Introduction: Life is like a fruit, when it is ripe, there is no taste, and we naturally hate it. Only when it is still half-baked is it particularly attractive.
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In recent years, many people have asked the question, why do I work so hard and still get nothing?
There are also people who think that everyone is a person with one mouth, one nose, two ears, and two eyes, why is there such a big gap?
Different people have come to different conclusions about these questions.
Some people who advocate numerology feel that this is what is called fate. Fate sometimes has to have it, and fate must not demand it at any time. Whether you can get everything that belongs to you can only depend on your fate.
Some people who advocate chicken soup science feel that this is the result of their lack of effort. Some people work hard, some people don't, so the results are often different.
There are also some people who feel that since it is useless to struggle, it is better to lie flat on the Buddhist system.
The above views cannot be said to be wrong, but they are not necessarily correct. Some things, speaking of space holes, are not interesting. Some things, too much to say, are tired, meaningless.
For ordinary people, what really pushes themselves into the abyss is usually the blind effort of individuals.
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Blind giving is usually worthless.
Xiao A is a high-achieving student who graduated in 211 and came to Guangzhou to work hard as soon as he graduated. In his view, as long as he works hard, he will certainly be able to gain a foothold in the city and get ahead.
Especially after Xiao A came into contact with some network information, he felt that he could earn 50,000 yuan a month, or even 100,000 yuan a month, at a certain moment in the future, which made him look forward to the future.
It's just that life is often disappointing.
Xiao A has worked in a private company for several years, the monthly salary is still about 9,000 yuan, plus the bonus at the end of the year, the annual salary is about 120,000. In this regard, Xiao A can't help but sigh, after a year, the savings are not much, which is really sad.
In the past three years, due to the problems in the general environment, everyone has faced a huge risk of unemployment. And Little A also successfully lost his job in 2022, and now he can only return to his hometown, full of unwillingness.
In fact, this is the situation of young people in big cities that is particularly common. Even if they have higher academic qualifications, they still can't mix, and finally they have no choice but to say goodbye, and their hearts are sad.
This only shows that always putting all your hopes on the boss of the company, that does not work. In other words, the harder you work, the more you build not your own business, but someone else's business. So, who can have the day to emerge?
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Your efforts need to be set in the right direction.
We've heard a lot of talks from successful people, we've heard a lot of celebrity speakers talk about it, and we feel like they're talking very well, but we still can't hear where the point is.
Why is there such a situation of "not being able to hear" the main points?
I have a friend who runs a studio and often tells me that if others make money, how can they tell you the secret?
That is to say, the secret of success that we hear every day is either that others pit you, or that others cheat you in order to make you money, or that others fool you into using.
Professor Zeng Shiqiang believes that like hard work, everyone will say things, don't say it, it is generally nonsense.
If this is the case, is there no way out for ordinary people? In fact, we need to remember this principle, find a good direction and continue to deepen the cultivation.
That is to say, you are a person in which industry, then you will continue to cultivate in which industry, with the law of ten thousand hours, to smooth out the obstacles and angles of this industry to you.
The direction is not chosen correctly, even if you take a rocket to pursue your dreams, it is useless. If you choose the right direction, then you will get up quickly.
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Avoid the abyss and find another way.
Some time ago, I met a young man in my peers. Although the young man has an average education, his personal ability is particularly strong, and he has already saved 700,000 yuan before the age of 24.
In this regard, we are all particularly amazed, some families do not have seven hundred thousand savings together, where did you come from with seven hundred thousand?
The young man said only one sentence: "When I was in college, I buried my head in the Internet, and studied it all year round, without the slightest three-minute heat, wasn't it a small achievement?" ”
Life, there is no such thing as a single wooden bridge and a Kangzhuang Avenue, what we pursue, should be what we are suitable for, and then do what we do, into the wood three points, and finally in the vast market to get a piece of the pie.
There are too many people, before the age of 30, before the age of 40, still confused and do not know what they want to pursue. As a result, 99% of people waste their lives in meaningless pursuits.
In the end, it was a failure.
Again, what life needs is not a work machine that goes with the flow and has no thought, but a strong person who knows how to create value for himself and for himself, and gradually precipitates.
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