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Before Tuanzi's mother got up in the morning, she heard the community workers downstairs shouting for nucleic acid. When I went downstairs, I found that the line had been lined up for a long time, and after just a while in line, there was a quarrel in the front line.
After listening to a sentence, I knew that it was someone who lined up on behalf of me, and the later people directly inserted themselves into the line, but the people behind them were dissatisfied with this and quarreled.
Since the outbreak of the epidemic, queuing up to do nucleic acid has become a common situation in life, but because the queue is too long, some people are unwilling to blow cold wind outside, and there is a "substitute queue" please situation.
Under normal circumstances, it is the adults in the family who line up for the elderly or children, but recently there is a child who undertakes the work of queuing up for the family of 8.
Meng Wa was alone, queuing up for the 8 adults in the family
Recently, a cute baby instead of the adults at home to queue up to do nucleic acid video fire, netizens have seen the tips behind the cute baby, have ridiculed this session of parents strength pit baby.
It turned out that among the many queues waiting to do nucleic acid, there was a small person in the queue, but there was no adult around her, only she was alone in the queue. But the most interesting thing is that there is a "proxy announcement" posted on the back of the child, which reads: Grandma, Mom, Sister, Dad, Grandma, Grandpa, Aunt, Aunt, a total of 8 people.
This wave of operations directly to the people queuing behind the whole ignorance, dare to love their own hard queue, did not expect to count the front of the child, there are 9 people ~ the back of the people also think it is very interesting, take out the mobile phone to shoot this scene.
During the period has also been talking to Meng Wa, asking where the child is, the number of people in the row is quite a lot ~ but no matter what they say, the front child is not stubble, not a word back, it seems that the safety awareness of the adults at home is very good, the children do not know the people do not speak, so that the adults behind are also a little overwhelmed.
Netizens have complained: This year's adults are really strength pit dolls
Netizens saw the content in the video, but also felt very interesting, have ridiculed: this year's parents are too difficult to bring, do nucleic acid queuing this thing can let children do the work, it is indeed the strength pit baby.
However, some netizens feel that such behavior is not good. It is not easy to queue up to do nucleic acid everyone, the family has the old, weak, sick and disabled generation row can be understood, but the strong people should still come down to line up by themselves, let the children help the platoon, is to see that others will not be embarrassed by the psychology of a small child, typical of not respecting the rules of the game.
Tuanzi Mama did not understand what such an adult really thought, let a small child to queue, and their understanding of "generation" seems to be different.
The meaning of "generation queue" is that another person comes, and the person in the generation line must leave, otherwise it is called cutting in line. It is not too unfair to the people in front of you like this, but suddenly 7 or 8 people are inserted in front of you.
Although queuing is a very small thing, it is precisely from these small things that you can see a person's upbringing. The ancients said: "Three years old looks big, seven years old looks old." Parenting is not formed overnight, and when you are young, you have not been properly cultivated, and you will not get better when you grow up.
It doesn't matter if the child makes mistakes and doesn't understand things, the parents who are most afraid of being the child's leader lack the correct concept of parenting, if there is no basic quality concept here in the parents, then there will not be too much good education in educating the child.
When we encounter irregularities in life, we should explain these three things to our children
First: Show your attitude
When encountering others who do not follow the rules, or children who do not follow the rules, make it clear to the child that although violating the rules can take advantage, such behavior is not right, and then explain why you should follow the rules.
Like crossing the street to wait for the red light, the reason why you have to wait for the green light to go is because it is not safe to run the red light, and to do things in line, it is also to complete it in a better orderly manner.
People are born with a habit of feeling that they are forced to break the rules, and others breaking the rules is moral corruption, helping others explain in front of the child, and by the way, it can also enhance the child's empathy ability.
Second, lead by example
In "teaching by example", the power of "teaching by example" is far greater than that of "teaching by example", and children's abstract thinking ability and social cognitive ability are still very poor, and more are learned through imitation.
To establish the value of following the rules, parents must first do it. If you want your child to study well, you must first set an example of loving reading; if you want your child not to indulge in electronic products, parents must first put down their mobile phones. Naturally, if you want your child to follow the rules, parents can't encourage their children to cut in line.
Third, if necessary, parents intervene
Of course, in addition to speaking the truth and leading by example with their children, parents should also teach their children to defend their fairness if necessary. Blindly "strict self-discipline, leniency to others" is far from enough, when other people's behavior violates their own rights and interests, then they should stand up.
Especially when the child is in line outside, when someone is arbitrarily in line, he must speak out to stop it, although such behavior is easy to conflict with others, but this is actually leading by example, telling the child with actions that justice is more important than superficial harmony.
Today's topic: What do you think of the behavior of "queuing"?