It is normal for children to cry, and children crying is generally to get something to achieve some purpose!
For example, when a child sees a toy, he will beg his mother to let his mother buy it, and if his mother does not buy it, the child will cry, and this kind of crying is the cry of wanting to get something!
Another example is that the child at home is playing with toys, you let the child put it away, or you directly do not let the child play, argue with him or forcibly put it away, then the child will also cry, which belongs to the purpose of wanting to play more!
So when the child uses crying to express, it is a good time to communicate with the child, I have seen many parents will ask the child with a high decibel loud voice, and even angrily say, you know to cry, or that if you want to cry again, I will throw you out, cry again I will not want you, etc. To achieve the state of ordering the child to stop crying, if the child can not stop crying, but cry louder to resist the parents, the parents will suppress with absolute force, and then slap the child's ass, Use children to educate children, in fact, this way of education, I think it is not correct, and when my children cry, I generally quietly watch next to them now, because children cry is crying for adults to see, so I will watch silently next to me, I will tell children, wait until you are tired of crying, no longer crying, we will solve the problem again! Then communicate with the child!
What we have to do is not to make the child afraid of himself, but to let the child understand that we do this for his own good, we should be friends with the child, not the same as the superiors and subordinates of the unit, the child will tell us his ideas, of course, the child's ideas are very one-sided. We must guide the child, teach the child, let the child understand the correct values, and understand each other with the child, so that the child will not go to the nonsense, but also understand that some things should not be done, and then to restrain their own behavior, this is the best way to parenting!