The child reads very hard, but the grades cannot be improved? Maybe your child's reading method is wrong

Every parent wants to hope that the child will become a dragon, and the daughter will become a phoenix, and every parent will do everything in his power to provide the best educational environment for his children, but many parents hope that their efforts to their children can get the ideal of their children's achievements as a return, but many parents are distressed that obviously parents are working hard, but the children always have no grades, which makes parents worry, but also must not vaguely comfort themselves, maybe the exam questions are too difficult, maybe the teacher has some knowledge points that are not mentioned, maybe their children's qualifications are ordinary, not the learning block In fact, these are the reasons why parents comfort themselves with their own illusions, and there is no real reason to help their children find out the cause of the problem! So, today Watermelon Dad helps parents share the most fundamental reason why the child's grades have never been raised!

As a parent, have you ever observed your child in this way, when the child is playing a game, you call him a sound or two, he will not bring you back, but if he is reading, you gently talk about him, he can hear it? Why? Because the child's state of affairs is different!

Some parents sent me private messages saying that they found that their children's eyes were sluggish when they read books, and I said, you give your mobile phone to your children to play, and see if his eyes are still sluggish or not? The answer is yes, when the electronic product is placed in front of the child, the child's eyes are immersed in the electronic screen!

Sometimes you can observe, not only children, everyone will have this feeling, sometimes do a thing, not only do not feel tired but feel very finished very cool, think that only a few minutes have passed, in fact, has unconsciously passed several hours, for example, children like the glory of the king, eat chicken games, mothers like the court drama Korean drama, fathers like the ball game, the elderly like to play chess, etc., is there that kind of immersion in the plot of the feeling? Yes! Everyone has it, in fact, there is everything, but many people don't immerse themselves in that thing! The same is true for children, for example, children are playing games, you let the child put down the mobile phone, eat or write homework, the child said to play this round, but you are half an hour later, found that the child is still playing, you argue with the child, but the child feels, I just play for a few more minutes, you argue with me, but also let me hang up the machine to harm teammates, although the time is fair, but in the treatment of different things is different!

So, why can't children indulge in learning? And addicted to games? First, let's talk about a brain instinct! Human beings do not have textbooks to learn, and learning is a short history for the evolution of the human brain! Humans were primitive in the beginning, hominids didn't need to learn, all they had to do every day was to run around, hunt, or not be eaten by other species! Then in ancient times, people did not read much, at most learned a cultivated land textile, can live on the line! And now, we have to do classroom learning, everything is limited, which in itself is a difficult thing for species to evolve! Second, our brains are more focused on dynamic things than static! For example, children are more focused on reading comic books than reading texts!

Then there is a clear contrast between games, animations and words 9:1, while books, illustrations and words account for 1:9, so the child has a sharp contrast in what is touched!

Moreover, a professor once said that the road in front of the school cannot be built because 90% of the people will not take the overpass, and if the underpass is built, everyone will take the underpass, the same is the crossing, the distance is the same. The steps are the same, why is there such a difference? Because the first is to pay hard work first, go up, and then enjoy going down, and the second is to enjoy going down first, and then go up after paying hard work! Is there a difference? There really is! Everyone has inertia, and this inertia is given by the brain, called the enjoyment effect! When you need to make a choice, the brain will prioritize the simpler things that can make the brain more comfortable to do! Just like we learn, learning is a process that needs to be thought, thinking will make the brain more tired, so the brain is very repulsive to the process of learning, and games are some processes that do not require the brain to think, so learning and games, the brain instinctively lets us choose the game!

So how to let children learn better and more effectively, it is like the school entrance to this overpass and underpass, first of all, when there is no underpass, only across the road and overpass, most people will choose to cross the road, because the overpass to take the stairs tired, even if crossing the road is dangerous, but will also choose to cross the road! But what if there are only crossings and underpasses? Everyone will choose the underground passage. Because going down the stairs is very labor-saving and can reduce the occurrence of danger! Learning, like going up the stairs or down the stairs, the same choice!

We as parents first of all to give the child an analysis, life is like crossing the road, there are only two choices, the first is through the overpass, the second is through the underground passage, the overpass is like the first half of life is very bitter, because to try to climb up, but the second half of life is more relaxed, but if you choose the underground passage, that is the first half of life is very relaxed, but the second half of life is more tired, this is the value of life!

People only know their own values, life will have a direction, otherwise, the confused life is like a sailboat in the fog, always feel that they are wrong, people are the same, when you do not know how to pursue the goal, you will be very depleted of your own energy, because you put your energy on this matter is not right, can you achieve effective results, so, doomed to go far! Only when people are firm in their dreams will they have enough energy to struggle and realize their dreams! The road under your feet will be clearer, and the difficulties will be farther away!

Therefore, the first step to learn well is to help children establish a correct outlook on life, values and worldview! Let the child pursue their own life, just like the saying, after starting a business, I know that every day to wake up their own alarm clock but dreams! When a person has a dream and strives towards the dream, you will find that this person is no longer the original one!

In addition to helping children establish the right values, there is also a way to teach children, called immersive learning! It's a super effective way to learn!

We recall our daily routine, is not a lot of actions without thinking about the action will be done, for example, in the morning, no matter how sleepy you are, you will go to the bathroom to wash up, this needs to think about the brain? Nope! So. To give to get a book to learn an inertia that does not require thinking!

Many people always feel tired when studying, and they are groggy after reading a book for a while, because the brain neurons are not active. Reading a book is just a mechanical action for you, and it doesn't cause your brain to function.

We are doing a lot of movements, all of which are subconsciously operating, and the brain doesn't have to think. One day you suddenly want to insert a step in the middle, you have to remember it specifically, and then your brain starts to turn.

Athletes have to warm up before the game, computers need to be run with drivers installed, and the brain needs a clear signal that it is about to enter a more efficient and tense "true learning state".

Therefore, every time you read a book, you need to start the brain first. Just like the athlete warms up, how to make the brain start, in fact, is very simple, every time I go to read a book, I will first take a few deep breaths, so that the brain cells are more oxygenated, and the brain is active!

In fact, there are many ways, because the number of words is limited, I will not give examples one by one, how to do it effectively for children, then such a method is a good way, today let's talk about this first, the next issue we will continue to talk!