If you only look at short-term circle of friends information, then it is difficult to judge the nature of a man! But if you observe for more than half a year, then you can basically see the true color of a man! A person can wear a camouflage mask for a short time, but it is difficult to wear it for a long time! So, if you want to observe a person, take a closer look at TA's WeChat circle of friends!
However, there is a question here: how to observe his circle of friends, and what is the criterion for judging? In fact, for a man, if in the circle of friends, the more these things are done, the more incompetent it is! Therefore, observing his circle of friends, you can focus on these points.
Next, let's talk about this topic and see how many you know! It should be noted that the following points are common phenomena and do not cover all cases. Therefore, in some special cases, we still need to carefully analyze and deliberate.
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Chicken soup all day long, which may not be possible in reality!
As we all know, there are many men who send chicken soup for the soul in the WeChat circle of friends every day, and the chicken soup for the soul has become an indispensable part of his life. However, there are two problems with chicken soup for the soul, (1) chicken soup becomes poison, and (2) people who make chicken soup every day may be frustrated in real life, so they are pinned on the illusory spiritual world! The really capable men are living in reality, how many chicken soup are there?
All day Long Bo sympathy, giving people feel incompetent!
Frankly speaking, in life, every day will encounter various setbacks and difficulties, and no one will be an exception! However, men with ability are generally "stuffy" to deal with. On the contrary, men who have no ability will send their difficulties, feelings, helplessness, etc. to the circle of friends to win sympathy and attention. Have you ever seen a man with ability, and he sighed in the circle of friends all day? Of course, the difficulties mentioned here are of a general nature and are not insurmountable!
Showing off all day is actually just fat!
I think you must have seen it, showing off in the circle of friends all day, going to what high-end restaurants, what good wine was drunk, what good dishes were eaten, what good watches were worn, and what cattle people were with....... In short, the circle of friends has become a place for him to show off! However, have you ever seen a man with ability to show off these things? In fact, the more people lack something, the easier it is to show off something! Showing off all day, in fact, may be a swollen face to fill the fat!
Complain all day, but never think ahead!
Capable men have always been activists, and they have no time to complain! However, the man who did not do anything, full of negative energy, could smell it from 10 miles away. In the WeChat circle of friends, you can see: he sends all kinds of complaints all day long, complains about social injustice, complains about bad luck, complains that friends are not interesting enough, and so on. In fact, he didn't think about it, how could he have ever been enterprising?
Make accusations all day and judge others!
Objectively speaking, there are not many people in this kind, but there are also some, that is, all day in the circle of friends, pushing evaluations of others, including accusations. In short, he often criticizes others, thinking that others do not do well this, and that does not do right, as if he is the standard! Will people with the ability do this? Men who really have the ability will not be so narrow- and even if they encounter problems, they will think about themselves first! Even if others are wrong, they may have a laugh!
In the above five situations, if there are five kinds of men in the middle, then everyone must meet the best men! Generally speaking, men can be in two or so, it is already incomprehensible. It should be noted that in the above five cases, many men may have done it occasionally, which is harmless. But if you do it all day or every three or five minutes, then it means that this man is better off staying away! Gossip, really capable men, either the content of the circle of friends is very real, or basically do not send a circle of friends, do not believe that everyone to take a closer look