Husband and wife are not in tune with each other, how uncomfortable life should be

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Author: Li Liushen

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How many people in heaven and earth are trapped by love?

Husband and wife are not in tune with each other, how uncomfortable life should be

He and she had been introduced to each other, and he said that the moment they met, he found her drowsy and unconscious, her long hair covering her forehead, as if she were in front of her a dense forest.

He was dismissive, and there was only one thought in his mind, wasn't it just to meet? As for what follows, let it be left to fate!

How many layers of meaning does his resignation contain? Will he try to catch up? Will you mediate between them? Will this meeting turn into a breeze in the air?

Suddenly I heard that she was a hard-working girl, from morning to night, overtime, the whole person is like a tough guy with iron, no matter how tossed, she will not scream bitterly, and her voice is tired.

Her environment determines her life.

The family was poor, her mother died early, her father remarried, she was like a helpless orphan, like a wild horse without reins, like a free beggar, but she was strong.

Listening to the brief introductions of the crowd and recalling the momentary meeting, he fell into meditation: There was no feeling at that time! Even, a trace of disgust remained in the heart. However, the thoughts in front of me seemed to be another 360-degree turn.

Is it compassion?

It's terrible, if you integrate this mood into love, then the future life will change its original appearance.

If she doesn't buy his account at all, what will happen to her life after marriage?

He did not agree, and she also had some resistance, and the ghost made the gods come together again. Perhaps this is providence, and the debts owed in the previous life will eventually be repaid.

On the wedding day, due to the unpleasant disturbance between the guests, the whole cottage was sensationalized.

At that time, young people could not argue over a small matter, and they could even fight hard, even if they saw blood. What was unexpected was that there were two groups of people who made trouble that day, one was his family's guests, and the other was his and her relatives. This made his heart very disgusted, and he repeatedly thought: How could my wedding feast alarm the whole village?

They didn't have a happy wedding, they didn't have a happy cave flower candle night, and perhaps, this was destined to be a different marriage.

What kind of beginning, what kind of ending will there be?

Life after marriage is indeed full of stories.

She wanted to go, he didn't want to stay, she wanted to leave him as soon as possible, but unexpectedly found out that she was pregnant again.

What is even more unexpected is that he always looks at her unfavorably, and she is not a woman who obeys men.

He wanted to change her, and she wanted him to obey her. They made a common mistake: they only wanted to change each other, but did not think about changing themselves and adapt to each other.

The main party of the contradiction in the first few years was him, and the main party of the contradiction in the following years was her. This is not a dramatic change, or it may be a long time to change the other party without results, change the other party to change yourself.

Men want to change themselves and adapt to each other. The woman hated him and only wanted to see him as a contractor who earned money to support his family, and was by no means a husband and wife who depended on each other.

What is even more unexpected is that the big and small things between them cannot step on a point.

Three meals a day, she wants to eat scrambled eggs with tomatoes, but he wants to eat meat dishes, he wants to eat dried rice, she wants to drink porridge, she said spicy, he hates to eat peppers, she said salt is the first of all tastes, if you want to taste delicious, you have to put more salt, but he prefers to eat a little lighter.

Eating and drinking can not be a pot of rice, the purchase and placement of indoor items, the same can not be imagined together. He wanted to decorate the wall with a few landscape paintings, but she hated to paste and hang randomly, he wanted to put a few green plants indoors, but she didn't like to sit indoors.

He wants to buy antique furniture, but she prefers to catch up with the fashion, she said, the new furniture is more attractive.

He likes light colors, and she prefers dark colors.

In terms of dressing, she likes traditional simplicity, but he likes neat and rigorous.

In daily life, they can't think of big and small things together, sometimes no one will give in, and sometimes one party will put up an indifferent posture.

What is even more unexpected is that the conjugal life of two people is not in tune.

When he wants, she always refuses for various reasons, soft and hard grinding can not change, when she wants, he is always busy with something to make her satisfied. Sometimes she endured, sometimes he gritted his teeth and insisted, and occasionally lay together, definitely not tender as water, not crazy.

The infinite pleasures of the world have left them lost.

You think about how hard it would be to live like this.

I don't know how many times he sat quietly under the lone lamp and reflected: Oh my God, when will we be able to unite and move forward hand in hand?

Get along harmoniously, closely united, sweet and happy, happy and happy