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In today's globalized world, people's lives have ushered in a big explosion of changes, and a variety of objects have come into view.
What you wear and use may come from the other side of the ocean, across thousands of mountains and rivers.
People have more choices, so many people will encounter a problem, that is, the wallet is getting flatter and flatter, but buying more and more things.
In fact, if you look closely at the things piled up in your home, you will find that many things are useless.
Impulse consumption may bring you temporary happiness, but soon you will feel empty, because this happiness is very short-lived, and with it comes the troubles of facing an empty wallet.
Take a weekend and take a closer look at your home, distinguishing between what you think is useful and what you think is useful and what you use once and then never use it again, and you'll find that most of our money is actually spent on things that we like at first glance and don't use later.
Therefore, don't shout poor anymore, in fact, a big reason is that you don't know how to live in the way of "breaking away", and you always can't control your desire to buy and buy.
So, even if you spend a lot of money on a lot of things, you still don't live your own life.
The older you get, the more you will understand: renunciation is really the wisdom of a smart woman's life.
What is renunciation?
This is a concept proposed by "miscellaneous goods management consultant" Hideko Yamashita in 2001.
Breaking is equivalent to not buying and not charging unwanted things;
Giving up is equivalent to disposing of useless things that are piled up in the home;
Separation is equivalent to abandoning the obsession with matter and putting yourself in a spacious, comfortable, and free space.
To put it simply, it is to give up the unnecessary things that will add burden to your life, and your life will be easier.
In fact, renunciation is not only a kind of family storage, but also a philosophy of life.
Most of the women who know how to give up have a hundred times easier life than those who like to hoard.
Renunciation is the wisdom of life of a smart woman, a smart woman knows how to spend money on the blade, what things to buy, which things not to buy, and she has a scale in her heart.
If you like that thing, but it's expensive, you might as well try it for a week.
If, after a week, you still want to buy it, then don't hesitate to buy it, there is nothing wrong with it except expensive.
Many women will be very entangled when buying things, such as eye shadow, there are many colors of eye shadow, but in fact, in general, it is divided into daily earth color system or color system.
Most women have more than one eyeshadow plate on their hands, in fact, many eyeshadow colors are repeated, repeatedly buy their own existing eyeshadow color system, it will cause you to buy a lot of eye shadow with the same effect, the old one can't be used up, the new one is used for two days and does not want to use it, and finally put it on the dresser to eat ash.
When choosing an item, you should think about whether you need it, as well as its frequency of use in daily life, consider its cost performance to buy, and avoid repeated purchases of products with similar functions.
This can save you a lot of money, while reducing the accumulation of useless items in the home, making the interior of the house cleaner and cleaner.
"Breaking away" is not to let women only buy expensive, not to buy the right, but to comprehensively consider your needs for this product, the same two products, if only the price is different, it must be the cheaper one.
Be wary of things with the word "flat", you have to believe that many things its cost determines that its price will not be very cheap.
Expensive things are expensive in itself, the so-called "flat replacement" many times even one-tenth of the effect of formal clothing, rather than buying useless flat replacement, it is better to save money to buy formal clothing.
Integrate the "breakaway" thinking into all aspects of your life, and you will find that your life can be so crisp and clean.
Buying something is only considered to be practical, not that the thing is "so cute, bought" and then placed in a corner of the house and never remembered.
When everything in your life is a product with a high reuse rate, you can appreciate the convenience and efficiency of life.
Similarly, "breaking away" is also very applicable in interpersonal communication, many women know that the other party is not the right person, but still reluctant to break up, which will only make themselves deeply involved, not only let the pain elongate, but also likely to waste all your youth.
It is not your fault to love the wrong person, and it is wrong not to give up knowing that there is no result.
Say goodbye to the wrong person in time to have the opportunity to meet the right person, cut off the thoughts that should not be there, give up the feelings of the past, leave this sad city, and start a new life.
Have the courage to say goodbye to those tasteless and discarded "chicken ribs", you feel very tired on the way forward in life, many times it is because there are too many such "debris" piled up on the body, if you want to go faster, you should have a big cleanup of your own life, and you can go further with light equipment.
In a human room, almost a quarter of everything is useless "garbage", throwing away completely useless things, giving useful things that you don't need to those who need them, this is the philosophy of life written by Hideko Yamashita in the book "Breaking Away", and her way of organizing is not only a fire in Japan, but also a frenzy in China.
Many people try to live in a "broken" way, after practice has proved that the things that are discarded do make life more tidy, many people get rid of their laziness and procrastination in the process, life begins to return to normal, and the work is more comfortable.
Make life simple, simple does not mean monotonous, simplicity can make life more possibilities, stimulate people's creative thinking.
If you're also dissatisfied with your current life, start with a life overhaul.
Sort out your own house first, and then try to sort out your own life, think repeatedly about which people obviously have no need to communicate, but still consume your energy, it is time to say goodbye to them, live a life that follows their own heart, and give yourself a new start.