Mordaunt is late, and the world is heavy and sunny.
Hideko Yamashita said in "Breaking Away": "Breaking away is the action technology of understanding yourself through sorting out items, sorting out inner chaos, and making people comfortable, in other words, using the debris at home to sort out the inner waste and make people happy." ”
This is true not only for objects, but also for life. But this kind of thing is easier said than done, and if you want to achieve the effect, you need to constantly adjust your mentality and persevere.
Born on a different starting line, relying on their own ability to fight. Do not compare with others, only compare with yourself, as long as you are moving forward, you are a winner in life.
When we reach the age of retirement, it means that this period of life is over. Whether you accept it or not, you need to dress up, identify the direction, and set sail again.
As long as you know how to enjoy the advancement of life, getting old is also a kind of scenery. Even retirement does not mean doing nothing, but rather symbolizes the beginning of a new life.
When we have tasted the sweet and sour, bitter and spicy, we will not be as ignorant as when we first arrived in this world, so life is a new world.
After retirement, learn to "clear zero".
Zero out unnecessary relationships
After retirement, you don't have to be keen on socializing, busy yourself like a top, but you can't get into the hearts of others.
The best relationship we're looking for is one that doesn't get tired of getting along, you know my difficulties, and I can empathize with your hardships.
Talk to each other when you need it, and don't bother each other when you're busy.
Clean up those unnecessary relationships, leave two or three confidants, accompany each other, and arrange your life.
The meaningless circle should not be mixed anymore, care about the relatives around you, care about your children, and when the time is free, the heart will not be so tired.
Seeing all the prosperity of the world, we must also have the ability to accept the loneliness of people walking in the tea and cold, those meaningless relationships, let it go with the wind.
Say goodbye to your past self, so that you can not only allow your imperfections, but also be able to shake off the past achievements.
Zero out the troubles that can't be solved
The best state after retirement is peace of mind, if the heart is good, everywhere is spring.
The best skin care products are smiles, and what supplements to eat are not as effective as a good mood for a strong fitness body.
Those who have loved, those who have been sad, do not have to struggle anymore, take care of themselves is the best way to provide for the elderly.
People have worked hard and hard for themselves, for their children, and for the elderly in this life, and it seems that only after retirement can they truly calm down and enjoy life.
Man, with time to become more "indifferent", is also a kind of survival wisdom.
After leisure, remember not to meddle in the affairs of your children, to help them when they turn to them for help, and when they do not need it, leave them with the opportunity to hone, do not influence their lives.
In this way, there will naturally be a lot less trouble and sorrow in life.
Clear out the clutter that wastes space and time
When our body and energy are not as good as before, we will clear away the clutter that occupies space and wastes time, and the mind will also penetrate.
Although thrift and thrift are our traditional virtues, the long-term stacking of useless items in the home not only occupies living space, but also affects physical health.
After retirement, we have time, we must remember to clean up in time. Donate or throw away items that have not been used for many years and let them be used to the fullest.
And after a big tidy up once or twice, we don't have to waste our precious time on these trivialities.
The time wasted every day to sort out the clutter is used to actively exercise, to exercise, to make oneself full of spirit, is to truly understand life.
Health is their own, repeat the simple things, people who can stick to it, will definitely get the rewards of life.
Once, we lived for many people, and in the future, we must know how to live for ourselves.
When people are old, it is estimated that it is inevitable, but as long as they have their own interests and hobbies, they can immerse themselves in it and enjoy themselves alone.
When you have spiritual dependence, you will not be bound by the past, and you will not be intimidated by the unknown.
After retirement, we must also maintain a normal heart and plan our lives.
Man's life is only three days, the confused people live yesterday, the extravagant people live tomorrow, and only the clear people live today.
Don't look down on yourself, don't be proud of others, contentment can always be happy. Be kind to people, think openly, and see down, not smooth, but with the encounter.
Forget age, forget the past, forget grievances, live authentically, comfortably, and live your old age in peace.
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[Wen | Wei Wei'an: the pen has temperature, for the voice of emotion, an atypical writer who loves words, invites you to perceive life together]