faintly like.
With the passage of time, this emotion is easy to fade and eventually disappear.
If it is deeply loved, it will make people miss it more and more deeply.
Men should know: love you to the extreme, women will treat you like this, don't let her down. Usually, she will attract your attention, have a warm gesture for you, and will fully trust you.
Of course, love is the result of the interaction between two people. When you receive a signal of admiration from girls, if you also care about each other, you may wish to take this opportunity to successfully hold hands with each other. If you have no intention of communicating in your heart, please give a clear signal and do not let the other party misunderstand.
Author: Zhou Woodman, an emotional cultivator with an attitude. Write the warmth of the world, read the heart-warming story, and thank you for your company along the way. I only hope that the years are quiet, the clouds are light and the wind is light, and you and I can pour out our heartfelt feelings when we meet in a piece of text.