Too many feelings, how much love at the beginning, often how much hate after that.
Hate yourself so hard, but the other party has failed himself, hates his own full of true feelings, but is not cherished.
When a person gives up on us, sorry for us, even if we are clearly clear and know that our hearts are full of resentment, it is very bad, it will not affect the other party, but it will only affect ourselves, but we still can't do not hate.
That kind of bad emotion, we don't need to think about it at all, it will naturally pour out.
And whenever we hate someone very much, we even want to do something to make the other person uncomfortable.
We will inevitably have that kind of thinking, but we are also very clear that for the sake of the other party to put in more time and energy, and even into their own lives, it is not worth it after all.
The more we hate, the more it will appear that we care a lot, the easier it is to be looked down upon by the other party, and the more we can't have a future.
Everyone has and only has this life, and of course we don't have to waste our whole life because of one person. And if you really want to put it down, it's actually not so difficult.
Let yourself be better off than ever.
Not being treated well, not being cherished, just being wantonly trampled on by the other party, we can certainly allow ourselves to feel bad for a while.
During this time, we can blame each other, but more, we must also know how to reflect on ourselves.
After all, it was because I didn't know people clearly that I let the other party have that opportunity, and I let myself fall into such an unbearable situation.
We must know how to reflect, of course, not to say, we have to always be trapped in emotions, constantly complaining about ourselves, but to sum up some experiences, summarize some lessons, and let ourselves grow.
After a short period of sinking, we can still not forgive each other, but we must not intensify the anger in our hearts, just bury all those grievances in our hearts, and then live our own lives.
Clean yourself up, exercise your body well, make yourself more radiant than ever, have a good appearance, and have a good physique.
In addition to enriching your own appearance, you should also improve your own inner, as well as enhance your own strength, so that you can become more excellent than ever, with more capital and strength.
Of course, it is more important to take good care of your own heart and meet more and better people.
A little bit of let yourself be reborn, live from the inside out into what you like, to exude your own unique charm.
We always think that hating a person and retaliating against a person should make the other party unhappy, in fact, the most cruel thing is not so, but quietly, if nothing happens, let yourself be better than before, let yourself understand that losing the other party is not a big deal.
The future is better, and naturally it will be forgotten.
When we don't get a chance, we may be disappointed, but if we lose that opportunity and we have a better chance, we will only be full of joy.
Life is really like this, if after leaving that person, our days are just particularly bleak and become particularly bad, then we will really always miss the past, completely unable to extricate ourselves.
Will always think about the bits and pieces with each other, will think that if you are still with each other, then there should be each other, you will also feel that it is because of the other party, you have become so pitiful, invisible, the hatred in your heart, will add a few points.
When things are not good, we really keep thinking about the bad things, thinking about the people who have not treated us well.
Blame all your misfortunes on the other person, as if this is the only way to get better.
On the contrary, if we live well in the days to come, and every day is so dazzling, we really will not always think of the past, think about those bad things, and only completely forget.
The days are more satisfactory, too many things, we really will not always be so calculating, only a particularly broad-minded, but also very tolerant, able to smile at everything in the past, a smile and a vendetta.
Originally, since it was better in the future, it was too late to enjoy it, and of course we did not have to recall those pains.
In the very good years every day, when we are nourished by the present, surrounded by people we like, and the present is a very good thing, we will not miss the people who have failed us at all, and then spend energy to hate a person.
To let go of our hatred for a person, our mindset is important.
More important than the mentality is that we have to do our best to make ourselves better, better than before, better than each other.
Let your life really become what you want, let yourself feel very comfortable and satisfied every day.
It is really that if the days are not good, they will always look back, the days are good, and no one will continue to hate anyone.
Because you really feel that it is not worth it at all, that person, not worthy of their own love, not worthy of their own hatred, hate is too draining of their own hearts, hate is too affecting their own at this moment.
Why hate, just ignore, why hate, although to chase the happiness that truly belongs to you.
All the past, that is just the prologue, the present moment, that is our life.
In this life, after all, there is nothing more important than loving yourself well, than living your own life well.
Text/Tan Meng
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