Wen | Ling Wheat
Write the warmest words, heal the lonely heart, pay attention to me, and warm you.
Zeng Guofan said:
"The quality of talent is mainly based on his ambition and interest. The lowly people, who abide by the vulgar laws, follow the clouds and go with the flow, and the longer the time, the more despicable they fall into the inferiority; the more noble people, admire and learn from the sages and sages of the past, for a long time, increasingly high-class, more and more excellent. ”
Everyone is yearning for a good life, everyone is improving their living standards and spiritual level, and only by enriching themselves will they become high-level people.
The level of your life determines your life, and what kind of life you can live depends entirely on what level of person you are. The level of man is not in the position of wealth, but in the pattern and cultivation.
Being a person is hierarchical, and improving yourself is the real skill. Life is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat. When you are young, you must work hard to improve yourself, otherwise you will only be eliminated. We must strive to become a better version of ourselves in the future.
When a person likes to put energy and time on meaningless things, then it means that the lower the level of the person, it is difficult to have a big appearance in the future. "The lower the level of people, the more like to do these 3 things", if found, change it in time.
Likes to complain and vent negative energy.
The World Without Complaining mentions:
"The most important thing in life is to focus on what we want, not what we don't want."
People with high levels will never complain, but will only face themselves squarely. The lower the level of people, the more they like to complain. And the more you complain, the worse your life gets.
Complaining will only annoy you more, it will distract you, drain your energy, break your confidence, and destroy your mobility. We only have to adapt and learn to change ourselves!
Life doesn't change because of your complaints, and the more you complain about the status quo, it will only fill your heart with darkness and bad luck. And when you stop complaining and are willing to work hard for your own happiness, then your life will become better.
I like to say right and wrong behind people's backs and expose people's shortcomings.
In the "Aphorisms", it is said: Meditation is often thought of oneself, and idle talk is not about others.
The lower the level of people, the more likely to talk about right and wrong. They are keen to use gossip and gossip as talk. Sharing the other person's troubles with others without the slightest care seems to be having fun sharing gossip without regard to the feelings of others.
Don't keep your eyes on others and talk about others with your mouth. To be the non-person is to be the non-human. People who are used to manipulating right and wrong, and the length of Daoist people are usually people who lack cultivation and have problems.
Do not do evil for the sake of being small, and do not do it with the smallness of good. If you still have a trace of goodness in your heart, if you don't know the truth, you must not talk about others behind your back, because this is the bottom line of goodness.
Likes to participate in garbage socializing, comparing to show off.
"Things are clustered in groups, and people are grouped."
Follow the flies to find the stinky gutters, follow the bees to find the flowers, follow the butterflies and smell the flowers. Your social circle also determines what level of person you may become.
Conversely, the lower the level of people, the more they like to flirt with the garbage social networking that shows off, because they want to usually show off to get praise from others, to satisfy their own vain and restless hearts.
When making friends, we should be cautious, rather than indiscriminate, not demanding quantity, but demanding quality. For low-quality social networking, we must quickly cut through the mess as soon as possible, and don't have a little pity.
As written in The Detective Sherlock Holmes, the human brain is like an empty little attic, and some furniture should be selectively packed into it. Only a fool would fit into all sorts of crap that he encountered.
Wheat message: Take your own life well, in order to truly improve yourself, improve yourself.
The difference between people is not rich or poor, but in the level of cognition. Different levels of life, the focus and direction of efforts are also different.
In this era, the competition between people is essentially a hierarchical competition. Where you spend your time, you will become what kind of person you become. The lower the level of people, the more they like to spend time on these 3 things.
A person's level is cultivated by one's own efforts. Only by constantly learning and constantly reflecting can you reach a higher level. At the bottom of life, the focus of efforts is to improve their own ability, and the direction is to accumulate their own strength
Wasting time is tantamount to committing suicide in chronic condition. Making the most of your time and making every minute and second worthwhile is of great significance to improving yourself.
Life is an effort to improve, without the effort to improve, you can not change the level of your life. By abandoning those useless social interactions and improving yourself, your world can be bigger and the level of your life will be improved.